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Esther and Ralph

How deep is your love?

About Me


...not here to make new friends on MySpace. I'm here to keep in touch with the friends I have in REAL LIFE...

About Esther & Ralph:
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People like to say that life is short, well I've learned to believe the opposite - Life is the longest thing you're ever gonna do, so we have to be wise about the choices we make. Why is it so hard to think far enough ahead and have some foresight? Foresight can be a saving grace, I tell ya'. I think people use the 'life is short' ditty to make excuses for their irrational actions, but you should never be so careless about your decisions for it DOES and WILL affect others - your choices CAN and DO limit or expand your possibilities. Know that. Everyone makes mistakes, but how many times will you make the same ones?Life is not about the next big party. Life is not about trying to get others attention. Life is about inspiring others to do great things. My life has taught me a lot about myself and others and I'm still learning new things everyday. Challenge yourself.Many people seem to forget about human nature and have unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationships.A simple breakdown of a few key things to keep in mind when trying to be compatible with another human being:1) Be sensitive to the other person's feelings.2) Respect your relationship(s).3) Communicate wisely.4) Re-evaluate your goals together.Seems so simple, huh? It usually seems that unecessary problems abound mostly because of 1 or both people being too selfish. Be a giver. Try it...

My Interests

We love to hang out with good, honest people. There are no exceptions to that rule. We don't go out as much as much as we used to, but it's just another changing step up on our long journey through this life together.

Tripping out on colors, sounds, love and everything else in between this life. Spontaneity is great, but we are starting to learn more about planning and orginization as we take on more responsibilities. We're always defining and redefining ourselves. How else can you grow as an individual? Don't look up to us - we're just as lost in the head as you are! ......

I'd like to meet:

Who I'd Like to Meet: The balancer of nature. Those who speak truths, are respectful, and can be real with themselves as well as others. Those who remember me and can help me to remember myself. Anyone who knows how to love themselves. Sarcastic monkeys and passive Homo Erecti welcome, however, I will not add you just to add you. Be significant.
TONY JAA KICKS ASS!!!Tony Jaa

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Aren't we ALL a bit ecclectic?
I must ROCK out. I have a preference for DIRTY SEATTLE ROCK when in the mood for some inspiration and mental cleansing, although some hard-core industrial will suffice me brainwaves. I'll bounce around to just about anything when the buzz is right. I have a weakness for 80's music (new wave and 80's pop) as well as old school Country. We're both suckers for acoustic guitar (the

and Alice in Chains Unplugged albums RULE!) and if I hear any music with a violin in it, I have a tendency to want to close my eyes and just listen. Blow up the outside world.
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Movies:

..most anything with Christopher Walken, Milla Jovovich, Adam Sandler, Drew Barrymore, Jim Carrey, Janeane Garofalo, Johnny Depp, Molly Ringwald, Duane Johnson, Bruce Lee, Al Pacino or Vince Vaughn.
Namedrops
(in no particular order):
Seven Swords
50 First Dates
The Matrix (all 3)
Mad Love
Beaches
Amadeus
Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventures
Memento
Natural Born Killers
Baoh
Edward Scissorhands
Spriggan
Dumb and Dumber
All Dogs Go To Heaven
Godforsaken
A Clockwork Orange
Back to the Future (all 3)
Indiana Jones (all 3)
Donnie Darko
What's eating Gilbert Grape?
Pecker
Bottle Rocket
The Notebook
Kung Fu Kids
Rain Man
The Land Before Time
The Color Purple
Adventures in Babysitting
Most 80's teen movies
Anything that makes you think, believe, dream or that will seemingly ignite a spark of hope for this doomed generation of regurgitated brand names...

Television:

I enjoy living vicariously through the adventures shown on the Travel Channel. Can't help but to catch up on some knowledge via the History & Discovery Channels (I know, I know...'educational' programs can be biased and not completely factual, but it's still semi-informative). I love The Simpsons and Cartoon Network's 'Adult Swim'. I also love LOVE LOVE this Irish guy, but haven't caught a show in over a year...is it still even on?:
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Books:

Piers Anthony books are a favorite. Tom Robbins is another good author because he writes the way I imagine that he talks. Timeline was an excellent read but HORRIBLE movie just like so many others.
Currently reading Carrion Companion by Dan Simmons. I always mean to get around to writing about books that I've read...maybe after this one, I'll find time to let y'all know what I thought about the book. It's pretty meaty and will take me a while since I just can't seem to concentrate lately (a lot going on)...

Heroes:


Those who have paved the way so that we may make our own paths. Those with the ability to change, adapt and grow. Those who make mistakes and really learn from them. Peacekeepers, peacemakers, fighters and backbones of families - keep up the good work. Fight the good fight...

My Blog

Light & Dark - compassion is the goal

An interesting read...to be taken as 'informational' purposes and get your mind thinking a bit: Polarity Integration: the "Universal Game" Polarity Integration means the integration of two opposites.&...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Mon, 15 Sep 2008 02:54:00 PST

Memo

Things that are easy to forget:1. Where you come from.2. Where you want to go.I'm focused on my goals. I'm in control. I make the rules. I bend for nobody.I got to spend a lot of time with family...my...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Tue, 09 Sep 2008 09:04:00 PST

Trailblazing

So many haps'...makes time just fly on by! In the past few months, so much has gone on...some good, some not so good, but all very interesting. I've learned a HELL of a LOT and have done puh-lenty of ...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Wed, 03 Sep 2008 09:44:00 PST

You knee verse

The Universe does not compute negative statements. As always, be wise with your thoughts and be careful what you wish for.  ¿
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Mon, 07 Jul 2008 02:58:00 PST

Today's young gluttons know nothing of such subtleties and restraint

If the person who hurt you the most in your life apologized and told you they loved you what would you say?Usually, the people who hurt you the most, ARE the ones who love you and also whom you love b...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Fri, 13 Jun 2008 06:14:00 PST

Who’da thunk?

I can't believe my brother is getting married this weekend...guess it still hasn't sunk in yet.  Happy for him and all, but you know...It's a nice change from the weird energies that have been pr...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Thu, 22 May 2008 06:29:00 PST

The Curse

...of the drunken touchy feely monster strikes again. Damn, that really, really disgusts me.   I don't know how many times I have to say it, but if you wouldn't normally be that touchy feely...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Sat, 03 May 2008 04:26:00 PST

CERN, the Grid and Red Button Day

  ----------------- Bulletin Message -----------------From: FreemanDate: Apr 30, 2008 2:39 PM Should we be conCERNed about "Red-Button" Day? "The Grid" has many capabilities that are not discusse...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Thu, 01 May 2008 05:19:00 PST

Ten Killer Tactics for Developing a New Skill

Ten Killer Tactics for Developing a New Skill Posted: 06 Apr 2008 09:00 AM CDT In our everyday lives, it's very easy to become complacent and content with our current skills and abilities. We have bu...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 05:27:00 PST

If you open it, close it

Life is not hard; life is what YOU make of it. I’m pleased that I am in the position to give back and help out...even though I may not have much, I am always willing to help, if and when I can. ...
Posted by Esther and Ralph on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 02:23:00 PST