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RICTOR

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About Me

This is an old pic of me taken at McDonalds. There are not that many pics of me looking like a bad ass.
This is a music video I made of all of us at The Hard Rock Hotel where I work inside Mr. Lucky's.
This is me and one of my best friends, Christine. She's a hottie, single, straight and needs a good man!
This is one of the funniest videos I have ever seen. It's the Brady Bunch vs The Partridge Family.
You know, for a gay man I sure get a lot of friend requests from girls and young twinks. Anyway, I'm a Star Wars fan, Madonna fan, and pretty much a loner. All my friends are straight and I don't go to the gay bars like I once did in my youth. What happened to me? Oh yeah, I know. I grew up. I have been focused on overcoming obstacles one by one. Last year I finally graduated CCSN with an Associates Degree in Arts (Education) which has been a 14 year undertaking. I kept dropping out in the 90's. When I turned 28 I realized I needed to get my shit together.
I'm now in the IPP program at CCSN which translates into, I'm going to be an interpreter for the Deaf. School, work, and my dog take up my life. I don't want to be waiting tables forever. I also have a website for you to look at if you want. I have 2 of my books there for you to glance at if you want a good read. rickriolo.com
As you can see from both pictures, I am a true Star Wars fan! And I still have the lunch pale from the bottom picture!
This is my nude shot. Hot huh?
AFTER READING MY PROFILE, TAKE THIS QUIZ! And then Check out the Scoreboard!
I made this music video as a tribute to the movie Brokeback Mountain. It is from Alma's perspective (She was married to Ennis) and it starts off with their big fight where she confronts him on fucking Jack.

My Interests

I enjoy Star Wars, Madonna, and men (all in that order).

My Stormtrooper costume was bought in 1999, during a time when not many Star Wars fans had the access to such a great quality costume. Six years later, it seems like every die-hard Star Wars fan has one.

I think I make a nice bounty hunter, don't you?

Here are a few pics of my dog, Abbigail (Abby). The pic below was taken 3 years ago when she was just a puppy. When I rescued her from the pound, I had no idea she was an abused puppy. It has taken a lot of work, training, and TLC to get her to be a normal, functioning dog.

This was her first Halloween costume, Super Dog!

Here she has taken possesion of my bed.

This is her headshot.

She's all ass, baby! Actually, here, she is chasing my laser pen (her favorite toy in the whole world).

Miss Thing won first place in the 2004 Halloween costume contest at my local Pet's Mart! She went as Madogga!

Another headshot. She's part German Shepherd and Whippit.

I'd like to meet:

Madonna (she's my Lord and Savior) Some people have Christ... I have Madonna. It works out. Speaking of Madonna, the below picture is a painting I did of her when I was coming out in 1989.


TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Rictor
Birthday: January 13, 1972
Birthplace: Los Angeles, California
Current Location: Las Vegas, Nevada
Eye Color: Dark Brown
Hair Color: Dark Blonde
Height: 5'11"
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right Handed (got all my fingers too!)
Your Heritage: Italian and English with a bit of Irish
The Shoes You Wore Today: Sandals
Your Weakness: I have a weakness for getting good head. I can't say no to it.
Your Fears: I fear dying in a plane crash. It's gotta suck.
Your Perfect Pizza: Cheese and sausage!
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Too many to list. How about getting good head?
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: Do you have the bombs in place?
Thoughts First Waking Up: Gotta let the dog out, gotta pee, gotta see what time it is.
Your Best Physical Feature: My legs. Their awesome.
Your Bedtime: When I collapse.
Your Most Missed Memory: Now how the hell am I going to know what memory I miss? If I have a missed memory, I can not miss it!
Pepsi or Coke: Does it really matter? You've been driving across the desert for 5 hours with no air conditioning and you come to Barstow... and I ask, does it really matter which one you buy?
MacDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds. I love their french fries and I have the gut to prove it.
Single or Group Dates: Single.
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Neither.
Chocolate or Vanilla: French Vanilla.
Cappuccino or Coffee: Neither.
Do you Smoke: No.
Do you Swear: Always.
Do you Sing: Always.
Do you Shower Daily: Yes, but my feet can knock a train off it's tracks. Just ask Christine.
Have you Been in Love: Yes, once. And I totally got screwed over too.
Do you want to go to College: I graduated with an Associates in 2004.
Do you want to get Married: Sure. Get me a ring, we'll talk.
Do you belive in yourself: Most of the time.
Do you get Motion Sickness: Never. Once on some stupid ride at a festival, but then I was also dealing with heat stroke too. Not fun.
Do you think you are Attractive: Most of the time.
&..39;Are you a Health Freak:'
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes.
Do you play an Instrument: Not really, no.
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Nope.
In the past month have you Smoked: Nope.
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Nope.
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Nope.
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Nope.
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: Nope.
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Nope.
In the past month have you been on Stage: Nope.
In the past month have you been Dumped: Nope.
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Nope.
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Nope.
Ever been Drunk: Of course.
Ever been called a Tease: Always.
Ever been Beaten up: Once in high school. My pride still hurts over it.
Ever Shoplifted: Yes. Fun times.
How do you want to Die: Quickly and without knowing it's coming.
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Content.
What country would you most like to Visit: I would like to see Canada again.
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Doesn't matter.
Favourite Hair Color: Doesn't matter.
Short or Long Hair: Doesn't matter.
Height: Over 5'7"
Weight: Under 300 pounds, over 100.
Best Clothing Style: Doesn't matter.
Number of Drugs I have taken: Only pot, twice in my life. Made me super horny and hungry.
Number of CDs I own: Bazillions.
Number of Piercings: 2. My ears.
Number of Tattoos: 0
Number of things in my Past I Regret: I regret a lot of things. Like not being able to remember my late brother's voice. I regret wasting away my twenties.

Music:

"Every little thing that you say or do... I'm hung up. I'm hung up on you."Okay, aside from Madonna, I like everything and anything. You name it, I have it. However, this is a list of music that touches my heart: The Cars - "Drive" / Bryan Ferry - "Dance With Life (The Brilliant Light)" / Foreigner - "I Don't Want To Live Without You" and "I Want to Know What Love Is" / Al Jarreau's and Melissa Manchester's - "The Music of Goodbye" / Tina Turner - "Dancing In My Dreams" / New Radicals - "Someday We'll Know"(dedicated to my ex) / Aha - "Take On Me" / John Waite - "Missing You" / Steve Winwood - "Higher Love" / Thompson Twins - "Hold Me Now" / Laura Branigan - "Forever Young" / Cathy Dennis - "Touch Me (All Night Long)." Notice Madonna didn't make the cut?

This bottom picture is scary! That girl in it is named Debbie and she went to the Winter Formal with me back in 1989.

This picture was taken with my child hood friend Nancy. When I came out to her in 1992, she cried on the telephone. :-( But alas, she laughs about it now.

What was I thinking to have my senior photo taken with such bad hair?

This picture was taken graduation day, June 1990. I went to La Serna High School in Whittier, California. That's my mom. Hi mom.

This picture was taken last year when I graduated CCSN Las Vegas, Nevada. 14 years after graduating high school. At least I'm trying, damn it!

Movies:

A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away... Yes, Star Wars takes the cake. I like them all. The original trilogy is the best. I can't stand horror movies. You won't catch me seeing any of those Ring movies or Elm Street Surprises.

Here I am as an action figure!

Television:

Battlestar Galactica on the Sci Fi channel rules! And boycott Queer Eye for the Straight Guy! Why? Think about it... it's okay for queers to service straight people, but they can not have the same basic civil rights. Not cool. Sorry, didn't mean to get all preachy. I'm currently digging HBO's Rome.

This is an older picture taken back in the 1990's. It is how I look now since I decided to grow my hair out. Once I realized I was getting a receeding hairline, I decided to give it one last good grow. Don't worry, you catty bitches, I will cut it eventually.

This is my parents cat. Her name is Little Bitch.

And here she is highly pissed off at me.

Books:

Interesting how after you come out of the closet, you then are subject to everything any other human being is exposed to. Rejection, depression, hopelessness, etc. You are raised in a straight heterosexual environment where you're taught morals and values based on the Anglo Saxon point of view, and when you come out into a new lifestyle (gay), it seems to contradict everything you learned. The promiscuity, the easy sex, drugs, lack of consideration for others, etc. Which one is right? They both give you rejection, depression, hopelessness, and false ideals. What is right and what is wrong? Am I to wait for the right guy? Or go out and take him and do him in my car? Some thoughts to think on.

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Heroes:

Luke Skywalker!

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My Blog

Church

This past Sunday I had to attend a church service for my Observation interpreting class, a non-denominational church in the north west part of town called Canyon Ridge.  It was my first time in 1...
Posted by RICTOR on Fri, 08 Sep 2006 11:25:00 PST

Brokeback Mountain (I Can't Make You Love Me) Alma's Song

Thanks everyone for the kind words on my video. You are in for another treat! I just finished my second one and it details Alma and her empty marriage to Ennis. The song is "I Can't Make You Lov...
Posted by RICTOR on Sun, 29 Jan 2006 04:26:00 PST

Brokeback Mountain Music Video

Some of you have already seen the music video I made for Brokeback Mountain.  And maybe some of you have not.  Well, I tweeked it a little and I am now 100 per cent happy with it.  Some scen...
Posted by RICTOR on Sat, 28 Jan 2006 10:52:00 PST

The Mathematics of Life

The Mathematics of Life I decided to post this as a bulletin and a blog entry to celebrate my new background image for my profile. I grabbed a picture of the M31 Galaxy and made it as a background....
Posted by RICTOR on Wed, 09 Nov 2005 10:58:00 PST