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“between right doing and wrong doing there is a field I will meet you there.” Rumi

About Me

If you like to read about me visit my website: www.sylvieshene.com---If we open a quarrel between the past and the present, we shall find that we have lost the future. - Winston Churchill---Children make perfect mirrors, triggers, to rise to the surface, our unconsciousness, all of the traits in ourselves that we have disowned, repressed and denied. Most parents blame and punish their children for triggering and mirroring those traits back to them. This is the biggest injustice I have whiteness in this world. When this happens parents lose the opportunity of becoming responsible parents and the opportunity for healing to start. This is very sad and tragic. Parents dont realize that in most cases their desire to have children comes from their unconscious needs and compulsion to recreate their own childhood situation but now to be in control of it.There will be no true justice until children have the same protection against assault as adults do. Would Jesus (Christ) spank a child? I think not.The great malady of our society, implicated in all our troubles and affecting us individually and socially, is the denial of our shadow and the neglect of our soul. When our shadow is denied, and our soul neglected they dont just go away. They appear symptomatically in obsessions, addictions, violence, greed, deceit and loss of meaning. Our temptation is to isolate these symptoms or try to eradicate them one by one; but the root problem is the denial of our shadow and the neglect of our soul. When we admire people for who they are, instead of for what they have or do, we will have a better society. We are not the things we have or what we do. If you are the things you have or what you do, one day if you lose all your things and can not longer do what you do, you are nothing. Right? painted by Diana Fernandes, my niece I love Portugal and the people but I hate their behavior. I am ashamed to come from a country where torturing an animal is allowed. And the reason this happens is because of child abuse. If children were not abused they would not have the need to torture others beings when they grow up. This just shows me that child abuse is a big problem in Portugal and Spain. I cried watching this video, its soooo sad. When are men going to learn to feel their own pain and stop passing it into innocent beings. Dont they see that by passing it into innocent beings they just keep adding more to their own pain. Dont men know that we will only receive what we give if we give pain to other beings that is what we will receive back in the future. I was born in this house.Intimacy is possible only when both people drop their masks at the same time. Deepak ChopraTo feel beauty is to know the truth. To know the truth is to be in love.

My Interests

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Click here to post this on your page or 'blog Seven Reasons for Animal Birth Control1.Because animals are dying by the millions for lack of good homes. Most of 6 to 8 million unwanted dogs and cats who enter animals’ shelters every year are put to death because there aren’t good homes for them. More than 900 animals are killed every minute in the US --- which adds up to more than 10,000 every day. 2.Because there is no such thing as a responsible breeder. Even if you find homes for all your dog’s puppies and cat’s kittens, you are still stealing homes from puppies and kittens who have already been born and are waiting for homes. An estimated 25 percent of dogs and cats abandoned at animal shelters are purebreds. Breeding animals is killing animals. 3.Because when humans get raped, it’s illegal! Whenever they come into heat, female cats and dogs have to fight off every male animal for miles around – and they never win. 4.Because your sexual hang-ups are yours, not your dog’s! Your dog doesn’t have the same macho hang-ups about his virility as you do. You try being sentenced to a lifetime of humping sofa cushions and see how you like it, big guy. 5.Because spaying or neutering your dog or cat could save their lives. Spaying and neutering makes animals less likely to get into fights and become infected with contagious diseases or to roam and get hit by a car. It prevents dogs and cats from getting deadly cancers and other diseases of the reproductive system. It prevents females from suffering complications and dying while giving birth. 6.Because neutering doesn’t make animals fat - you do. Animals gain weight for two reasons: They eat too much, and they don’t get enough exercise. If you don’t want your dog to get fat, cut back on the between-meal biscuits and take your dog for a walk! (Bonus: it’ll help you lose weight too.) 7.Because it’s as easy as ABC! Kittens and puppies can be spayed and neutered when they are as young as 8 weeks old. Spaying your cat or dog is probably cheaper than dinner for two and a movie, and it’s definitely cheaper than feeding a mother dog or cat and her babies and getting all the shots. But it doesn’t just save money – it also saves lives. Most pets, including cats, dogs and rabbits, are more susceptible to heat stress than people. When the temperatures soar, animals can suffer from serious heat exhaustion and even stroke. The signs of this potentially fatal condition include heavy panting, glazed eyes, a rapid pulse, an unsteady gait, vomiting and a purple or dark red tongue.If you observe these symptoms, it’s important to lower your pet’s body temperature right away by applying cold towels or ice packs to the chest, neck and head only. Also allow your pet to drink a little bit of water or lick some ice cubes. The most important step is to get to the veterinarian immediately. Once lit, the flame of truth will never go out. Plato Insights brings truth, which is love in actionThe President of the United States (George Bush) in an interview admitted to have had a drinking problem, and one day he just stopped drinking - that he let Jesus Christ inside him and became a Christian. Addicts don’t just stop! They change addictions! His new addictions are religion, power and money. Just because his new addictions are more accepted by our society it does not make it any better. Addiction and greed are the same thing. Greed or addiction means that whatever the object of our affection is, we can never get enough of it. Addicts live in constant fear of losing the object of their affection and go to any lengths to protect it. They will lie, cheat, steal, go to war without thinking twice, and exploit others even their own children. No wonder so many young people are so angry; for when we feel used and exploited we get angry. Only addicts will elect and support an addict to be our leader. This means there are a lot of addictive or greedy people in our society!!! What does not contain real love must contain an illusion. Real Love is eternal present. Only illusions come and go. We get deeply hurt when we mistake an illusion for real love. What do you contain an illusion or real love? Poisonous PedagogyThe pedagogical conviction that one must bring a child into line from the outset has its origin in the need to split off the disquieting parts of the inner self and project them onto an available object. The child’s great plasticity flexibility, defenselessness, and availability made it the ideal object for this projection. The enemy within can at last be hunted down on the outside. Peace advocates are becoming increasingly aware of the role played by these mechanisms, but until it is clearly recognized that they can be traced back to methods of child raising, little can be done to oppose them. For children who have grown up being assailed for qualities the parents hate in themselves can hardly wait to assign these qualities to someone else so they can once again regard themselves as good, “moral,” noble, and altruistic. Such projections can easily become part of any Weltanschauung. Alice Miller www.alice-miller.comTo love innocently is to allow others to express who they are, Deepak chopraSurrender means not giving in to another but giving in to love. Deepak chopraThe Agony of Lovers The agony of lovers burns with the fire of passion. Lovers leave traces of where they have been. The wailing of broken hearts is the doorway to God. Rumi

I'd like to meet:

I like to meet men/women with self awareness, that have taking responsibility for their own shadow or baggage and are no longer projecting it into the external world. Capable of true love, know who they are and don't confuse who they are with what they do or have.Within everyone there is light and shadow, good and evil, love and hate. If you can truly embrace these opposites within yourself, you will be authentic, and as yourself-acceptance expands until there is nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to hide, your life will take on the generosity and warmth that marks every great lover. Deepak chopraDo not mistreat your body. Learn to handle it with respect. Do not look on your body as only an instrument. Preserve vital energies for the realization of the way. In sexual relationships, be aware of future suffering that may be caused. To preserve the happiness of others, respect the rights and commitments of others. Be fully aware of the responsibility of bringing new lives into the world. Meditate on the world into which you are bringing new beings. Thich Nhat HanhI am trying to give the best LOVE I can

Music:

Love is based not on how we act or feel but on our level of awareness. Deepak Chopra

Movies:

Negativity is born in the gap where love has been excluded.

Television:

Good is clarity of mind, which brings the ability to see the truth. Evil is blindness or ignorance, which makes the truth impossible to see. Deepak chopra.."http://s103.photobucket.com/albums/m149/sylvieimeld a/?action=view&current=122687750_l11.jpg" target="_blank"I must see my life as a work in progress. Nothing about me is ever final. Deepak chopra

Books:

The Truth Will Set You Free Overcoming Emotional Blindness and Finding Your True Adult Self By Alice Miller

Heroes:

There is only one religion, the religion of Love. There is only one caste, the caste of Humanity. There is only one race, the Human Race.~ Sathya Sai BabaNo one is wrong. In the eyes of love, all people are doing the best they can from their own levels of consciousness. Deepak chopraMy love, my heartLet this time of parting be sweetLet it not be a death, but completenessLet your love melt into memoryAnd your pain into songsLet your flight through the skyBegin with the unfolding of wingsLet the last touch of your handsBe gentle like the flower of the nightStand still, oh beautiful love for a momentAnd say your last words in silenceI bow to you and hold up my candleTo give light to you, on your flight to freedom.TagoreThe Privileged lovers The moon has become a dancer at this festival of love. This dance of light, This sacred blessing, This divine love, beckons us to a world beyond only lovers can see with their eyes of fiery passion. They are the chosen ones who have surrendered. Once they were particles of light now they are the radiant sun. they have left behind the world of deceitful games. They are the privileged lovers who create a new world with their eyes of fiery passion. RumiA human being is part of the whole called by us a universe - a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and his feelings, as something separate from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us; it restricts us to our personal decisions and our affections to a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty. Albert Einstein

My Blog

illusions disguised as spirituality

I went through this illusion!!!!! I am soooo grateful to Alice Miller for getting me out of this illusion!!! www.sylvieshene.com Illusions disguised as spiritualityThursday December 21, 2006 Ms. Mil...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Tue, 03 Jun 2008 12:49:00 PST

Dr. Alice Miller’s words are soooo true

Dr. Alice Miller articulates what I see sooo clear. Oprah has not become real and I don't think she will become real in her life time, she has to mush money and fame to keep her numb. No wonder she h...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Wed, 28 May 2008 07:37:00 PST

this study just proves something I always knew...

If we open a quarrel between the past and the present, we shall find that we have lost the future. - Winston Churchill Suicide bomber is al-Qaida’s deadliest weapon Attackers’ profile: Mo...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Sat, 22 Mar 2008 10:50:00 PST

I Love It!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mOa3sXjqE4 ...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 07:12:00 PST

I feel the same as Robin Morgan - Great Article

Another Reason to Support Clinton - Essay by Robyn Morgan .. / icon and title -->.. message --> Goodbye To All That (2) by Robin Morgan February 2, 2008 'Goodbye To All That" was my (in)famous 1970...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Thu, 14 Feb 2008 06:16:00 PST

This is one of the best articles I have read

Earth Day Cometh and Earth Day Goeth- And Where have all the Bees Gone?..Earth Day Report by Captain Paul WatsonOnly two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm notsure about th...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Sat, 26 Jan 2008 03:33:00 PST

Confessions of a Proud Mom

Confessions of a Proud Mom By Jan Hunt, M.Sc. My son is 15 and has brought me nothing but... "Trouble?" I thought you'd say that! No, my son is 15 and has brought me nothing but joy. "You're kidding! ...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Thu, 22 Nov 2007 08:46:00 PST

The Longest Journey

..> My experience it has been the same as  Alice Miller's, it has been a very long Journey, It has taking me also all of my life to finely free myself of all the crutches ...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Thu, 22 Nov 2007 12:55:00 PST

The Ultimate Fascism

The Ultimate Fascism by Andrew VachssOriginally published in Expo, No. 1, 1996 (Sweden) The ultimate fascism is child abuse. Its victims are Prisoners of War without a Geneva Convention to protect t...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:49:00 PST

Very enlightening article

This is why I don't have believes anymore! There is things I know and there is things I don't know! When you know instead of believing you will find the corauge to be true to yourself. Believes a...
Posted by sylvieshene.com on Tue, 06 Nov 2007 09:32:00 PST