"Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none." - William Shakespeare
I am a INTJ. Click the following links to learn more about INTJs. INTJ Link 1 , INTJ Link 2 , INTJ Link 3 , INTJ Link4
Und3r Creation
What about me? I'm nothing special.
Facts:
Born in Ponce, Puerto Rico on August 16, 1977. Raised in Coamo, Puerto Rico until the age of 10. In 1987 my family moved from Puerto Rico to Cambridge, Massachusetts ...which has been home ever since.
Now...I have to say...I can get along with anyone...I love meeting new people and making friends...I really and truly do...so please don't let any of what I write below deter you from saying Hello. My daily life consists of going to work, figuring out what to do so I can get a job I actually LOVE (photographer, anything with movies or comic books are really high on my list), going home and working on my photography, browsing myspace, watching anime and other stuff I can't mention here due to copyright infringement I KID I KID...kinda..., hanging out with friends, getting dinner and a drink and a movie or all three...whatever is there to do really. I love to be around anyone who loves life. It is really that simple. So, let's have some fun =]
Now for some of my mental spillage, see below.
I am not for the weak bodied, weak minded, & weak hearted. Come hard or don't come at all. I value a sense of humor, intelligence, intuitiveness, analytical minds, logical minds, common sense and wit.
I am a very simple person who does not waste time on frivolous things. I do not enjoy chitchat and small talk. Repetition bores me...to the point of insanity, unless it is a movie or book that I love. I have seen Ninja Scroll about 100 times, and read Alice's Adventure In Wonderland more times than I can remember. I am content with spending every day at home with a loved one, but also love to party like its 1999. I do not choose to stay home and go to sleep over going out and having fun - as Warren Zevon said: "I'll sleep when I'm dead."
I am a very spiritual person. I do not reach out to religions and their dogma to help contextualize the idea of God, Faith, and Morals. I have all that inside of me. I believe in the duality of the world, the balance between the masculine and feminine, that we are all connected...everything is connected.
At this point in my life, I am still trying to figure out what I want to do for the remainder of it. I know that my purpose in life is to love as many people as possible, and I am working to be content with that and only that. My contribution to the world is still a mystery to me. What my being, my soul is supposed to give to this world, I am still trying to figure out...the individual gift I want to give life for allowing me to live.I am the type of woman that will not hesitate to tell a person that he/she is beautiful, or to comment on his/her smile. For the most part, my senses rule me. Making people smile, seeing people smile, makes me happy. Socially, I prefer to be among a small group of very close friends, versus a big group of acquaintances.
Sometimes I am quick to anger, but rarely do I hold a grudge, or not forgive. The past and the future do not exist in my world, so holding on to anger; holding on to anything seems futile. There are some things that I have been unable to let go of, or that refuse to release me, but I am working on that. For the most part, I have to be, by my definition, seriously attacked, offended, to truly feel anger, and the want to return the favor. Very little makes me seek revenge, justice. I am satisfied in knowing that my actions are pure, honest, and clean. I will not dirty myself with the filth created by the decisions of others. If this sounds judgmental, that's fine, because it is.
My loyalty is ridiculous to me at times. I am loyal to a fault. I will welcome back anyone into my life, regardless of the past, if I feel in my heart that his/her heart is sincere. On the other side, I will not hesitate to erase you from my life if I feel you are taking advantage of me, if you are malicious.
I believe that demureness, graciousness, and manners are extremely underrated. You cannot say please and thank you too much. I also value articulateness. If every other word out of your mouth is slang, chances are you will not hold my attention for very long. Realize, this has nothing to do with college degrees. For me, the way a person chooses to dress, speak, and behave is a direct reflection of who she/she is, how he/she views himself/herself. So if you choose to carry yourself like a jackass, that is exactly how you will be treated.
These mini biographies, in my opinion, are more accurate when written by those that know you. Maybe one of or a few of my friends will write up a bio about how they see me, who I am, and what part, if any I have played in their lives. Through their eyes, I think, you would get a more realistic picture of me, because honestly, I am blinded by my own vices, blinded by my own dark corners, blinded by those facets of my personality I am unable to recognize...and it is in these corners, that those that are my friends are unafraid to look, and search for me when I am lost.
To put it simply, Life is my Vice, and Love is my God.
∞ Jessica
PS. My favorite color is black.
