I learned alot about friends when i lost jessie, and tammy became apart of my life. I learned that a friend is someone I trust to be with me when I am at my weakest and most vulnerable. And they are people who, no matter how painful it is to see, are willing to be with me when Iam helpless and weak. If I would trust my life with you, and vice versa, we are friends. It's not about whether you are trustworthy, or whether you are friendly, it's the actual act of trust that is the basis of friendship. If I trust you to be truthful, then you're a friend. If I find I must be careful how I say things, then it's something other than friendship. Friendship is not a state of mind, it's an act. It's something you do, it's not about whether you're good or not, it's not a reflection of you, it's a balanced relationship between people. That does not mean it's always balanced at every moment. Sometimes you "need a friend" and other times it's the other way. It's a trust that's returned. When I was younger and thought I was in love, a friend said it's not love unless it's returned. Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there's a lot of love around friendship. I learned that love is not even something about two people, it's a state of being for one person. You are not in love, you are love. You are, whether you acknowledge it or not. One thing I feel needs to be said is that there are many other relationships that are not friendship that are still positive. The world is not divided into two parts; friends and enemies. I choose to think of friend as a very strong word, representing a very close relationship. I think this may be in part due to what I do, because I need a good solid line separating my public life from my personal. A friend is a personal relationship. I like and admire many people who I don't consider friends. A friend sent this to me and the more i read it and the more time that went by i began to question these words And then one day my friend was gone the words they had wrote was not to me but about me.And i realized that the job they were sent to do was done...Get your layout at MyToolSpace.com contact
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