Anyone whose life has been enriched by a child with special needs.
Other bereaved moms and dads.
His Holiness the Dalai Lama ; Barack Obama ; Professor Stephen Hawking ; Dr. Hunter 'Patch' Adams ; Jackie Chan ; Graham Greene ; Carrie-Anne Moss ; Katee Sackhoff ; Suzette Amaya ; Francis Soto ; and especially YOU!
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My son Nick, who passed away from complications of Duchenne muscular dystrophy in 2005. He was smart, wise, mature, even-tempered, tolerant, optimistic, creative, and funny. He never let his disability hold him back. He was giving in the community and helpful to his peers. He planned big for his future and had confidence in his ability to make things happen.
A shadow of joy flickered; it is me.
I told you I wouldn't leave.
My spirit is with you.
My memories, my thoughts are
imbedded deep in your heart.
I still love you.
Do not for one moment think
that you have been abandoned.
I am in the Light.
In the corner, in the hall, the car, the yard --
these are the places I stay with you.
My spirit rises every time you pray for me,
but my energy comes closer to you.
Love does not diminish, it grows stronger.
I am the feather that finds you in the yard,
the dimmed light that grows brighter in your mind,
I place our memories for you to see.
We lived in our special way,
a way that now has its focus changed.
I still crave your understanding and
long for the many words of prayer
and good fortune for my soul.
I am in the Light.
As you struggle to adjust without me,
I watch silently.
Sometimes I summon up all the strength of my new world
to make you notice me.
Impressed by your grief,
I try to impress my love
deeper into your consciousness.
As you should,
call out to the Heavens for help.
My soul is now healthy.
Your love sends me new found energy.
I am adjusting to this new world.
I am with you and I am in the Light.
Please don't feel bad that you can't see me.
I am with you wherever you go.
I protect you,
just as you protected me so many times.
Talk to me and somehow I wil find a way
to answer you.
I see you with my new eyes.
I am learning to help wherever you are,
where ever I am needed.
This can be done because I am in the Light.
When you feel despair, reach out to me.
I will come.
My love for you truly does
transcend from Heaven to Earth.
Finish your life with the enthusiasm and zest
that you had when we were together in the physical sense.
You owe this to me, but more importantly,
you owe it to yourself.
Life continues for both of us.
I am with you because I love you
and I am in the Light...
~ Author unknown
Thank you Nick, for everything.
I LOVE YOU FOREVER
To learn more about Duchenne muscular dystrophy visit Parent Project Muscular Dystrophy .
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