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Jesebelle's Memorial

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

This will probably be edited later, and so please do not be offended if it’s a little heavy handed. On 3-14-07 Jessebelle passed away. She is survived by a daughter, her mother and father, 2 sisters, and her brother, and there are many out there in her extened family that were just as close. This site is going to stand as a memorial to the beautiful person she was, and a place where friends and family can come and leave comments and share stories of inspiration to others. We intend to change as little as possible so people can get a sense of the person she was. To those of you who grieve with the family and send your thoughts and prayers, thank you.
Spellbynder
Hey there! I'm Jesebelle Nicodemus. I have a beautiful daughter named EmRhi and I am a polyamorous bisexual woman. At the moment, I am in a relationship with my best friend. I've been poly since 1999. I have been in enumerous variations of poly relationships, but currently enjoying being single.
I have red hair and blue eyes. I am very self-conscious, and careful about how I appear to others (no matter how blithe I might seem). I am blunt. I suffer from foot-in-mouth disease. I am insatiably curious. I make funny noises--sometimes I purr; sometimes I click my tongue or snap my fingers.
I am from California and I have lived here my entire life.
Warning: I don't do well with people that are bossier than me! *laugh* I don't react well to being told what to do. Ask me and I'll lay down and die for you, but TELL me to do something and my heels dig in stubbornly.
I'm a Cancer with a Libra rising and Pisces moon. I'm smart, witty, sarcastic, empathetic, creative, understanding, very openminded, analytical about my emotions, sensual and sexy. This is the tip of the iceberg. (:
Now, about polyamory...I've been poly since 1999. I have been in enumerous variations of poly relationships, but currently single (no, that's not an invitation! *smile*). I don't think I am single often enough to truly enjoy it. I'm not looking for casual sex or a romantic involvement at this time. I am simply not interested. So any requests leading to such will be ignored or firebombed, depending on my mood at the time.

Or as Fivefoldkiss pointed out, "I think you should have something like, 'So any requests leading to such will be shared with everyone I know, pointed and laughed at.'
Which is just as equally true. You have been duly warned. (:
That's the bare bones of it...
Jez
PS the same goes for requests for Webcam chats, cyber, or people who random send me requests to look at pictures of their genitalia without me requesting to see such pictures first (which I am HIGHLY unlikely to do, just FYI...).
PPS All LJ icons were borrowed with or without permission and with apologies to owners if feelings are injured. I use them with the greatest of respect and joy. I find them extremely funny and/or just fantastic, and would not use them if I did not think them worthy. So if you are offended, I apologise.

My Interests



Your Birthdate: July 5
With a birthday on the 5th of the month you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine. You may have a tendency to shirk responsibility What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

I have my own PolyinKern group at Yahoo, as well as, my email journal, Vortex_of_Jesebelle. I have various interests including, but not exclusive to: Poetry, writing, Tori Amos, Neil Gaiman, Karawynn Long (Karawynn.net), Bisexuality, Poly, Harry Potter (books AND movies), etc etc etc.

I received my BA in Art History June of 01, and eventually I want to continue with my degree and become a professor. I have a fascination with: the Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood, Surrealism, 1930s B&W Photography, Leonardo Da Vinci and Michelangelo (even though they loathed each other personally), and several others not coming to mind at the moment.

I also enjoy Renfaires, SCA events, Hot tubs, computers, and notable bits of knowledge. I am interested in art, psychology, philosophy, etc. I am also known for my sarcasm so beware! lol

Other interests include: Left-Handers, Redheads, Bisexuality, California and traveling, Celtic Mythology, Greek Mythology, Six Flags Parks, Education, Museums and Galleries, Polyamory, Faeries, Australia, Psychology, Intellectuals, Medieval and Renaissance time periods, Norse Mythology, Drawing and Sketching, William Shakespeare, 18th Century, 1920s, Dragons, and Butterflies.

Music:

Tori Amos, NIN, A Perfect Circle, Tool, Shakespeare's Sister, Melissa Etheridge, 3 Doors Down, Counting Crows, Alanis Morissette, Dave Matthews Band, Train, etc

Movies:

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My Movie Personality
My Top Rated Movies

Category My Ratings
Blockbusters Good
Comedies Bad
Action OK
Love Good
More Stuff OK

How do we compare? Take the quiz

Check out my page on Flixster - add me if u r on!
http://jesebelle.flixster.com
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Lost in Translation, Neil Gaiman's Neverwhere, Mona Lisa Smile, Kevin Smith movies, etc. Harry Potter, Imagine Me and You, Requiem for a Dream, The Libertine, Underworld, Underworld Evolution, Braveheart, Good Will Hunting, Tombstone, The Punisher, Brokeback Mountain, Serenity, Drop Dead Fred, With Honors, MirrorMask, The Last Unicorn, Big Fish, etc.

Television:

Firefly, ER, That 70s Show, and um......? I don't know. I want watch a lot of television.

Books:

Jean Auel's Earth Children Series (Clan of the Cave Bear, etc), Harry Potter, The Trilogy of Sleeping Beauty, Jude Deveraux, Neil Gaiman and Anne Rice.

Shakespeare, Flannery O'Connor, Kate Chopin, Tristan and Iseult, Toni Morrison, Robert Frost, Anne Bradstreet, W.H. Auden, Tennessee Williams, etc.

Heroes:

Rhiannon Ceridwen, Tori Amos

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My Blog

blergh

I don't visit my groups as often as I check everything else on Myspace.com...mostly because reading them gives me a headache. Tiffany calls me Jez the Encyclopedia. For a fairly good reason. if I see...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Tue, 30 Jan 2007 08:40:00 PST

3000 Question Purity Test

..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />3000 Question Purity Test Revised by Jesebelle Nicodemus, 2007.   INSTRUCTIONS  1 This is a fairly long test consisti...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Thu, 18 Jan 2007 08:51:00 PST

thanksgiving

I've been invited to do Thanksgiving at my brother's house. Which is okay. Actually, that's what I figured I'd be doing for Turkey day...except there's an additional guest. One I hadn't actually plann...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Thu, 16 Nov 2006 08:55:00 PST

New Job

I have a new job now. Yay. I'm an Aide for BCSD. Woot. Not working many hours, but if I work more than I am now, they'd have to give me bennies, and California wouldn't want that. *wry* I aide for two...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 09:29:00 PST

So I let Crazy take a spin, and I let Crazy settle in

(-- intro, Radio Uno Italy 10/16/02)tell medo you seethe same facewhen i say the namecrazytell medo you seethe same facewhen i say his name -- Not sayin' Not charmed at all Not sayin' that you weren't...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Sun, 30 Jul 2006 08:54:00 PST

My last two months

I've been so tired lately that I've lacked the energy to do anything. Literally. I have had to drag myself up out of bed every morning. On MWTh's I would get up at 7AM in order to get Em out of bed, f...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Sat, 27 May 2006 09:28:00 PST

Tagging

Rules: The first player of this game starts with "six weird/things/habits about yourself" and people who get tagged write a blog of their six weird habits/things, and also state this rule clearly. At ...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Wed, 03 May 2006 11:16:00 PST

bugger

i'm here around...just wanted ya all to know that first i've been working two jobs, then my seizures started acting up (still are) and then there was the chicken pox scare with my daughter. bugger fuc...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Fri, 28 Apr 2006 08:41:00 PST

All and Sundry

So I'm employed...part time. As a tutor. So I'll be gone most evenings. I work ostensibly from 3pm-7:30pm or so. Add at least an hour on each end for travel, pick-up of the 3-footer, etc.  ...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Wed, 22 Mar 2006 02:04:00 PST

Meme borrowed from Nayad

1. You have $10 and need to buy snacks at a gas station; what do you buy? sun chips, bottle of water, beef jerky, pack of cigs. 2. If you had to be reincarnated as some sort of sea-dwelling creature,...
Posted by Jesebelle's Memorial on Mon, 02 Jan 2006 08:56:00 PST