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Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.. ~Sun*Beam~

About Me


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35yr YOUNG ~ Female, living in South Western, PA. I have 3 WONDERFUL Children - 2 teenage boys ( that are making me more gray - by the minute!) and a daughter who is 9. I'm married to the most WONDERFUL lady - (that's right I said lady) we have been together - almost 10 years!!! Although, I am living in a LESBIAN relationship - I still consider myself as being BI. Together, we have a beautiful home on 5 acreas of wooded land. We have 2 Cats (Taylor & Tink) & 2 Dogs (Tesa & Toby).
I Live to Love and I Love to Live. I am a learner, a lover, a simple but deep thinker, a kid at heart, a quick planner that can throw something together in a blink of an eye but will have everything together to make the most out of every momment there is. I love my family and my friends and I hold them as a high priority in my life. I love to laugh and see people smile. I am constantly learning how to play this game of life, but I must say I have learned the most important thing and can sum it up in 3 words; It goes on! Im as friendly and as layed back as one can get. I'm thankful for even the hardest times, I believe that there is a lesson to all of lifes journeys that we take. I do believe that there is happiness to be found for everyone, It's the journey and the lessons that we learn on the way that will make that one true love just that! I look for nothing but yet search for everything. I am utter confussion! Everytime, I think I have it all figured out - I don't. I have alot of life experience that has taken me in different directions knowing alot of pain. I have learn to slowly heal from this - my BLOGGING & I encourage you to read ~ MY TRUE LIFE SERIES - The REAL ME ~ a set of blogs about my life. I'm learning to laugh at things even when they piss me off. Somehow if you think about it hard enough everything has humor in it. I am a dreamer that tries to live practically. I believe that passion lives with in, and that laughing and joking heals all wounds. I love people that can find a song for every momment that needs to be expressed! I dont think there is a better feeling in life than the one you feel when you make that special connection!! I love to be kissed in the rain, I love cloudy days where the sunbeams are peeking through the clouds. I love LIFE ~~ even more then Life - I enjoy the fact I have he opportunity to learn more & more about others & their lives.
I enjoy meeting new people, campfires, laughter & traveling. I LOVE just jumping into a car & driving to the middle of nowhere --- and having the best of ever.I am very affectionate, passionate, giving, funny, and romantic. I love to give someone kisses that can curl their toes and have their hand rest softly on my thigh as we snuggle on the couch. A big plus is feeling her head upon my shoulder. I like to dance, play pool ( although - I'm not the best shooter) and try new things. While touch is my main pleasure sense, I have been told that I am also a great listener... I need affection, honesty, and fun. I love to try new things and always seek out those that crave adventure.
I can feel at home in both a road side bar or in an art museum. At times, I am very sarcastic (my favorite brand of humor)and I have been known to playfully tease, but never in a mean or hurtful way. I Love reading BLOGS & learning about the life & backgrounds of others.
Yes, I am an old soul. For what I mean by it, see the old soul description at http://www.michaelteachings.com/soul_ages.html- I like that description. I certainly don't mean I'm better than anyone else by that. Just that I have different priorities and perceptions than what you normally meet in this society."We cannot control life's difficult moments but we can choose to make life less difficult. We cannot control the negative atmosphere of the world, but we can control the atmosphere of our minds. Too often we try to choose and control things we cannot. Too seldom we choose to control what we can -- our attitude." - John C. Maxwell***************************************************** *****

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Weekend getaways, traveling, amusement parks,playing board games, camp fires, concerts, poetry, dinner cruises, dancing.... and meeting new people.... I love to cook & bake.. and I enjoy trying new recipes.
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Some of my likes are: I Like "SYLVESTER the CAT ", YELLOW ROSES, Rainbows, Sunsets, & nature. My favorite drink ~~ Ice Tea or Jack & Coke. Favorite Color ~ Yellow..... My Mother always said - be nice to strangers - they may someday be your relatives...

I'd like to meet:


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Just searching for a few new friends to chat with ~ male or female - that have atleast a 1/2 a brain to communicate with. I enjoy the opportunity to chat with people of all levels - especially if they can make me smile or laugh. I DON'T want to have cyber sex - and NO I don't want to be on a web cam - I just want good 'ol FUN FRIENDSHIPS!!! I have been told I have a large personality. I realize that many people only seach these sites to find people to "HOOKUP" with ~ BUT what about all the others who are just looking to chat or make friends or to just find something interesting out about someone else ... I can't be the ONLY SOUL who is content within my life ... that is... just TRUELY SEARCHING for friendship.I wouldn't care if the person has 1 eye ~ 1 horn ~ or is a flying purple people eater ... as long as the person could communicate with a 1/2 a brain & could make me smile, laugh or fall deep into thought ~ I would enjoy the chance to get to know them. ~*~I'm just online to have a goodtime ~ to hopefully brighten someones day or to have mine enlightened by someone else. ~*~"A successful day: To learn something new; to laugh at least 10 times; to lift someone up; to make progress on a worthy goal; to practice peace and patience; to do something nice for yourself and another; to appreciate and be grateful for all of your blessings."Micheal Angier

Music:

My Girl LOVES the Color PURPLE ~ So here is a SPECIAL ROSE for her
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Music? Well, that depends on where I am. I perfer Country & soft rock most of the time, but I enjoy "club" music when we are out for a night on the town. I LOVE TRISHA YEARWOOD, Sara Evans & Carrie Underwood.Take the quiz:
What dragon species are you? (Stunning pics)

Fire Dragon
Rage, passion, you burn with the essence of a powerful flame. You are powerful and majestic and dont let anyone stand in your way without a fight.

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Here is a Special Quote that my friend "Sunny" sent me -- I loved it!! "People are like trees, you have some people that are like leaves... they are unsteady and you never know when they are gonna blow away. Then you have the branches... you think you can lean on them, but, the minute you do they break, and then you have the roots... the roots are the ones that nourish you and keep you grounded... If you can find at least 3 roots in your life, hang onto them, for they will be the ones to keep you grounded..."

Movies:

Some of my favorite movies are: Ghost, Sugar Hill, The Outsiders, In & Out ... as you can see - when it comes to movies I am fairly diverse. I like a little of this & a little of that. I not in to HORROR MOVIES ~ sorry, I just can't do all the blood & guts! I know - you probaly think I'm a WHIMPY CHICKEN --- and you would be right!!! I'm just happy with a GOOD COMEDY or a perfect LOVE Story.
Your Seduction Style: The Charismatic
You're beyond seductive, you're downright magnetic!
You life live and approach seduction on a grand scale.
You have an inner self confidence and energy that most people lack
It's these talents that make you seem extraordinary - and you truly are! What Is Your Seduction Style?

Television:

TV ~ I like "court shows", game shows, and most of the reality tv shows. Prison Break has been a favorite of mine for the last 2 seasons. House, COPS, Dog the Bounty Hunter, Wheel of Fortune - Starting Over, HOUSE, and ... again after almost 15 years - Days of Our Lives. I love Comedy Central & any type of comedy shows too....

You're a Playful Kisser
Kissing is a huge game for you, a way to flirt and play
You're the first one to suggest playing spin the bottle at a party
Or you'll go for the wild kiss during a game of truth or dare
And you're up for kissing any sexy stranger if the mood is right! What Kind of Kisser Are You?

Books:

Read? Who has the time to read? I have been writing a book for several months ~ but haven't spent much time reading.... other then ~ I did pick up " SHOW & TELL " - a book of short hot encounters - other then that - reading is out the window, unless I am reading someones profile or searching through the BLOGS.The GRASS May be Greener on the OTHER SIDE of the fence, but it STILL needs mowed!

Heroes:

My number one hero is MY MOTHER ~ she will always be the light of my life.
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Remember: The media is filled with propaganda and sensationalism designed to provoke public interest and excitement. They do it for the ratings; that is how they get paid. They make millions while the average person spends the day going broke discussing yesterday's stories. Just because everyone else falls for the temptation, realize it has vitually no effect on your life and is merely distracting others from theirs!!
Remember: Someone's opinion, just like yours, is just an opinion. Remember: Decide to be happy each and every day and see how many other people you can share it with. Remember: A sincere apology to someone you care about will solve more problems and disagreements than the best argument ever will. Remember: A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt for the one you love when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember: Give time to love, give time to speak and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind and the minds of those you love. Remember: Say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember: Spend quality time with your loved ones because they are not going to be around forever. Remember: To hold hands and cherish the moment with the one's you love most for somebody that person will no longer be there for you to touch. Remember: To give a warm hug to the ones you love because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent. Remember: to say, "I love you" to your loved ones each and every day for you never know which one will be your last chance. What..who were you in your previous life? (Many outcomes and pics)
You were a healer in your previous life! You gave your all to help the sick of body, heart, and soul. As a result, you have much compassion for humanity, and may be drawn to areas in healthcare or community service. People are drawn to the nurturing aura you exude, and you seek love.
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Just a RAY of SUNBEAMS ~ shining onto you

Image found on Skem9.comLife is such a roller coaster ride & many times, the ride is nearing the end when we have just started to enjoy the UPS & DOWNS......I hope that each & everyone of you are ENJO...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Sat, 13 Jan 2007 08:58:00 PST

True Life Series ~ The REAL ME Cpt 25 BIG AS A HOUSE

Talking about Big as a House. I was getting bigger and bigger by the minute! I swear my stomach was larger then two basketballs. In July of 1990, Jim and I was out for a Sunday drive in the country....
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 08:29:00 PST

True Life Series ~ The REAL ME Chpt 24 ~ Call 911

.Graduation was fun! It was great to see all my friends walk across the stage. It was a wonderful feeling to know that we all had accomplished something so special. It was a new start for many of us. ...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Sun, 12 Nov 2006 09:04:00 PST

True Life Series ~ The REAL ME Chpt 23 ~ GRADUATION TIME!

Life was so Different without DeDe. I was so use to having her bubbly personality at home. I was use to hearing her singing in her bedroom or watching her dance in the kitchen while she was doing the...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Tue, 07 Nov 2006 11:37:00 PST

How Could you do this to me? <pout> Sunbeam

HEllo my friends ~ I have been feeling a little under the weather and haven't had a chance to sit and write from the heart... but I came across this wonderful story posted by my friend Lisa and tho...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Wed, 08 Nov 2006 04:14:00 PST

What's for Dinner?

Hey there Friends ~~ What are you having for Dinner tonight? Is it something QUICK & bout of a box? is it a recipe that has been passed down from family member to family member? Is it something that...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Fri, 03 Nov 2006 12:28:00 PST

True Life Series ~ The REAL ME Chpt 22 ~ The Verdict

Before I knew it... the trail was set for DeDe's court hearing. We were all anxious and nervous about what was going to happen to her. We live in a very tight conservative community. One of theose to...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Wed, 01 Nov 2006 08:39:00 PST

Happy Halloween to all my FRIENDS

Happy HALLOWEEN to ALL MY FRIENDS out there in CYBER LAND!!! Hope your day is filled with SPECIAL TREATS & no TRICKS!!!May your Week be FRIGHTFUL!!!Kisses & Hugs to you all!!!...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Tue, 31 Oct 2006 10:17:00 PST

~ The Other ONE Who Shares Your Lips ~

It's BEEN forever & 3 days since I tried to write a POEM... but this MORNING .. this just came to me & I had to share it... PLEASE... Don't JUDGE me.. until you read the whole thing... & d...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Sat, 09 Sep 2006 10:30:00 PST

True Life Series ~ The REAL ME Chpt 21 ~ The PROM

The court system in the United States is so overcrowded. What most people believe only takes a few weeks, sometimes turns into months. DeDe's hearing didn't come for sometime. Each day was scary for ...
Posted by ~ Sun*Beam ~ on Mon, 30 Oct 2006 06:03:00 PST