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The Tao of Terri

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I am a native Californian transplanted to Arkansas 13 years ago. I am a wife (for almost 38 years), mother of 2 grown sons and grandmother of 6 great kids. I am currently in the process of much internal, emotional transition. Since leaving my full-time job last September (2005), I am working on a plan or direction for the rest of my life and/or possibly retirement. I would love to talk to people who are in similar circumstances.:
Okay, I stole these from my son's Myspace page, but I can show them just the same.
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Because counting backwards makes the time pass quicker...
You Have A Type A- Personality
You are one of the most balanced people around. Motivated and focused, you are good at getting what you want. You rule at success, but success doesn't rule you.
When it's playtime, you really know how to kick back, whether it's hanging out with friends or doing something you love! You live life to the fullest - incorporating the best of both worlds Do You Have a Type A Personality?
Your Values Profile
Loyalty:
You value loyalty a fair amount. You're loyal to your friends... to a point. But if they cross you, you will reconsider your loyalties. Staying true to others is important to you, but you also stay true to yourself.
Honesty:
You value honesty highly. You're unflinchingly honest, even when it's not easy. For you, integrity is very important - in yourself and others. People may not always like what you say, but they know they can trust it.
Generosity:
You value generosity highly. So much so that you often put your own needs last. There's nothing wrong with having a caring heart... But you may want to rethink your "open wallet" policy.
Humility:
You value humility highly. You have the self-confidence to be happy with who you are. And you don't need to seek praise to make yourself feel better. You're very modest, and you're keep the drama factor low.
Tolerance:
You value tolerance highly. Not only do you enjoy the company of those very different from you... You do all that you can to seek it out interesting and unique friends. You think there are many truths in life, and you're open to many of them.

My Interests

A Few Photos from Zoey's 3rd Birthday (Thanks, Kathy, for Sending Them!)

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I love boating - we have a ski boat and a sailboat. I also love camping (sort of - we have a small RV trailer), gardening, reading, cooking and the Internet (the greatest development in my lifetime).

You Are Likely an Only Child
(Actually, I am the oldest of five, but this was still interesting) At your darkest moments, you feel frustrated.
At work and school, you do best when you're organizing.

When you love someone, you tend to worry about them.

In friendship, you are emotional and sympathetic.
Your ideal careers are: radio announcer, finance, teaching, ministry, and management.

You will leave your mark on the world with organizational leadership, maybe as the author of self-help books.

The Birth Order Predictor
Your Hidden Talent
You are both very knowledgeable and creative.
You tend to be full of new ideas and potential - big potential.
Ideas like yours could change the world, if you build them.
As long as you don't stop working on your dreams, you'll get there. What's Your Hidden Talent?

I'd like to meet:

Still Living: President Bill Clinton, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Iyanla Vanzant, Maya Angelou, Aretha Franklin and Barbara Walters

No Longer Living: Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Eleanor Roosevelt, Col. Robert Gould Shaw and Abraham Lincoln

Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:

You have low extroversion.
You are quiet and reserved in most social situations.
A low key, laid back lifestyle is important to you.
You tend to bond slowly, over time, with one or two people.

Conscientiousness:

You have high conscientiousness.
Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life.
Most things in your life are organized and planned well.
But you borderline on being a total perfectionist.

Agreeableness:

You have medium agreeableness.
You're generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.

Neuroticism:

You have medium neuroticism.
You're generally cool and collected, but sometimes you do panic.
Little worries or problems can consume you, draining your energy.
Your life is pretty smooth, but there's a few emotional bumps you'd like to get rid of.

Openness to experience:

Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test

Music:


Love all kinds of music from New Age to Rap, although I think my least favorite is classic rock (I'd rather live in the present).

You are The Sun

Happiness, Content, Joy.

The meanings for the Sun are fairly simple and consistent.

Young, healthy, new, fresh. The brain is working, things that were muddled come clear, everything falls into place, and everything seems to go your way.

The Sun is ruled by the Sun, of course. This is the light that comes after the long dark night, Apollo to the Moon's Diana. A positive card, it promises you your day in the sun. Glory, gain, triumph, pleasure, truth, success. As the moon symbolized inspiration from the unconscious, from dreams, this card symbolizes discoveries made fully consciousness and wide awake. You have an understanding and enjoyment of science and math, beautifully constructed music, carefully reasoned philosophy. It is a card of intellect, clarity of mind, and feelings of youthful energy.

What Tarot Card are You?
Take the Test to Find Out.

Movies:

My favorite movie is Love Actually. The intro with the families and friends greeting, hugging and kissing at the airport makes me cry every time. Others that top my list are: Pulp Fiction, Hotel Rwanda, Traffic, In Her Shoes, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Under the Tuscan Sun, Playing by Heart, Quills... just to name few.

Television:

I became addicted to Starting Over when I caught it one day while I was eating lunch -- tivo'd it ever since and will miss it when it goes off the air. I have my tivo set to record (not in any particular order): Survivor, The Apprentice, Anthony Bourdain - No Reservations, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, Grey's Anatomy and Hardball with Chris Matthews.

Books:

How Stella Got Her Groove Back, The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, The Interruption of Everything, What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day and anything by John Grisham (especially A Time to Kill)

Heroes:

A hero is someone who moves beyond fear
towards battles his heart has to win,
who conquers not so much with forceful bravado;
but by summoning strength from within.
A hero is someone whose sense of what's right
propels him as nothing else could,
and when he performs beyond all of his dreams;
it is selflessly for other's good.
It is not within him to carry revenge
nor to boast of victories won,
but to quietly face every new challenge;
doing what needs to be done.
And even if fate deals him less than fair hands,
he plays them with fairness of heart
for it is an inherent goodness within
that sets a hero apart.

So with that in mind, my heroes are:
First, my husband, Tom. Living with me for 38 years has not been easy. He has loved me even at my most unlovable and has taught me the meaning of unconditional love more than anyone in my life.
My two sons, Mike and Chris. They both grew to be loving men with generous hearts inspite of my failings as a mom.
Former President Bill Clinton for his amazing mind (not morals).
Maya Angelou for her mesmorizing voice and her ability to express people's souls so clearly.
Mother Theresa for her patience and altruism.

My Blog

The Future Holds Lots of Changes...

and finishing Real Estate School is just the beginning. It was a very interesting, information packed three weekends that came to a close yesterday afternoon at 3:30 p.m. The office manager will submi...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Mon, 21 May 2007 08:38:00 PST

Friday Things

For Friday, May 18th ~ Short and SweetSome thing I love:1. Sunshine, beautiful sunshine.2. Tom holding me when I am sad3. The remodel on our house is starting to move quickly. They are painting the ex...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Sat, 19 May 2007 05:46:00 PST

A Great Day and A Disappointing Day

The Great Day...We just found out this morning that our offer was accepted on the house we want to "flip." It is a small (1,200 square feet), 3 bedroom, 2 bath house just outside the city limits and i...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Wed, 16 May 2007 11:41:00 PST

Friday Things

Some Things I Love: My grandson, Jacob. Monday was his birthday and he turned 14. I know he would hate me saying this, but he is a beautiful young man. He let his hair  grow really long an...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Fri, 11 May 2007 06:40:00 PST

It Wasn't a Cold Afterall...

It was pneumonia. When my cold didn't go away in the usual 5 or 6 days, I finally broke down and went to the doctor. Now I am taking meds and cough medicine, feel a little better and ready to get on w...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Wed, 09 May 2007 08:53:00 PST

Friday Things

For Friday, May 4th   Some Things I Love: "If you want my body,   and you think I'm sexy,  Come on, Sugar, let me know!"        ...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Fri, 04 May 2007 06:26:00 PST

Friday "Things"

For Friday, April  27th   Some Things I Love: My grandson, Zak. Very smart, very sweet and a little unpredictable. Today is his 16th birthday. Hide your car keys everyone!! Happy Birthday...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Fri, 27 Apr 2007 06:39:00 PST

Things That Make You Want To Go... WTF???

Georgia School Holds First Integrated Prom White And Black Students Held Separate Proms Until This Year ASHBURN, Ga. , April 24, 2007 What year is this??? 1967? No, 2007. And it was yesterday that I ...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Tue, 24 Apr 2007 08:05:00 PST

Unabashed Attorney Bashing

ATTORNEY: Are you sexually active?WITNESS: No, I just lie there.________________________________ATTORNEY: What is your date of birth?WITNESS: July 18th.ATTORNEY: What year?WITNESS: Every year._______...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Mon, 23 Apr 2007 06:10:00 PST

Friday "Things"

For Friday,  April 20th   Some Things I Love: Definitely my husband, Tom. Although he has his faults like anyone else, he is the greatest guy i.e. most loving, generous, kind, funny...
Posted by The Tao of Terri on Fri, 20 Apr 2007 05:38:00 PST