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Bertha

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

Divorced, Pretty, witty, smart, fun, sincere looking for someone I can share outings with, dancing,and barbeques... I'm more of a home body, a very loving person, I love to cuddle and hold hands. I enjoy movies, long rides, family, I like country, and salsa music. I love to travel. I love to cook . Recipe for a good relationship is-honest communication, friendship, monogamy, ability to ask for what one wants, integrity, playfulness, trust, love, and desire to please one another, an ability to laugh, and ability to be there for one another during hard times, and a fulfilling & intimate relationship. divorced, no kids but like them, over my exes, pretty, smart, sassy, verbal, sexy, witty. stylish, confident, charming and a realist. and savvy and sophisticated. I am a genuine New Yorker: busy with life and work, but not too busy for fun and future plans. I own my own business, have traveled, well read and love good conversation. It's a staple of mine. I find my favorite moments are those engrossed in a good discussion on any number of topics. I have a very social life and business, so I cherish my precious free time. My worldliness is balanced by my inner stillnes. If you are particular as I am about whom you spend your off hours with, then you already have my attention. No slackers, lawyers, doctors, accountants, professionals, computer nerds, financial advisors, salesmen, business owners, psychologists, socialites, poor, or married men, please. I have a large funny bone, and your should be sizeable, too. I have strong opinions, and a soft heart - do you have similar qualities? I'm a non demanding, quiet, demure female, financially solvent and looking for a man to try keep up with and get to know, hopefully for the long run. I love men for being warm, strong bodied, caring, intelligent, protective and good company. I have a sexy English/Australian accent has made many men weak in the knees. MARRIAGE MATERIAL, I won't marry you tomorrow, but long term is the goal. I'm seeking a MATURE (35 AND UP) submissive, shy, educated and sophisticated SLAVE.By this I mean the real thing, a firm believer in female supremacy. Guys seriously, I understand and respect your need to experiment, or roleplay, but this is absolutely not what I'm looking for so please spare me the "oral worshiping e-mails". What I seek transcends this type of relationships. So back to what I'm looking for: a submissive man, and believer in female supremacy. Have your acts together and a life beyond BDSM. BE ACCOMPLISHED (VERY VERY SUCCESSFUL) Be kind, compassionate, committed, intelligent, well spoken, caring, and loving. I'm pretty so you be too : - ). Send your pic or I will not answer. If you're into pro dommes, move on to the next ad, there are plenty in the city. If you're looking for a meaningful relationship, and not just your next strap on fix, then we might be a match. PLEASE NOTE THAT THE GOAL OF MY SEARCH IS TO FIND SOMEONE READY TO SETTLE DOWN, SOMEONE WITH FAMILY ON HIS MIND AND NOT STRAP ON SESSIONS. keywords: slave, assertive, dominant, submissive, gynarchy, female supremacy,Very Pretty/Slender...athletic, work out alot, i stay very fit....tired of the asshole and jerks i date/meet at bars....Looking for some btw the ages of 25-35....Lives in manhattan,college educated/liberal/ attractive, in shape, SANE....no nervous twitches please...and if ur not a people person, or get freaked out by attractive women.....pleassssssssssse dont answer...or if u think you might be gay but your not sure....please dont answer...I love gay men, just not to date and flirt with... Looking to see if anyone wants to go out get a few sushi rolls and get tipsey... :) My perfect match would be someone who takes pride in himself without being vain, who values the simple things in life, and who isn't afraid to take a risk. LOOKING TO CREATE A MAGICAL CONNECTION, THAT LASTS FOREVER...

My Interests

books, sewing, price is right,700 club, the internets, dating, home shopper network, men, assertive, dominant, Would love to meet an architect,

I'd like to meet:

Seeking a real nice man.. john wayne types, single, single and single, over your exes, 25-65, at least 5'7", nice teeth and smile a bonus, has lived in the real world, can go from rock to opera, suit to jeans, reads books, LOVES movies, is gainfully employed, loves the Rubenesque form and you already know that you can be a nice guy while still rocking a girl's world. good christian woman rocker. fit, non smoker, single, 38+, highly educated, similar interests, mannered, funny, bible reader, my mind seeks yours...maybe you will get me? maybe you won't understand me..hope you will... want someone who is emotionally available and wants to have a meaningful longlasting relationship. Someone who is funny, fun loving and can talk about anything and everything. A person who can stimulate my brain and be stimulated by me. In other words an all around person who is not full of themselves and is happy from within. I am as honest as the day is long and I hate drama. I dont play head games and I certainly dont want anyone to play them with me. I'm seeking a sweet, edgy relationship with an intelligent, confident, alpha man who is both nurturing and firm. He values my input and considers both our best interests when making decisions, but he's no pushover. He is mostly warm, loving and kind, but demanding when necessary. He laughs easily and freely. When he gives, he gives his all-- heart, body, soul. He seeks the same things I do, except that he's the dominant side of the coin. He has no need to take our bond into the world at large, although what we share definitely moves beyond the confines of the bedroom. He is not afraid to discipline me when it needs to be done, but he is not interested in pain for the sake of pain, and he is generous with his love and forgiveness after he's corrected my behavior.I am not seeking a casual hook-up, a one-night stand or an affair with a married man. Instead I want to establish a normal relationship, one that just happens to be based in a D/s context, ultimately leading to a committed LTR. I'm not looking for an instant relationship, but would like to take my time finding the right man for me. I know he's out there. I need someone I can look up to, adore and respect; someone I can have deep discussions with, laugh with, dote on and lean on. In turn, he needs someone he can protect, guide and nurture. Someone he can mold (to a degree) and be proud of. There will be a deep bond of trust and communication between us, an understanding of who is leading and who is following. I love the idea of a sexual tension lingering always between us, even when we're engaging in the most trivial or mundane of vanilla activities. I love knowing that I can be put in my place with the right look or word from him. It's all so yummy!I value my family and my friends and I try to be there for them emotionally.Please be 37-52 with a clean-cut appearance, 5'8" or taller and no facial hair (except maybe a goatee). Bald or balding is sexy (so is hair). Smoking, heavy drinking, bad breath and bad tempers are not. Men who want to switch or submit are not my cup of tea.The man I'm looking for is well-rounded and has plenty of vanilla interests in addition to his desire for power exchange. Some of my vanilla interests include hanging out with friends; going to films (comedy, sci-fi, independent); watching live entertainment (stand-up, improv, plays); checking out museum exhibits that are a little on the weird-- or at least interactive-- side; baking artery-clogging but heavenly delicious desserts; playing games of all kinds; getting involved in impassioned discussions about most anything; reading memoirs and good fiction; writing memoirs and good fiction (one of these days I'll get to that); exercising my right to free thinking and speech; exercising my body to the point of exhaustion; taking luxurious naps in the middle of the day. On the other hand, I don't speak a bunch of languages (as so many New Yorkers do); I've barely traveled anywhere (but I do have a passport); I don't much pay attention to the news (sue me-- I'm still conscientious); I'm not much of a fan of live music (although I do LOVE recorded music). I might be a tad more provincial than the average Manhattanite, but I'm also down-to-earth and real.About me,non smoker (and I prefer men who dont smoke around me at all), Single, never married, and yes I am rubenesque. I never sweat the small stuff and I always keep a positive attitude, if you are a negative person I choose not to deal with your negativity. As always, I ask that you send a photo, its not a deal breaker but it helps. We all know there has to be some attraction there in order to begin with, for me the attraction is not the photo but in how you answer my posting. I prefer intelligence and the way a person writes is a big sign of it... I definitely will understand you.My ideal man would be single, GOOD LOOKING, age 37 to 45, 5'10" or taller (no giants I'm quite petite)hot, in shape body (no bellies please) sexy, kind, gainfully employed, settled all past relationships, dresses in today styles, humorus, a good dancer, not alot of body hair, well groomed and able to handle an independent women! No pic, no reply! If I dig ya I'll send my pic. Please no BS! Would like to meet a nice looking,intelligent,loving, marriage-minded man,44 to late 50's,of arabic descent who is a Christian. I dream of a man who is searching for me He is tall and handsome and smart as can be.He has a red rose that he hands to me and a big smile on his face that nobody can erase.He is a good soul with a kind heart I knew there was something right from the start.I dreamed of his carress and his kiss I knew this was something I just could not miss.Is he real or just in my mind? For a man like this is so hard to find. Please tell me it's true and just not a dream That you are as real as you seem. love going to flicks after work, great dinners...your shape does not matter so don't e-mail me your muscles or perfect body.. perfection is not attractive to me...if you're bald, tatooed, and husky ..now that's perfection to me lol. but not necessary. your erotic nature is essential coupled with humor and playfulness...in public and private ike a guy who has a touch of adventure and wanderlust in his soul. A man who likes to have an occasional deep discussion, but can also discuss Page Six of The Post, or something similarly trite like that. Bathing is a required activity. I like a man that likes a woman who's a little more than pleasantly plump. If you like blondes with straight hair and straight noses (I've been accused of being pretty and 'waspy looking' ) you'll probably be fond of me.And if you're a sucker for accents, be prepared, I have a sexy English/Australian accent has made many men weak in the knees. You don't have to love cats (they don't need your love) - but I have ten, so if you're allergic - I'm probably not the girl for you. If you smoke, you're not the guy for me. I smoke, but you can't. Musicians a big plus.(emotionally, physically, financially), handsome guy, 30-43, preferably Jewish, who's looking for a potential LTR, Would love to meet an architect, I am looking for someone from Europe. I am from Italy, and miss my friends and need to talk Italian with someone... But honestly, anyone from Europe will do. Italian, French, Spanish.. 40+ Jewish accountants preferred.

Music:

boston pops, merl haggard, elvis, buddy holly
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Movies:

gone with the wind, 9 1/2 weeks, lawrence of arabia, it's a wonderful life, casablanca, saw 3, robin hood, blondes have it better 2,

Television:

700 club, Bob Barker, Price is right, pat roberston, christian ministries, home shopper network, HSN, weather channel, foxnews, pentacrest,

Books:

wanderlust, the bible, 10 ways to spice up your 60's, chicken soup for the sacred soul, the spirit toucher, dan brown novels, annie go home softly, return my love, red tears

Heroes:

most of all jesus, johnny carson, nelson mandela, pol pot, pat roberston, pat sajack, bob barker, andy rooney, ronald reagan, gorge bush, z-big-new bro-ziki, calvin coolidge, charlie chaplin, elvis, reeeta hawyroth, daryl mcdaryl, cowboys, ali lohan, andimar nicoban, theodor roseyvelt, jesus, rickard riyad, ted hagurd, donald rumsfeeld, tara connror, patty hearst,