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* MERRY *

Pure love and suspicion cannot dwell together: at the door where the latter enters, the former makes

About Me



Hello! My name es Merry.. yes, that’s right MERRY as in Merry Christmas! So get it right.. tired of people spelling it Mary that is not my name :P for you that don’t know yet, I'm a New Years baby.. That’s right… first of the year honey. Was born in the Philippines but I’ve spent most of my life in Japan due to my dad being in the US Navy. And YES, I’m Asian! That seemed to surprise some people, I’m a full blooded Filipino, and yes I do have my fob moments! Haha! Thus, being like most Asians, I’m a short 5’2” tall ; (if that even makes sense.. haha) I’ve dark brown hair that I can’t seem to make up my mind about what to do with it. But right now.. there are red highlights in it.. that need to be redone 'cause its already faded :( Brown eyes and you won’t usually see them brown because I wear grey or blue contacts (uh huh, they’re prescription contacts, I’m so blind without them) Just like most people, I’ve wants, dreams, fears and weaknesses… but I wont dwell on that too much... at least not at the moment.. i do tend to go off into my own littel world every now and then. especially when i start thinking about things...like... But anyways! First thought when waking up.. hm.. there does seem to be one that always linger in my mind, but that’s for me to know…and well.. for you NOT to know sorry :P My best physical feature? Oh please, no idea… but if I were to take a guess... Um... My legs? Kris seems to be enthralled by them. Haha! A bedtime? Please! I fall asleep when I fall asleep.. no specific time for me.. but lately it had to be earlier then usual since I have to be up early in the morning now with the kids going to school and me working. Gawds, such typical questions that always pop up, yes, I’ve been in love, and can’t really ask me if I want to get married since I AM married. I don’t think I’ve fallen under peer pressure much in my school years because I don’t smoke, and truthfully, I don’t approve of it, never have, never will. But hey, everyone makes their own choice, but I will try to talk you out of it if I can. Not much of a drinker either. Even though I turned 21 a while back, I’m still not much into drinking... Every now and then I’ll have a pina colada or a Miami vice (lava flow). [damn survey is all jumbled no kind order to it] I’m one of those people that like to eat, I may complain about my weight or how I look sometimes, but that doesn’t stop me from eating the foods I like. I’ve always been a chocolate lover but haven’t really been much of it lately… not quite sure why.. but I may have lost my taste for anything too sweet since I was carrying Kourista. She took away my taste for sweets [OH NO!] but I’m all for steak and seafood.. especially seafood, I simply love it. I can’t imagine being one of those people that are allergic to shellfish or something… they don’t know what they’re missing out on! Strawberries! [and WHIP CREAM! Haha!] Simply can't go wrong with strawberrie, also, I like oranges, and tiny japanese grapes, and some other fruit I can't seem to think of atm. I like watching movies, really I do, though I might not have time for it, I really do. Best ones to take me to are horror/thriller ones… or even a comedy, a romantic comedy preferably. I’m also down for a good action/martial arts movie too… so can’t leave that out. Don’t get me wrong, I love being in the water, going to the beach or the pool, but if you were to push me off the deep end.. honey, you’d have to jump in after me, ‘cause there is no way I’d make it back to the surface!! Haha! No, seriously, I can swim adequately, but I can’t thread water to save my life. Omg, and that goes for singing too.. haha! I like to sing along to one of my favorite songs when I’m alone or driving, but I can’t carry a tune to save my life [once again] so please, don’t ask me to sing in public or anything.. dancing I can do..but singing.. big fat N-O.
I'm a young mom of two, my precious loves.. Angelo 4 and Kourista, 3. oh how time flies... seems like yesterday they were still babies!! oh how i miss it when all they'd do is eat and sleep!! they're both in preschool now... this is Angelo's last year with them though, 'cause by next school year he will be going into kindergarden ; ; they're growing so fast!! pretty soon they'll be off to college [i hope!] and my house will have no more sounds of kids running around and screaming ahhhh! but i've still a few years to go... so gotta make the best of it all.
Those of you that know me in person know i love to dance.. dancing has always been a part of my life, but thats been put off so long now.. i don't know if i remember how! haha.. no seriously i miss dancing, i miss the rush of being on stage.. its been so long.. well kathy and i did hula a couple of times.. but i miss the long practices, the stage, the costumes and just having fun learning a new dance!! *cries* but its all good.
i come from a family of five. There my Dad, Mom, myself and two younger brothers, Mark and Marcus. For a long time is was just my parents and i, but when i was about five, we were living in misawa, jp. at the time my mom had my first brother Mark... he was a fat little baby.. and so white too! i should look for pictures and post them up here.. wonder what he'd say haha!! ok..more about my family later...
ehmmmm....

My Interests


i'm what?! Serious, disciplined, and quietly ambitious, you are driven to prove yourself and to achieve material accomplishments and success. Your work, your position in the world, and your contributions to society are very important to you. You will persevere through enormous hardship and frustration in order to reach a goal you have set for yourself, and you often sacrifice much in the area of personal relationships and home life in order to do so.
hm.. does that really sound like me...
Clear, objective, and realistic, you are unimpressed by exaggerated claims or promises. You insist upon being shown facts to back up any statement you hear, and your natural skepticism often borders on cynicism. You approach problems clearly and rationally and maintain your poise and objectivity even in the midst of critical situations. Anyone seeking your advice is certain to get an unemotional and unbiased assessment of their situation, and you therefore make a good arbitrator or judge. You are thorough, conscientious, and disciplined in your thinking, and have an aptitude for business, organization, and administration. You are also a good strategist, and will plan and patiently follow a realistic course which will lead to your eventual success. Serious-minded and studious, you enjoy quiet time alone for thinking or reading.
You are the natural organizer of the Zodiac. The key Phrase for Capricorn is, "I use". You have the inborn ability to utilize your surroundings, people and things, to the best of their potential. You are hardworking, given to traditional values and are often found as the driving force behind many successful ventures.
You are often seen as ambitious. This is because it is your true nature to be a winner. The philosophy of your worldly success is hard work and discipline. You apply these principals to yourself and expect them from others. At times you can be tyrannical to those around you.
You have a cautious nature, and take full responsibility of the people and things that are placed in your care. You have a serious outlook on life and thus your early years tend to be lonely. Ruled by the planet Saturn, you are driven to manifest excellence in your life. You have the ability to be better than others. You are goal oriented, and are able to single mindedly climb to the top. After the age of 29, most Capricorns tend to come into their own. By that time you are better equipped to deal with the feelings of inadequacy that drives you to succeed.
Your challenge is to learn that all success comes from a higher source. Once this is learned and applied with discipline to the world of form, your successes will gain the respect they deserve and your deep understanding of the nature of work will be conveyed to others without severity.so... seems that i have an ISFP (Introvert, Sensor, Feeler, Perceiver) personality..
People who are ISFP tend to be kind, humble, and highly empathetic; thoughtful, faithful, and affectionate with those they know well; sensitive to criticism and easily hurt; quiet, soft-spoken, modest, and gentle; adaptable, responsive, and curious; relaxed, easy-going, and accomodating; realistic and down to earth.
The most important thing to ISFPs is feeling peaceful and harmonious with the people and places that matter most to them.
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Music:

whatever seems to appeal to my mood.. but mainly i love listenin' to slow jams, R&B, Hip-hop, pop, well.. and basically anything i can dance to!

Music Videos here are a few of my favorite music videos.. you're probably familiar with many of them... enjoy! [ Diddy ft. Nicole Scherzinger ] - Come to me

[ Elliot Yamin ] - Wait For You

[ Avant ft. Nicole Scherzinger ] - Lie About Us

[ Lil' Wayne ft Lloyd ] - You

[ PCD ft. Big Snoop Dogg ] - Buttons

[ Cassie ] - Long Way 2 go

[ Paula DeAnda ] - Walk Away

[ Fantasia ] - Truth Is

PROMISE

[ Aaliyah ] - One In a Million

[ Timabaland ft. Nelly Furtado & JT ] - Give It To Me

[ Ne-yo ] Sexy Love

[ Bone Thugs ft. Akon ] - I Tried

[ Diddy ft. Christina Aguilera ] - Tell me

[ Akon ft. Snoop Dogg ] I Wanna Love You (dirty)

[ Beyonce & Shakira ] - Beautiful Liar

Destinys Child Feat. T.I. and Lil' Wayne - Soldier

[ Danity Kane ] - Show Stopper

[ Danity Kane ] - Ride For You

Youtube Clips a few clips i took off youtube :Þ [ Passion & Reena ] - "My Boo" Usher ft. Alicia Keys

[ Passion ] - Sunday Morning

[ Passion ] - Ordinary People

[ Jenny & Kenny ] - Heavenly Broken

[ Hula ] song parody challenge - Hot Moms

Movies:

i love to watch horror/thriller flicks and romantic comedies... action and adventure are alright too.. oh, i like jackie chan movies!!! and every now and then i'd find a good anime to watch...

Television:

a few shows that i've had a chance to watch that i really like include CSI, Heroes, Ghost Whisperer, and Smallvilleother shows that i like that don't play anymore are Charmed, Related, The Nanny, Friends and Tru Callingi think there might be a few more.. but i can't recall any of them at the moment

Books:

i love to read romance novels (Johanna Lindsey, Catherine Coulter, Virginia Henly, Beatrice Small, Shannon Drake, Patricia Grasso, Penny Jordan, Nora Roberts... and so many more, i can't name them all) when i've the time...usually i'll read at least one book a day.. but now i barely have time to curl up with a good historical, its sad :( it takes me about a week now..! i also love to read paranormal novels (Christine Feehan, Anne Rice, Laurell K. Hamilton, etc.)

Heroes:



My Blog

Why God Made Mothers

reposted from GFR Answers given by 2nd grade school children to the following questions:Why did God make mothers?1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.2. Mostly to clean the house.3...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Tue, 22 May 2007 11:43:00 PST

Things that Hallmark Cards don't say..

ok.. got this off the gfr forum.. thought it was so funny and just had to repost on here :P ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ My tire was thumping.I thought it was flatWhen I looked at the tire...I notic...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Mon, 14 May 2007 03:51:00 PST

i think...

i need a friend ; ; someone to talk to, someone to listen, someone that will laugh at my stupidity, someone that will kiss my tears away, someone.. someone that'll be here for me. someone... just ... ...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Mon, 14 May 2007 01:23:00 PST

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a person may be surrounded by people constantly.. but even so.. they can feel very lonely.. and thats how i feel right now... i know i'm missing something in my life.. i just  haven't had the cou...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Mon, 14 May 2007 01:17:00 PST

its at it again..

ok.. well i... i just gotta say that right now life sucks but we've all gotta deal right? they  say that everything happens for a reason i just hope everything turns out for t...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Thu, 23 Nov 2006 01:02:00 PST

midnight already...geez

ok, so im sitting here talking to tina on msn AND sending each other comments on myspace.. now how sad are we? geez! seriously.. i think we've complained to each other how bored we are for the past te...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Fri, 27 Oct 2006 12:04:00 PST

Silent Ranks

heres something that i used to have on my profile page.. but since i wanted ot change it around a bit...(i had nothing else to do...) i took it off and decided to just post it here...   The Sile...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Sat, 12 Aug 2006 01:52:00 PST

Military Spouses

Hello everyone!! heres a little something i read off of a group post.. i just had to post it for myself. i've read it before... and i think i might have already posted it.. i gotta double check..hehe....
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Wed, 24 May 2006 10:58:00 PST

*sOrrY*

Sorry haven't been posting comments to friend and family's pages in a while.. been watching kris play FFXI and i've been playing a bit too.. i'll be on every now and then though.. sooo.. until then.. ...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Sun, 21 May 2006 09:08:00 PST

NOTE: when feeding kourista...

okay.. if you're ever gonna give kourista a hard boiled egg to snack on.. remember to TAKE OUT THE BALL OF YOLK FIRST! seriously.. or you're gonna see it all crumbled up on the floor! AH! all she'll e...
Posted by [♥ merry ♥] on Sun, 14 Aug 2005 01:43:00 PST