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Cate

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

...I struggle with enormous discrepancies: between the reality of motherhood and the image of it, between my love for my home and the need to travel, between the varied and seductive paths of the heart. The lessons of impermanence, the occasional despair and the muse, so tenuously moored, all visit their needs upon me and I dig deeply for the spiritual utilities that restore me: my love for the place, for the one man left, for my children and friends and the great green pulse of spring. --Sally Mann, Still Time catalogue Alleghany Highlands Arts and Crafts Center, 1988

I'm hardly ever here, and have a little journal that a few people read over at that other place. I mainly use this space to keep in touch with old friends (and occasionally meet new ones) who insist on using myspace, so it's worth it to show my face here once in a while. I'm a writer and an artist by nature, a felony prosecutor by profession (think Law & Order SVU--and then put it in Texas). I used to live in a big city and run with a glamorous crowd, but that was a whole other life ago. Now I live in a little house in a little town, decidedly less glamorous but much more fulfilling overall. I have tended to be a loner, which is probably why I have a soft spot for strays of just about every sort--everyone should feel like they belong to someone. I love my kids, my man, and my life. Cowards, poseurs, wishy-washy types, mean people, and whiners piss me off. Mostly, I'm just a real live grown-up girl with a big giant heart that I'm determined to use every single day.


My Interests

aging punks, amazing grace, bagpipes, beat generation, bill hicks, billie holiday, black dahlia, black flag, bluebonnets, bollywood, borges, bruce campbell, bruno ganz, bud cort, bukowski, burlesque, cafe tacuba, canned heat, carlos fuentes, celts, charlie parker, che guevara, chet baker, christopher walken, cocteau twins, coltrane, comics, compassion, crappy old cars, crochet, dark irish, deepa mehta, derrida, diego rivera, documentaries, doris lessing, dorothy parker, erotica, flannery o'connor, flowers, frida kahlo, full moons, gardenias, gardening, gaugin, gearheads, gentility, greasers, guy de maupassant, h.p. lovecraft, harold & maude, harper lee, harry dean stanton, harvey keitel, hemingway, herbs, history, honor, hummingbirds, india, irony, john cale, joni mitchell, jules de grandin, justice, karma, kisses, lakes, latinoamerica, laughing, letters, lili taylor, linguistics, loyalty, lucinda williams, magick, magnolias, malkovich, manners, marfa, margaritas, memoires, mestizos, mexico, miles davis, modigliani, movies, muralists, mythbusters, mythology, nabokov, nancy drew, neruda, nick drake, noam chomsky, nostalgia, nyc, oatmeal cookies, old hollywood, paganism, paul strand, peppers, perry mason, picts, poetry, portents, punk, quad skates, rain, raphael soyer, raymond carver, raymond chandler, raza, real gentlemen, red lipstick, richard brautigan, ricki lee jones, rivers, road trips, robert e. howard, rockabilly, roller derby, ruben blades, runes, santa fe, santa sabina, sartre, satire, sewing, short stories, silvio rodriguez, siqueiros, southern hospitality, studs terkel, sumo, syd straw, sylvia plath, tamales, tarot, tattoos, the chieftains, thomas burnett swann, thunderstorms, tina modotti, trees, trinkets, trivialities, troubadours, truman capote, truth, twilight, van morrison, vargas, vargas llosa, vintage pin-ups, weird tales, white trash, wildcrafting, william faulkner, wim wenders, wine, words, writing

I'd like to meet:

Main Entry: friend

Part of Speech: noun

Synonyms: accomplice, adherent, advocate, acquaintance, ally, alter ego, amigo, associate, backer, bedfellow, blocker, boon companion, bosom buddy*, brother, buddy, chum*, classmate, cohort, colleague, companion*, compatriot, comrade, confrere, consort, countryman, cousin, crony, familiar, fellow, intimate, kissing cousin, little brother, main man, main squeeze, mate, other self, pal, partisan, partner, patron, playmate, roommate, schoolmate, sidekick, sister, soul mate*, spare*, supporter, well-wisher

* = informal or slang

Roget's New Millennium,, Thesaurus, First Edition, Copyright © 2006

A Brief Disclaimer:

1. I'm truly dismal at sustaining small talk or keeping up with daily exchanges of annoyingly cute bits of html code.

2. If you know me from my former life as a rollergirl and we don't have a personal friendship outside of that, I'll be happy to keep in touch with you through my rollergirl profile. It's nothing personal. Please understand that it's important for me to have my own little corner of the virtual world where skating is not the main topic of conversation.

3. If you don't know me at all and I added you out of the blue, you can safely assume it's because I found you interesting and am simply too shy to say hello first. I'm really awful and awkward with introductions, but quite friendly once you get to know me.