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Benjamin A. Harper

It is Pride which has been the chief cause of misery in every nation and every family since the worl

About Me

My name is Benjamin Adam Harper.
I recently found out that optimism is much more of a choice you make than a disposition or tendency.

I go out to eat too much, but I need help at the grocery store, because I usually end up buying:

1.cereal and soy milk

2.frozen pizza (which I break into pieces while it's frozen so I don't have to cook the whole thing at one time)

3.frozen vegetables bought as part of a meal. Of course, they end up being the only part of the meal ever purchased. Yes... alas, they remain lonely and uneaten in the freezer.

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My Interests

interesting things

I'd like to meet:

no one will remember this, but I do...and it is really awesome...

Listen to my band.

Music:

Beatles,Superdrag, Ben Folds (5), Spoon, David Bowie, Motown, The Zombies, The Kinks, Beach Boys, Billy Joel, Beck, Brendan Benson, Jason Falkner, The Posies, The Monkees, Ben Kweller, De Novo Dahl, Jetpack, The Shins, Pinback, Pre-Green album Weezer, and on and on...

Movies:

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Buffalo '66, Better off dead, The Wedding Singer, Snatch, Singin' in the Rain, Moulin Rouge,...

Television:

it is truly a rarity for me to sit in front of the television...but I love Arrested Development, Family Guy and That 70's show

Books:

A COnfederacy of Dunces, 1984, Catcher in the Rye, Catch 22, Harry Potter!