Photography (film and digital), music, reading, coffee shops and conversations, fetish art, japanese things, target shooting, camping, long drives at night, surveillance, E & E, military gear, bondage, intense people, etc.
A person who is open minded and able to put up with me. Somebody who can understand me and walk with me side by side and have the desire to know who I am. Someone comfortable with herself enough that holding hands and my touchy-feely attitude does not disturb her. Uhm... sensual, dark, funny, good with people (specially me).
Gothic, darkwave, industrial, punk, electronica, eclectic, dance, lycia, sisters of mercy, this mortal coil, dead can dance, bauhaus, suspiria, rasputina, skinny puppy, crass, conflict, subhumans, circle jerks, coil, lords of acid, kmfdm, current 93, Nurse with wound, legendary pinkdots, underworld, leftfield, prodigy, disturbed, assemblage 23, VNV Nation, etc.
Pedro Almodovar movies. Trainspotting, some Tarantino
ATHF, Venture Brothers, The History Channel
Tom Robins, Dune series, Andy McNabb, Anne Rice, some Tom Clancy, Field Manuals, Technical Manuals, daily intelligence reads, situational reports, intelligence summaries, black and white list, etc.
None yet. I do not consider sport millionaires to be heroes.