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Gentleman John

For when you get tired of the vulgar men

About Me


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Amazing Discovery Proves We Will Be Fabulous Friends!
To make the discovery, please read some of my most deeply held beliefs, which follow. Then compare those beliefs with your own.
The beliefs:
• This universe was constructed and is maintained by a loving intelligence that responds to us.
• We are in this world to love and help each other and learn from our experiences.
• Humans , while largely driven by pain and pleasure, mainly want to be understood, acknowledged, accepted and appreciated.
• The greatest gift we can ever give others is to just listen to them and be accepting of who they are.
• Our time on earth is limited, but we spend way too much of it arguing, complaining, feeling bad about past events and worrying about future ones.
• Fear, more than anything else, holds people back from having what they want , but brings a lot of things into their lives that they don’t want.
• In general, women work harder at relationships then men do, and when breakups occur, it is most often largely the man’s fault.
• Men can't get enough sex, and woman can't get enough love.
• Men and women were not here to be enemies, but to support each other, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
• Women deserve much more credit than they ever get with regard to making life worth living.
• Children, although challenging at times, are the greatest gift adults can experience as well as their best teachers.
• Being a mother is the most important, poorest paid, most stressful and often least appreciated job in the world.

My Interests

Learning more about you, and your ideas.

I'd like to meet:


As you finish reading the list, you are, no doubt amazingly impressed with the number and nature of beliefs you and I have in common. And having beliefs in common is deeply important to the success of a friendship
Look at it from the perspective of your own experience. Aren't your best friends on Myspace and in life those with whom you share many common beliefs and ideas? The same is true for me. My friends here, and there are many, share alot in common.
And, I am proud to say my friendships are functioning and progressing. Comments sent to me, give a little taste of that happening. They indicate that alot of people think i am a pretty good guy and friend.
Of course, having common beliefs is not the whole story. I also communicate to my friends respect, acknowledgement, acceptance and appreciation. I am sure you do the same thing with your friends.
In summary, I think we have many basic ingredients for a wonderful friendship. But, if we are not friends already, to make that friendship happen we need to make contact.
I guess the ultimate question is, are you interested in getting to know a person who has many beliefs in common with you, and who will treat you with respect, dignity and appreciation? Or are you satisified what you are getting now?
I hope to hear from you soon. In fact, why don't you message me right now?

My Blog

Your Turn: What is Your View on Bad Boys?

It is my belief that every woman ultimately wants to be in a relationship with a nice guy. But, I see so many women who are strongly drawn and become involved with jerks and bad boys, who are decidedl...
Posted by Gentleman John on Mon, 23 Apr 2007 10:26:00 PST

Clues That Help In the Understanding of Others

When trying to understand others, certain principles provide guidance. 1.  It's not what a person says, but what he does that is most predictive of what a person is really  about. ...
Posted by Gentleman John on Sat, 02 Dec 2006 03:36:00 PST

If You Love Your Kids...

I want to preface this blog by saying that I have been a In School Suspension (ISS) teacher at a local high school for three years. Overall, my job had basically been to get assignments for kids and e...
Posted by Gentleman John on Thu, 02 Mar 2006 01:30:00 PST

Movie Time

Let's make a mental movie!!   First close your eyes and visualize a pleasant memory from your past or favorite fantasy imagery, which has lots of  happy, positive feelings attache...
Posted by Gentleman John on Thu, 06 Oct 2005 01:16:00 PST

An Exercise in Anchoring

In my last message, I discussed the concept of using touch to anchor positive emotion demonstrated by others. Now, I would like to show you an exercise which more directly demonstrates the power of a...
Posted by Gentleman John on Fri, 30 Sep 2005 04:34:00 PST

Evoking postive feelings

Want an easy way to get another person to develop positive feelings toward you very quickly? Try this. It is applicable to both men and women. I just use men in the example. During the course of time ...
Posted by Gentleman John on Sat, 24 Sep 2005 04:02:00 PST

Beliefs and experience

I believe what we focus on on the inside ends up being our experience on the outside, as we always focus on things that valid our beliefs, whether our beliefs are empowering or not.  And bel...
Posted by Gentleman John on Sun, 21 Aug 2005 11:06:00 PST

Psychology Subjects

Topics in the area of psychology that interest me include the following: Male-female psychological differences Factors affecting iniciation, progress and ending of intimate relationships Belief develo...
Posted by Gentleman John on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Instant relationships, due diligence, key questions

Nowadays, life seems to be moving faster than ever. There is more of a demand on the part of people for things to happen almost instantaneously. This often seems to include such things as establishi...
Posted by Gentleman John on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Long term relationships and loss of love

It has been my experience that long term relationships often die for several basic reasons. First of all, physical and mental abuse, if they exist, are deal breakers sooner or later. However, if there...
Posted by Gentleman John on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST