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A-Girl

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About Me

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If you send a message or leave a comment for me, I promise I WILL eventually respond. It just takes me a while sometimes. Swear I'm not hating or ignoring! (unless you scare me; cause you know, some folk out there....?)
I am definitely a kid at heart, although I am playing grown-up because the calendar says I am one. Plus I have heap big grown-up responsibilities. For instance, I am somebody's mother, which is insane. My spouse is one of the most dynamic and all around wonderful people in the world; I completely lucked out there. He's a goody. I'm sorry but my kid IS the most adorable and delightful child in the whole wide universe. That's just the way that is. Other peoples' kids are cool too; just not as cool as mine ;-).I am fond of pleasurable things yes; people, food, music, places, feelings, pretty things. I love to laugh more than most things in the world, I love to make people laugh (and am told I do so often which I'm proud of) and if you make ME laugh you are so in. I laugh at silly stuff. I laugh by myself in my car and stuff. I talk to myself. Sometimes I talk to myself in front of people and forget I'm not by myself. That goes over well :-/. My whole life my group of friends has resembled the United Nations i.e. I like ehr'body. I'm a night owl. I used to be an Internet-addict until I rediscovered how much more fun REAL life is. I am a women's college graduate (Mills crew what?) and a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, the largest black women's organization in the world (oo-oop!). I'm a staunch feminist AND a girlie-girl (who says they have to be mutually-exclusive? It's MY world! Squirrels! :P). I've wanted to be in the music business since I was 13 years old and when I turned 20 I was in it. It's been an interesting career full of madness, instability, cool things and crappy things.I used to drive up Pacific Coast Highway and look at the ocean when I was stressed the hell out, and played india.arie or Dave Matthews Band when I did. Now, I don't get stressed the hell out because I don't want to. I think, breathe, read, meditate and move myself out of bad feelings right into good ones. I guide my feelings and I choose to feel GOOD. Always. Nothing else is more important and when you do that, all else falls into place :).
And I have a "thing" about images/pictures of a happy or smiling sun. I collect them to remind me of the day that I remembered about the joy of life; that we don't always choose to, forget to or feel unable to see. It's there :). (/syrupy sap)

My Interests

Abraham-Hicks, the metaphysical, self-empowerment and growth, progressive (i.e. Left Wing) radio esp. The Stephanie Miller Show, entertainment and pop culture, the music business from days of old that sadly is no more, stuff about black folks, home decorating, inspirational quotes. And I have been known to shop from (ahem) time to time.

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to run into old friends and make new friends who remind me of old friends. I don't love meeting people, I DO love knowing people. Like when you've moved into inside joke territory :-). Thinking this will be a nice way and place for my peeps to say what up.

You Are a Fun Girl!
You are all about having fun. You're the life of the party, by keeping everyone laughing and smiling.

My Friend Space
I have a nice group of friends.

L

The Brown Girl

Sydney

Peter (the Hunky Dane)

Mizz T.

Spencer

Charity

Zook

Dallas

Lori Ann (have a listen!)

M.K. Asante, Jr.

A.N.G.E.L.

J Dizzle and A-List EventZ

Juan

Sean Daily (have a listen!)

Andy Summers (don't even get me started...)

Sistas of Myspace

Heather & jcsgirls.com (what admirable looks like)

Zac

Sly Fleming

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Music:

I'm all over the map. There's not a genre in which I can't find something to appreciate. Faves:

And I am amazed by songwriters although I do firmly believe that most of them are insane.

Movies:


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Television:

24 FOOLS! GET SOME! The Daily Show w/ John Stewart, Grey's Anatomy, Entourage, America's Next Top Model, The View (I know, but Rosie brought 'em back!) Gene Simmons' Family Jewels, the entertainment news shows and good, informative interesting documentaries. And I admit to being sucked into (some of) the reality thang; reluctantly.

And even though I don't believe in Satan, I am certain that "The Flavor of Love" is the product of his work. Stop the madness yo.

Books:

Ask and It Is Given, The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent, Your Erroneous Zones, You Can Heal Your Life, The Bluest Eye, Selected Poems of Nikki Giovanni, The Nanny Diaries, The Catcher in the Rye, Catch 22, To Kill a Mockingbird, When and Where I Enter, Then Again Maybe I Won't, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland/Through the Looking Glass, I Can Lick 30 Tigers Today, One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish

Heroes:

My parents, my husband and Spiderman of course.

My Blog

The Law of Attraction. Learn it.

That which is like unto itself is drawn. Translation: You get what you think about whether you want it or not. I used to talk about "self-fulfilling prophecies"; same thing. Some folk wonder why they ...
Posted by A-Girl on Thu, 15 Feb 2007 06:38:00 PST

Some thinkables to think about :-)

You ARE your thoughts. (Wayne Dyer) Virtually all self-defeating behaviors are efforts at living in a moment other than the current one. (Wayne Dyer) You become what you think about all day. (Earl Nig...
Posted by A-Girl on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 12:33:00 PST

When you change the way you look at things...

...the things you look at change. And how cool is that?
Posted by A-Girl on Sun, 03 Sep 2006 05:55:00 PST

:-)

Scorpio You will feel human again today, dear Scorpio. Suddenly, your mind and heart are connecting, and you have control over your actions and emotions. Today would be a great day to get your th...
Posted by A-Girl on Wed, 09 Aug 2006 07:23:00 PST

No One Knows But You

And so, if you're asking someone else to tell you the way to go, you will be lost in the desert because they'll say, Go that way. Go that way. Go that way. They'll tell you what they've done in their ...
Posted by A-Girl on Wed, 19 Jul 2006 08:51:00 PST

Ha ha ha ha! Shoo, good laughs this.

He doesn't socialize. He's very real, like, he's from a pretty ghetto place in Maryland. . . . I like that."-- Teen starlet Hilary Duff , describing her boyfriend of two years, Good Charlotte lead si...
Posted by A-Girl on Sun, 25 Jun 2006 10:04:00 PST

Um...

This is...a shame. I think mourning is in order. (NSFW) http://dlisted.blogspot.com/2006/03/give-it-to-me.html Silly boy. WHY would you destroy that?!  ...
Posted by A-Girl on Thu, 30 Mar 2006 09:16:00 PST

Oy. Vey.

When ya think a good intention caused something...not so good. :-| Bah. ETA: It was well-meant. With the BEST of intentions and a pure heart. Came from the best possible place one can come from; that ...
Posted by A-Girl on Mon, 27 Mar 2006 09:10:00 PST

Thank You by Oprah Winfrey

I live in the space of thankfulness - and I have been rewarded a million times over for it. I started out giving thanks for small things, and the more thankful I became, the more my bounty increased. ...
Posted by A-Girl on Sat, 14 Jan 2006 10:53:00 PST

What forgiveness "really" looks like

I love this: What is an easy way into forgiveness? So, if something has hurt you and you're working to forgive it, you are activating it. Forgiveness is almost exactly the same, in fact we would say i...
Posted by A-Girl on Fri, 13 Jan 2006 10:51:00 PST