LIFE. SEX. LOVE. MUSIC. the rest in random order: traveling. dogs (especially akitas and chows) wolves and tigers. creative writing. dancing. singing. playing guitar. broadway musicals. ancient and modern history. politics. economics. east asian philosophy, especially daoism. diseases and disasters. crime and violence. queer theory. photography. languages. baking cakes and cookies. shopping for clothes, hello kitty and other cute stuff.
I'd like to meet:
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people of substance. ambitious people who know what they want and how to get it. people who create, accomplish, and make a difference.
pretty boys and sexy girls. especially smart girls w/ style and good taste in music and/or sexually uninhibited girls w/ rock'n'roll hearts.
smart-assed people. people who'll buy me food. people who know why most people use "hopefully" incorrectly. people with offensive sense of humor. fellow ice cream enthusiasts. travelers and troubadours.
whom i don't want to meet: flakes, drama queens, chronic liars, energy vampires. bitter, negative people who bring me down.
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Music:
rock and metal are and will always be my staples, but i also love pop, dance, electronica, old-school country, bluegrass, hip hop, you name it. there's nothing like a great pop song. especially love motown and sixties girl groups. my man turned me into soul and funk, which i adore. grew up on classical, love my show tunes. love anything that grooves and makes me dance. plenty of favorite artists/bands ranging from spice girls to cannibal corpse, but prince rules my world and has since i was ten. and my favorite song of all time, no contest is: being boring (pet shop boys.)
Movies:
i'm not much of a movie person, but my favorites are: in the realm of the senses. who framed roger rabbit. some like it hot. dog day afternoon. almost famous. showgirls. the royal tenenbaums. zoolander. harold and kumar go to white castle. it happened one night. trashy comedy movies that make no sense. fucked up movies that make you feel numb for days afterwards.
Television:
as for current shows, the riches, featuring eddie izzard, my favorite stand-up comedian in the world. i'd marry him if he'd accept he'll always be second. have da ali g. show, spongebob squarepants, and ren and stimpy dvd collections. still no tv, but everything comes out on dvd these days so i don't feel deprived.
Books:
lolita. the sexiest prose ever written, simply orgasm in words. anything by nabokov. the stranger. anything by camus. valley of the dolls. nineteen eighty four. without a stitch. requiem for the dream. catcher in the rye (natch.) the far sides collections (i have the complete collection.) hollywood and rock'n'roll biographies. ancient daoist literature. lao tzu and zhuang tzu's words have literally changed my life. arsene lupin series from childhood. new york times sunday magazine. vogue every month.
Heroes:
spongebob squarepants. he's positive, hardworking, and loads of fun.