The person I desire is passionate (but need not necessarily share mine...although this would be a nice bonus ;) ) Be coy, be clever, be confident, and be flirty. I..m looking for an accomplice, not a co-dependent. Physicality is just one small part of an infinitely complex equation, but I tend to gravitate towards men who tend towards an athletic build. However, there are no hard and fast rules in my book. I..m ultimately looking to ..connect......this may be intellectually, sexually, or some other way, but the ideal would be to connect ON ALL levels.