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**********INFATUATION******** is shallow and self-centered. It "loves" the feeling of romantic excitement in having a boyfriend or girlfriend. It "loves" the status and security which the relationship provides among peers. The following example illustrates infatuation. Notice that the person’s "love" is self-centered, and the other person is only an object which is used to provide a certain degree of self-pleasing excitement and status.*******************************LUST************* is also shallow and self-centered. It "loves" the other person physically - it desires the other in a lustful, sexual way. There is no true "love" in lust. Lust will use (rather "misuse") the other person to satisfy its own desires.*************************The true meaning of "LOVE"*********** needs to be distinguished from common, false uses of this term today. True love centers in the other, the one that is loved, not in self. It desires that which is best for the other. It delights to self-sacrifice for the other. It reassures the other. It would rather endure personal suffering than have the other suffer. It testifies of deep commitment to the other person. True love loves the other’s personhood, who he or she is mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. It is much deeper, nobler, and more authentic than only physical attraction or romantic excitement. It loves to give, not to get.It loves to love. MyGen Profile Generator