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About Me

I'm Italian, Dutch, Irish, Spanish, and Mexican. I guess that means I'm pretty mixed up. In some ways more than others I suppose but everyone still loves me. I'm a jeans and T-shirt kind of guy that enjoys hanging out with friends, meeting new people, and going out to have a good time. I'm the average "boy next door" type with a bit of a "bad boy" side to me. I love to have fun and make people laugh, even if it is at me. At the same time though, I know when it's time to be serious. I'm a lover not a fighter and some would say I'm a hopeless (or hopeful) romantic. I have a sweet and sensuous side that I only let close people see. So if you see it, that means that I am letting you into my world and you are blessed. I have had the opportunity to live two lives and this one is by far better. You could tell me to go to hell and all I can say is I've been there and I have walked through it and came out the other side a new man. I love to help others (now) and I do my best to lift people up. I am lucky that I have a job that both helps people and I love doing. I think I have found my lifes work. I've recently found the love of my life and we were married on November 24th. She is everything that I am not and gives breath to my life. She has the cutest daughter that you can't help but to love and I can only hope that I can be the best parent in the world to her. We are expecting our own child in April and I just can't wait. Life is becoming better than my wildest dreams and it is all because I got out of the way and began to let it happen instead of trying to force it upon myself and everyone else. If you would like to know more all you have to do is ask, as I am an open book.

My Interests

Music, sports, cars, racing of any kind, tattoos, piercings, sex, people, sex with people, humor, photography and taking pics of everything, photoshop, chicks in overalls are the shit, and making people laugh. I also love posting stupid comments on everyones pages. So.......if you don't like silly little things constantly being posted on your page, you're better off not being my friend cause if you can't take a joke and laugh a little, I don't want to talk to ya anyways.

I'd like to meet:

Anyone And Everyone. It would be nice to reconnect with old friends, at least some of them. I've finally found someone that is okay with themselves no matter who they are. Confidence is a turn-on! I have my someone that can make ME laugh and that is willing to cuddle with me whenever. Interesting people that stand up for whatever they believe in are always a treat. Mostly it seems that people find me rather than me find them, but come one come all.View All Friends | View Blog | Add Comment

Music:

If I told you about all the music I like I wouldn't have enough room. Let me just say that I like everything from classical to rap and hip hop with a bit of metal, 80's, industrial, punk, and trance to spice it up!

Movies:

I love a good comedy any day any hour but I can get into an action film or an epic tearjerker.

Television:

I don't watch too much T.V. mainly just VOD, but those stupid, and I mean the really STUPID, reality shows can pull me in. Otherwise, it's got to be something really funny or really bloody or really educational. By educational I mean like the History channel or A&E or the Discovery channel. I am also into shows like CSI and any of the Law & Order's. If my T.V. isn't on any of those stations or shows, then music videos will always take the cake!

Books:

Do porno mags count? But seriously, do they? Really what books I do read are spiritual books or something that I am going to get something out of. Such as Alcoholics Anonymous, The Steps We Took, Carry This Message, The Four Agreements, Pass It On, As Bill See's It, Hope Faith and Courage, The Five People You Meet In Heaven, A Million Little Pieces, What God Wants, A New Pair Of Glasses, Less Than Zero, The Gift of Fear, American Psycho, Requiem For A Dream and any other spiritual or psychological books. I've also been getting into Tantra and The Kama Sutra (need I say why?). If you know of other good books that maybe I should check out please feel free to let me know.

Heroes:

Those that stand for something instead of falling for everything! Those that do what is right even when nobody else is looking, in other words, those with integrity. Everyone and anyone that is ok with themselves no matter who someone else thinks they are. Bill Dub and the Doc and all of the people who are taking THE STEPS to become better for themselves and the rest of us. My mother who single handedly raised myself and my sister and did the best damn job that she could with what she had. My grand parents for always knowing that I would turn around and change my ways. James for teaching me how to live on life's terms. My brother's from Pimpin' In Progress for taken the hard way with me and not turnin back!!!

My Blog

50 Dollar Stupidity

This is just a little story of how my general stupidity cost me 50 bucks...Lets start off with my car. It's a BMW 325i. "Nice" you might be saying. Let me finish. It's a 1987 BMW 325i. "Oooh" I'm sure...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 11:19:00 PST

I'm Done...

Lately I've found myself a bit messed up. All around messed up. I haven't been able to put my finger on exactly why. Then someone, unbeknown to them, kindly showed me some light at the end of the tunn...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 12:45:00 PST

Who What When Where Why How...A Photo Blog

Who? Who said women can't pee standing up?What?What do you get the person who has everything? When?When do you think I'll finally go blind? Where?Where do I sign up? Why?Why not? How?How do you do the...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Wed, 31 Jan 2007 08:49:00 PST

It's raining, it's pouring...

...but there isn't ANYBODY FUCKING SNORING!!! Let me set you up here. First off this is just going to be me pissed off ranting and bitching about what just happened at 1:41 in the fucking morning!! I ...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 02:16:00 PST

The Life and Times of a Red Headed Stepchild 3

To see where this all beganThe Life and Times of a Red Headed Stepchild Part 1, and Part 2.So we moved. My mom was originally from the San Gabriel Valley and my grandparents still lived there so that'...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Fri, 06 Oct 2006 11:50:00 PST

Unexpected Errors...

Sorry! an unexpected error has occurred. This error has been forwarded to MySpace's technical group. WTF People?!?I hate this message with a passion. And why does it always happen when you are in the ...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 07:19:00 PST

The Life and Times of a Red Headed Stepchild 2

In case you missed it, you can see where this began HERE.So, at the age of about 10 I was drinking on a regular basis, mainly every night with the parties that were held mostly in my appartment. I was...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Mon, 21 Aug 2006 04:47:00 PST

"B" is for BAMF....

Ok, so KeMari alphabet tagged me, or I sort of requested to be tagged actually, but none the less, I've been tagged. So what this means is that I must give you ten words that start with my tag le...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Sun, 20 Aug 2006 10:55:00 PST

The Life and Times of a Red Headed Stepchild

So it begins. First, let me say that I am not sure where this is going or where it might end. All I can say is that I have been meaning to start this for a while and thought to myself that if I just g...
Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Fri, 18 Aug 2006 09:48:00 PST

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Posted by Red Headed Stepchild on Sat, 10 Jun 2006 11:52:00 PST