******READ THIS:****** I no longer approve friend requests unless you have messaged me 5 times, and the messages have to be more than one liners. I will not be responsible for keeping track of the number of conversations, you will have to prove we have talked. I do this because too many people say hi once, ask me to add them, and then I added someone who I never talk to, or only got one sentence from. If you want to talk, we will talk, but adding you will have to be earned. I take awhile to reply to messages, do not get paranoid and think I hate you. Also, if I have to type in a code to get my message approved for sending, I will not even bother.
Hello. I am V. I seek wisdom, and knowledge, and like to engage in conversations that go beyond subjects of a merely superficial manner, like about someone's dog.. or job.. or school. I am interested in human behavior, evolution, psychology, some religious beliefs, and other things pertaining to culture and existence. I do not generally approve of the habits of society, regardless of the current standards it holds as ideal, and I usually take interest in it in order to determine the flaws and techniques they use in order to not become a victim of it. Generally, I don't watch much TV. I have cystic fibrosis, which is not contagious, but you can go to wikipedia and read the entry on it in less than about 4 minutes, and it's pretty accurate. Once you read that, you will have a better understanding of some of the complications in my life.
With that said, I have a complex life, which is filled with many positives and negatives. Due to the extremities in my life, I have come to many conclusions about how certain experiences along with natural biological inclinations contribute to one's intelligence, and beliefs, and philosophies. I have many thoughts. Anything that I know about, I have an opinion on, based on what I know and have experienced. If I know very little about something, I probably do not have an opinion, since it is negligent to have a viewpoint without some form of evidence to support it... thus, I do not hear a mantra repeated by others, and blindly contribute to its distribution. I am also a narcissist- the irony is that my appearance and how I view it conflicts with what an attractive male would typically be assumed to look like, at least in the USA.
I am currently learning to become detached from things. I am learning to transcend my natural instincts, and in doing so achieve a better and more clear understanding of reality. In other words, rather than allowing my own biases or emotions to determine what is true, I will distance myself from my feelings in order to have a clarity that few ever do because they are so expectant, or presumptuous. The more that I am not dependant on what I want or what should be, the more I am able to accept what is, and the more I will be content with life and be invulnerable to the problems that come with it.
And most importantly, I am a patient and compassionate person. I am also a good listener, and more than anything I seek truth. If you speak with me, you can tell me your problems. But I will tell you what I see to be true, and what is true is not always pleasurable.
