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Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!!

I'm Good Enough, I'm Smart Enough, and Doggone It, People Like Me! --- Daily Affirmation with Stuart

About Me

:: WHAT KIND OF PERSON AM I? ::
I am easy going, low maintenance, passionate, a hopeless romantic, caring, independent, spontaneous, ambitious, assertive, straight-forward, open-minded, outspoken when need to, and have a great sense of humor with killer sarcasm from time to time. I consider my mind being the greatest asset. I do what I say, and I say what I mean. I am confident and secure about myself. I am not afraid to dine alone or travel to foreign lands by myself. I strive to be distinctive and refuse to be ordinary. I understand I have many flaws and am constantly seeking personal growth trying to better myself.
I believe that sexiness is not measured by how much clothes you wear, but rather by the attitude that you possess. I believe in open communication and would not hesitate to tell you what's on my mind. I am the most loyal and honest friend one can ever have. However, I am extremely selective of whom I befriend with, and if you cross me or lie to me, I will walk out of your life in the blink of an eye as if we've never met.
Since I'm an extravert, I love meeting people and learning how a person processes his/her thoughts, and enjoy healthy and friendly discussions on diverse topics ranging from sex to religion. I am non-judgmental and can hang out with anyone and have a good time, men and women. I am comfortable with spending quiet time at home as well as dancing my butt off when I go out.
Lastly, I enjoy diverse activities including going to the museums, visiting art galleries, going to the zoo, traveling, kayaking, dancing three hours non-stop in the clubs, laughing my head off at stand-up comedies, being a Star Trek (TNG) and Star Wars fan, and watching Broadway musicals. I am always trying out and learning new things. My goal is to see this world before I part from this world. :: ABOUT MY PICTURES ::
I did a little modeling for 2 years as a fun side gig for extra cash. Since we all want to put our best foot forward, I'm putting up a few professional pictures here. However, I will keep posting newer/casual pictures of me so you know that I'm not a fake. :)
Many have asked why I stopped. As I mentioned, it was a fun SIDE GIG for extra cash. When my regular job became more demanding (and paid much more), I just stopped. Plus, I was getting old. It was fun while it lasted though. I've encountered people I thought would have only existed on TV or in movies! :O
I no longer model and my website "www.purplejoy.com" has gone away. It was a fun experience!

My Interests

Star Trek: The Next Generation
Star Wars
Paris
Barcelona
New York
Amateur travel photography
Desigual - Spanish clothing brand
Claude Monet
Vincent Van Gogh
"The Kiss" by Auguste Rodin
Antoni Gaudi and his Casa Batllo
The Getty Center - My favorite hang out spot!
Late Harvest White Riesling and Muscat/Moscato
Japanese Plum Wine
Ice Blended Mocha from The Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf
My biggest guilty pleasure... The Mud Pie from Elephant Bar

and everything listed below...

I'd like to meet:

:: WHAT AM I HERE FOR? ::
I am very blunt and opinionated. I like to keep it real and to tell it like it is. Therefore, I'd like to meet open minded people (both men and women, and no, I am not bi nor even curious. I am a one-man woman) with interesting opinions to share. My intention here is to make friends. However, if the attraction is MUTUAL , then I won't eliminate the possibility of dating down the road. If you are mature, goofy, non-judgmental, and have something constructive and positive to say, then please feel free to send me a message. :: SO YOU'RE CURIOUS ABOUT MY TYPE OF MAN ::
What I look for in a man is simple. I'm looking for my life partner. He should be a balanced person physically, mentally, and spiritually. Age-wise, he would be no more than 3 years younger than me, and no more than 5 years older than me. Physically, I prefer a man that's at least 6' tall (because I'm 5'10" in my heels) with darker complexion. He doesn't have to go to the gym all the time, but his weight should be proportional to his height (no pot belly please!). He doesn't have to make a lot of money, but he should be able to sustain himself with good financial sense. Mentally, he would be faithful, loyal, honest, compassionate, and dependable. He would be my confidant and critic. I prefer someone that's professional, open minded, cultured, business oriented, and has a regular job; someone that's not "Hollywood". Good communication skill is very important, because I don't like having big fights. I'd much rather talk things out and resolve conflicts rationally. We should also be able to let our guards down, act goofy, and make each other laugh uncontrollably. Spiritually, we should be able to go to the church together, and support each other through prayers. He would not be a hypocrite and would respect other people's beliefs allowing God working things out in His time.
He is not going to be perfect. However, he would be a perfect man for me with his own flaws, just as I would be the perfect woman for him with my own flaws.
Is this too much to ask for? LOL! :: AM I FOR REAL? ::
Pictures of some of the beautiful people I've already met:

Anastasia

She is a Black Belt! Don't mess with her! Hanieh

With photographer LeMar J. Kawai

At Yansy's wedding Darnell

Don't steal the dish from my neighbor! Adrienne

Chow-Mo'-Beans?! Haha!
Banky

New York's best! :) RD

Sushi! Yeah! Sky

Free BBQ? Where?! Bianca

"Is that the dumbass you told me about?" LOL! Jessica

2 words: MACHO BURRITO!
Towanna

99 cent hand rolls in Waikiki! Gernard

My official dance patna! Cyrus

One artistically gifted soul Raheem

Inglewood is always up to no good! HAHA! Jason

At his dress-up bday dinner
David

I hope my brother takes all your money at poker! :P Cara

We are 32 and we are damn proud of it! Keith

Photo by LeMar J. of Vestige Imagery Michael

Garlic ice cream at The Stinking Rose! Chris

My hoop earrings are only $2.80! LOL!
Jessica

What a wonderful woman. :) Rasheed

70 degree rain and wind is better than 20 degree cold! Chris

My favorite white boy! DL

We finally took a picture together! Will

Coldbuster from Jamba Juice is da shit!
Carl

"Video Girl". ROTFL!!! Qahhaar

Japanese BBQ. Yum... Tisha

TISHA! TISHA!!! Can you hear me now?! LOL! Earl

Don't vote him off the island! Ray

When are you coming to LA again? :)
Julius

J-U-ICE! The tallest person I know :) Jason

Got girl problems lately? LOL! Mya

Oishii ne~~~ :) Julia

Girl you so crazeee!!! Uheina

Honihoni? ;)
Cherisse

Lava Flowwwwww! Kwame

Coffee Bean is the new crack! Tracy

The coolest drummer in LA! Cheryl

"HELLO, I'm Junk in the Trunk" LOL! Lena

My sister in Christ :)
Julie Day

My favorite Jazz vocalist!

Music:

Hip-Hop/Rap
Fav. artists:
Tupac
Biggie
Jay-Z
Bone Thugs N Harmony
Ludacris
R&B/Soul
Fav. artists:
Luther Vandross (R.I.P.)
Jodeci/Kci & Jojo
Maxwell
Babyface
Erykah Badu
Jill Scott
Brian McKnight
Anthony Hamilton
Also, check out my boy Banky. He is AMAZING!
Banky's MySpace page
http://www.myspace.com/banky

Jazz/Spanish Guitar/Latin Influenced
Fav. artists:
Marc Anthony
Gloria Estefan
Also, check out Miss Julie Day. She has an incredible, soothing, and soulful voice!
Julie's MySpace page
http://www.myspace.com/juliesingsjazz

Broadway Musicals/Opera
What I've seen so far:
- The Phantom of the Opera
- Miss Saigon
- Les Miserables
- Chicago (Watched it in NYC with Usher as Billy Flynn)
- Wicked
- La Traviata
- Don Carlo
- Manon
On Sundays I enjoy a little Classical and Latin Salsa when football isn't on.
I play these:
Chinese Harp/Zither/"Gu Zheng"

(Recording a sample for Kirv Entertainment/Records . 2/12/2006)
Chinese Guitar/"Ruan" (Played in the orchestra)

Movies:

Star Trek: First Contact (the Borg movie) Star Trek: Nemesis Star Wars (all of them) Friday (CLASSIC! LOL) My Best Friend's Wedding Forget Paris Moulin Rouge Amalie (Can you sense my love for Paris by now? ;) Brown Sugar Love Actually Closer The 40-Year Old Virgin An Inconvenient Truth Little Miss Sunshine

Television:

National Geographic Discovery Channel History Channel Court TV The Travel Channel Comedy Central - The Chappelle's Show, Mind of Mencia, South Park, Stand-up comedies Sex And The City (I own the entire DVD collection!) The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air Wanda At Large Extreme Make-over: Home Edition (What a positive show!) ESPN NFL
(Always!)
2006 Chargers pre-season game vs. Packers. My first live NFL game!

2006 USC vs. UW. My first USC game!

NBA
(Of course! LOL)
(Up and coming!)
2006 first Lakers home playoff game vs. Phoenix Suns

NCAA March Madness Taiwanese/Chinese, Japanese, and Korean drama series. They are addictive! NO REALITY SHOWS!!!

Books:

  • Secrets of Power Negotiating for Salespeople Do What You Are Who Moved My Cheese? The Girls' Guide to Power and Success
  • Investing For Dummies The Da Vinci Code Angels & Demons Novels by James Patterson

    Heroes:

    Capt. Jean-Luc Picard of Star Trek: The Next Generation. I know it's a fictional character, but he is a great leader! He is selfless, fearless, impartial, not afraid to acknowledge his own flaws, and is on a constant quest to better himself and the mankind. Hey, I even have the same Personality Type as Patrick Stewart! :)

    My Blog

    Pictures from trip to Cabo San Lucas, May 2007

    I just came back from an awesome weekend trip to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. I've been wanting to visit Cabo for years and I'm so happy I finally made it out there!TUBE TOP & MARGARITA WEEKENDYes, that's ...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Tue, 29 May 2007 12:44:00 PST

    Path to a happier life as a single woman

    I took my dear friend Gernard to dinner tonight for missing out on his birthday parties in Vegas and LA. We were talking about how people change without realizing it, and how people can be full of shi...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Mon, 12 Mar 2007 01:49:00 PST

    Pictures from 33rd birthday get together 2007

    I had my 33rd birthday get together last night. It was great! It was exactly what I had planned for; just a simple, fun, low-key night with my close friends.We had dinner at this family style Italian ...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Mon, 22 Jan 2007 10:18:00 PST

    Pictures from trip to Hawaii... LOTS OF PICTURES!!!

    I went to Hawaii with my girls for the weekend. Oh my goodness did we have fun! We were the loudest and the most rowdy group everywhere we went acting like fools. LOL!Hawaii here we come!!!Tisha, me, ...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Thu, 02 Nov 2006 04:48:00 PST

    Pictures from trip to NYC with a visit to Ground Zero near 5-year anniversary

    I went to NYC for Labor Day weekend visiting my friends and of course, visiting one of my favorite cities in the whole world (besides Paris and Barcelona). I got in Friday and met up with one of my My...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Wed, 06 Sep 2006 10:48:00 PST

    Pictures from trip to South Beach!

    I went to South Beach for July 4th weekend for the first time in my life. I know, as much as I travel, I've never had a chance to visit Miami. It was an awesome weekend and I'm still recovering today....
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Wed, 05 Jul 2006 12:29:00 PST

    Pictures from trip to Seoul, Korea

    I am back from my short business trip to Seoul, Korea. It was my first time there and I had a blast. Seoul is a beautiful city with the Han River running through it. The food was great and people were...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Sat, 06 May 2006 05:30:00 PST

    Pictures from trip to Barcelona, Spain

    If Florence is enchanting, Rome is magnificent, Paris is romantic, then Barcelona is definitely passionate. If Paris is my first love, then Barcelona is my new love. The city is lively with wonderful ...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Sat, 11 Mar 2006 01:34:00 PST

    Pictures from Philly trip

    I am back from my trip to Philly tonight. It was my first time visiting and I really enjoyed it despite the freezing cold and snow. I'm very happy I made it out there. I had a blast! So without fur...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Tue, 17 Jan 2006 11:58:00 PST

    Do bliss and soulmates exist?

    I recently had a discussion with a new friend on the existence of bliss. I've been asked about my opinion on this topic, along with the existence of "soulmates" numerous times. I thought I'd share my ...
    Posted by Kiss my flat Chinese ass! BYAAAH!!! on Sun, 04 Dec 2005 02:05:00 PST