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Sandie

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Im a Mother of two beautiful talented ladies. I have two grand kids I love more than life. I had one bad marriage because I married way to young, It was not a good experience. It still makes me sad when I see other young women make the same mistake as I did when I was so very young. Ladies? Don't rush in to marriage. Life is so short. Get to know that person before you say I do. And never settle for someone because you think it will be your last chance. I did and I regretted it the moment I said I do.. It felt like a prison to me so I refer to it as my prison term. Im Divorced and very much in love with the man I hope to marry someday or at least be engaged too. He is a very special man, Michael J. My dream is for him and I to be in business together in the near future. He wants to be in production of some kind. He works magic in everything he touches. So Im game on anything he wants to try. I have a great idea about a cook show staring Michael and me as his sidekick. Anyone wanna invest in a great idea? We need backing!!!I need a fairy God person. truth is, I know if we can get it off the ground it will be a hit. We have several ventures in mind. I think of us as a team. We work great together so I feel we can do anything if we put our minds together. I had the pleasure of going to the CCA convention last year with Michael and kim( Michaels twin sister)She is the pretty gal who has the first place spot on Michaels top friend list. I love her like a sister already so it doesn't bother me that she gets top billing. Its kinda cute. When I worked with them in CA He told me I was his right hand person. I did a lot of the camera work and running to get things, following people around and shooting the shows. People thought I was one of the Cher impersonators. I was thrilled. Now Im hooked and Michael plans to teach me more about lights and camera so I can be even more help next time If we go. Im also kicking around the idea of being one of the Cher impersonators next time If i feel im in shape enough by that time and if I feel more confident in my self. Michael plans on working with me on that too. Ive been told I have a good voice. I know I love to sing. I have many interests. Love anything to do with water. Im hoping to add scuba diving to my list in the near future too. Love boating. A friend took me sailing before its so peaceful. My life is pretty full with work as a sales coordinator and helping Michael with his work, spending time together, and my family and his family. I love to be outside. I want to start playing tennis, Then I"ll get back in shape in no time. Tennis anyone?? We both ride bikes I used to walk 5 miles a day too. Love walking. Its when i do my best song writing and thinking. I love to write songs. One of my dreams is to get several of the songs Ive written put to music and on the radio someday. So Im very interested in talking to song writers and musicians of all kinds. Who knows Maybe you will be listening to my music on myspace in the near future. Michael is also teaching me to play the guitar and hopefully soon a mandolin. I love to joke, I love to laugh. Im a good listener. Im a people watcher, people interest me. But don't attack me or my loves or Im going to fight back. I expect respect. And If you insult me expect to get it back. Im a soft spoken, laid back Angel until Im wronged. So do not back me in a corner or I will kick ass. we all deserve respect right? Even on here. But I do like to know peoples opinions on just about anything.Its interesting How they think and feel.You name it, Ill talk about it. So Ill be posting "can we talk" posts about diff subjects from time to time to get the worlds opinions. I hope You will read my words and always give your honest opinion.

My Interests

My interests are many. But Spending time with Michael rates the highest of Importance. I love Helping him in his work in any way I can. The way I see it, when im helping him Im helping Me too. It seems like most of my interests deal with different forms of beauty..like Working on Stained glass art, photography, Going to the ocean/lake and fishing or boating. I love sailing, its sooo peaceful. One friend told me it was the closest you can get to God here on earth, Maybe he is right. I love going Camping, Hiking, walking, biking. Trying to stay in shape. Have to keep my butt and legs looking good for michael you know. I was walking 5 miles a day and riding a bike too. But have backslid on that so after the holidays back to working my body to keep in shape. I love music!!Michael is trying to teach me the art of Playing Guitar and hopefully Ill be learning the piano in near future. I love music and love singing. Im always Writing songs that I hope to put to music someday. Michael has inspired most of my songs. Must be love. He is the only man ive ever felt so close too. Im working on several songs at this time, I used to do alot of writing. I have several books in mind, but never enough time to devote to it.

I'd like to meet:

Michael's Dad and his son Dakota. I have seen his dad on cam. But want to meet him face to face in person someday. Same with you Dakota. Where ever you are. I hope someday you will realize that there is always two sides to every story and A son and father deserve to know each other no matter what the story Is or Was. It is Not always black and white. You guys missed so much time. Now there is no turning back, only the here and now. There is a song in there somewhere. But All I see Is a wonderful Man who was cheated out of knowing his son, and a son who has only heard one side of a story so he grows up hating a wonderful man.So Sad, Dakota? Sometimes people make decisions that do not make sense to Others because "others" do not see the whole picture. Most of us might say, I would have never gave up!!! But you can never say that unless you have walked in that persons shoes. The true picture here IS. A fathers love for his son. And A son made to believe his father left him and hurt him as a child. When that never happened. Sometimes people make up stories to protect a stupid decision they made or something their actions caused. Sometimes they start believing the lies themselves helps them sleep better I guess. When the truth is, A father backed out of his sons life to spare him all the pain of the war between him and the childs mother. Sometimes you let someone go because at the time, you think thats for the best for the child. Especially after you fought five years. You start to see the battle is leaving its scars. Even though you love that person with all your heart. You just cannot stand to see that child torn in two another moment. So you give him/her what you think he wants. A life without you. But its not what you want. But once that decision is made there is no turning back. And each passing year without him are like knifes in your heart twisting, All the father can do is hope that his son never forgets him. Birthdays and holidays are always hard. Divorce is a sad and unfair thing, especially for the children. I've seen women and men use a child as a pawn, to hurt the other father or mother over and over again. The child is the one that loses in the end.

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Music:

I love music, I listen to many types of music..new country is my fav.. but I love any thing from country to classical. Im always writing songs I kinda hear in my heart and mind. I look for friends that are interested in helping me finish songs I've already wrote, just need fine tunning on the musical notes etc.

Movies:

Fried green tomatoes, french kiss, sleepless in seattle, the L weapon movies with Mel.. Angels in the Outfield!!Overboard with Goldie Hawn!!I like to many to list. Action and comedy are my favs, and true stories. I love Mel Gibson movies, and bruce willis action movies...I love many diff types of movies. Comedies are my fav. Love to laugh. Love Romantic movies too..

Television:

I don't watch much TV any more, I watch nina warrier with Michael. I used to watch a lot of sitcoms and talk shows and Oprah. But now I only seem to watch TV with Michael when we are chilling after work. We watch various things as he flips past 90 miles an hour...lol so mostly I just watch his muscles flex as he flips the channels..lol just kidding Michael. Michael is from the old school that says...the Man owns the remote...If you try to take the remote or hide it??? thems fighting words baby,,,,LOL love you Michael!!! you hunk of love you.

Books:

To many to list.. I love true stories and I read a fav mag I like. "Womans world" has so much info on so many issues and great recipes. I love that mag! Ive read many differnt types of books from the bible to all the "Mars and Venus"books. One of my fav books I read in highschool and in college was to "Kill a Mockingbird", great book.

Heroes:

Its hard to list them in the order they should go... ALL Heros are number one On our heart list right? My Heros are the unsung heros. People who have helped others just because thats what they are all about or who touched my life in some way or another. I call them earth angels they are "angels" unaware.. that we have all read about. My heros, to name a few are.....Robin my "heart sister", Even when we do not always SEE Eye to Eye on everything, She will always be my heart sister. We may not always agree on situations or see eye to eye on some matters, but she has been there for me many times when i was in "prison" and when i was finally paroled, when I felt all alone, she would listen. She was always there, just to listen and She was the One who helped me find someone no one else could find so I could give another one of my heros,the man I love, a gift he has been wanting for so long. My next hero is, MICHAEL,the man I love, the man of my dreams I call him Mr Magic because he can do anything and is always doing things for others, when Im feeling sad or down all i have to do is see his smile and im smiling inside and out. I think there is only one subject we do not seem to see eye to eye on, Myspace women!!LOL. However even with that in mind,We rarly argue or fight. And Violet my sister We lost her march 31 2004. she went though so much especially in her last years, she never met a stranger and loved everyone and seemed to have the gift of talking to angels, maybe because she was one. Violet we miss you!!!My Mom and Dad are my heros too. they are the reason why im who i am.. I get my insanity from them..lol just kidding. I got that from dealing with life or a 27 Prison term . But we all have some insanity in us. Who makes the insanity or sane rules anyways?

My Blog

Why do guys have to have Bachelor parties...??

Ok, I do not get it!! please someone explain it to me. Please someone enlighten me on Why they are still a thing Man do before they get married? Why must guys and women have a "last fling  or Par...
Posted by Sandie on Tue, 15 Apr 2008 05:26:00 PST

My Day in court, Why I feel Good Cops are few and far between

I must get something off my chest and I hope all my friends make comments to this blog. Its about My experience in court as a witness and how I witnessed the Cop who gave my love his ticket lie severa...
Posted by Sandie on Sat, 01 Sep 2007 09:29:00 PST

I Need help finding a V-hull boat for the love of my life

Attention all fishing friends..I want to buy the love of my life a gift that keeps on giving. A gift that I can enjoy with him as we float peacefully along.. Does anyone know someone who wants to sell...
Posted by Sandie on Wed, 08 Aug 2007 09:17:00 PST

Freedom from prisons.. What is your prison?

Define Freedom, Define Prisons in  your life.... I'll tell you about Mine, and I'll tell you about What I have seen. My Prison was my Marriage of 20 some years. It was more than 20 but I hat...
Posted by Sandie on Sat, 28 Jul 2007 11:10:00 PST

On being a Leo and long comments to other posts...

I Write long comments because I feel If you take the time to write such long blogs that go on and on about Men and Women and Sex and such, then It opens the door for me to write just as long comments ...
Posted by Sandie on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 07:34:00 PST

My Sister Violet, I miss her

I love to write, especially when something or someone inspires me. I lost someone special in my life in March 2004, My baby sister. I still miss her especially when ever I read a story or see a story ...
Posted by Sandie on Sun, 10 Jun 2007 09:43:00 PST

Womens changing morals and why most women do not trust each other

Come on Ladies you know you have met them. Or heard of them. or even dealt with them. The women who seem to love to flirt with "attached men just to see if they can steal them.. Or is it our imag...
Posted by Sandie on Mon, 20 Nov 2006 06:05:00 PST

I want to hear the worlds view on this...

Im new to this, so bare with me. Id like to know the worlds view on a certain subject. So lets check this out World. Id love to hear from everyone on this. So give me what you got!!!  If a couple...
Posted by Sandie on Sat, 28 Oct 2006 01:15:00 PST