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Dottie Bear

I have a weird relationship with a cow

About Me



I smile a lot. I laugh loud enough to be heard outside buildings. I guess you could say I'm an optimist, but I just like to believe that things want to work out in life, you just have to trust in it. So far life has proven me right!!

My Interests

Skydiving. Beer. Movies. Music. All things that entertain and enrich my life!

I'd like to meet:

I already have some really amazing friends, who stay close and dear to me even tho months pass between the times we get to see each other. They understand my moods and get my vulgar sense of humor!

Then you add in my remarkable family who showers me with love and affection enough in 3 months to last me all year...well, anyone else I meet at this point in my life is just a bonus to what I already have!!

Music:

Why is anything that is any good that actually makes it to the radio immediately played so much that you begin to hate it?? No wonder I depend on my cds and iPod so much!!

Movies:

I love movies. In the theatre, at home, on my computer; action, drama, comedy, horror(if I have some to hide my eyes behind),and some romance, as long as its not cheesey. I like em all

Television:

See little use for it beyond watching movies, playing guitar hero, and perhaps the occasional cartoon.

Books:

Largely sci-fi, but I like a good murder mystery too. Always looking for good new books to read!!

My Blog

Where did we go wrong?

I always expected to grow up and have life get less confusing, have things suddenly make sense, become more secure in my place in this world...and imagined those around me would feel the same. I thoug...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Tue, 22 Jan 2008 04:14:00 PST

The end is at the beginning

As the sun starts to set and my day winds up at work, I wonder what I will feel when I arrive in a house so far changed from what it was only a day ago. Its amazing how so much can change in your life...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Thu, 06 Dec 2007 01:27:00 PST

Summer’s sweet end

I can't believe it, but the Hamptons are this week, entries for Indoors have been sent in, and all conversations are about the fall shows, equitation finals, and even about Florida! The kids are all a...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Tue, 28 Aug 2007 05:01:00 PST

What nerds do on Sat night

So I know it makes me immature and a huge geek, but I did what I am sure lots of others are doing....I may have just purchased my copy of the newest harry potter book this morning, and only really got...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Sun, 22 Jul 2007 11:30:00 PST

Its only fair!

Who knew what I would consider the best part of moving to Somers wouldn't be my new job, nor living with Tim. Its not the proximity to NYC, or even the hour taken off my drive to Cross Keys. No, while...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Sun, 17 Jun 2007 05:51:00 PST

Cause you know you care

How can I resist the urge to talk about myself, and to do what Tim told me to? So here we go - Here's how you play:once you have been tagged, write a blog with 6 weird or random things, facts, or habi...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 02:39:00 PST

Reasons why Myspace is evil....

I am sitting here, online for most of the evening, when I should be packing to leave TOMORROW! Oh, dear lord! Procrasination has always been in my nature, and it appears that no matter how many ways I...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 06:13:00 PST

Take me where the sun shines....

Why does it seem like all the gods are against me going to FL this year??? Its not enough for the Arute's to decide they want to stay up north and do a few of the local shows. Now, incredibly and horr...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Fri, 15 Dec 2006 11:34:00 PST

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!

Yes, I'm being the lame ass who is posting a blog about what she is thankful for on Thanksgiving. But, I have good reasons for doing this. One, it's my way of wishing everyone a happy thanksgiving, be...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Fri, 24 Nov 2006 06:57:00 PST

resolution of happiness.....

I was listening to an absolutely beautiful song today while I was driving, and had something happen to me that hasn't happened in nearly a year. Tears rolled down my cheeks. I laughed in surprise. No...
Posted by Dottie Bear on Tue, 10 Oct 2006 11:20:00 PST