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About Me


Hey Everyone check it out!! Some juicy juicy 'bout me (updated 3/29/08) oohkay maybe not so juicy, but i try! Just some random things I'd like to share. So were to start... Im super friendly, though shy at times. Totally depends on the vibe, yet completely comfortable in my own skin! Unusually self-aware, straight forward and brutally honest when need be. Some what sassy and pretty feisty when provoked. Always up for a good challenge! Can be super silly! I get super excited over happy endings and any great love story! Not a complicated girl, really rather simple in a not-so simple kinda way. I notice and appreciate the small things! I bore super easy! But far from high maintanance. Love staying busy... Shopping, hiking, work'n out, hot yoga, swimming, roller skating or the movies with my son, get'n a mani/pedi, or just hang'n out with my wonderful friends! Love being in and cozy at home too. Lay'n back watching movies, cook'n up some grub and cuddling is always a welcome luxury! Although, the only cuddling currently is with my lil guy! So glad he likes to cuddle! Not easily influenced, flattered, or impressed. Though not in a rude sense! Just keep it real and straight forward, not on a shallow level and we'll be good! Don't desire giving my time or attention away to those who wont appreciate it. I get loads of email and hardly have the time to reply so, I tend to be choosy over those that I do tend to. Love to share love, positivity, encouragement and motivation to those around me and here in the myspace world, that's why they call it "my"space right! Don't have enough time in the day to respond to those who are on something completely different than myself. I appreciate those that approach me about something positive, uplifting, motivating, encouraging, funny or even with something they feel I might be able to give a lil helpful advice or opinion of. I really enjoy listening, above talking, yet I have much to say! Choose my words wisely, since the unspoken is much easier to fix! Quick to apologize when I've said something hurtful or wrong. Since I am human, it's been known to happen (yep true!). I am so so so (umm did I say SO!) NOT big on the "hey sexy!" or "whats up?/whats good?" (thoughtless) emails that ohhhhh so many of you guys out here leave. Seriously, I find it a bit insulting. Give me some credit! I go beyond the blond hair and blue eyes guys. Give me something that provokes my interest, I'm game! Don't pick n choose whom I chat based on looks, age, race or gender! Purely on depth of character and genuineness. I don't judge, but I am observant and can pretty easily tell what one is after based on how you come at me. I don't play games, haven't time for others trying to play them with me. Love honest, straight forward no BS kinda people. Definitely funny people! Those who share them self openly and love unconditionally without criticism or judgment. My life hasn't been easy. Nothing has been handed to me on a silver platter. I have made many many (did I say many?) mistakes along the way. Though each choice (good or bad) has definitely made me the loving thoughtful passionate woman I am today. I'm so grateful for where I am because of those choices. I wouldn't change a thing. Ok, one thing I'd change would be having stayed in college! Wish Id had the patience for it! I acknowledge very few have had easy lives. We all have battle wounds and scars that only time and love can heal (mostly LOVE). It's not how we got here, but where and how were going from here.... The NOW is all that matters. Living in the past is only a waste of one's precious energy. My past has definitely made me kinder, wiser, and more patient. As much as I'd love to add an extraordinary man to it, fall in love head over heals... I'm in no need to hurry or rush it in anyway! Anything worth waiting for doesn't need rushing. It'll happen in it's own good time!! So get this -if you try rushing me in any way, I'll likely lose interest quickly. This does not mean I don't get lonely! Of course I do! I'm just not willing to sacrifice my values or settle for less that I deserve. I deserve the best (we all do!). Hmmm Ok what else... I am a neat freak! Love things to be neat & tidy. Can't stand a messy house and I don't let dishes sit in my sink. I clean as I cook. Completely organized, it's almost ridiculous, but I like it that way! Love going to the gym before work. It gives me sooooo much energy and makes me feel great! Not to mention it helps keep me feeling good about myself and how I look in my jeans! I love my tight jeans and tenneez... but clean up nicely if I choose to :) I don't consider myself vain, but feeling good, looking my best is definitely important to me! I get lotsa questions about being religious! I'm not religious. I am extremely spiritual. I respect and appreciate everyones differences in opinion. Love learning something new from every conversation. I simply ask for the same respect. God is Love. We ALL come from the same source, Love. I feel man created religion as a means to control and place fear in the hearts of the people. God isn't of fear. God is only Love. We are here to enjoy this life. Experience all there is. Appreciate all we have. To share love. If we aren't enjoying it, dont'chya think it's time to make a change. Do something new, something different. Personal relflection is a sure way to identify what needs changing. I believe we go through things over n over n over till the lesson is learnt. Each person we come in contact, physically/emotionally and through the online world has something to share with us... It's up to us to find that purpose, that lesson. To search out the meaning in each encounter is our responsibility. Don't trust/believe everything you hear, find truth on your own. Nothing is by accident -everything is unfolding as it should. Anyhow nuff of that for now.. Sooooo...Any questions are welcome... well other than those "whats up sexy" ones lol... (The sky is Up!!)... And oh yeah! I use myspace as a tool while at work if your wondering why you may see me online so often! Another reason for my not getting back quickly to email. Hey thanks for reading!!
ONE LOVE!
{~ LOVE ~}
{ -Its all that matters- }
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My Interests



SOME THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY.....

To not accept you would be to not accept my~self... for we are merely reflections of eachother in this cosmic classroom~

Feel free to explore all contents of your heart and express them openly~

~ Sun Shine ~ Rainbows ~ The Sun Rise & Set ~ Thunder & Lightning ~ To wish on a Shooting Star ~ Picnics at the park ~ BBQ's ~ Cream Cheese Frosting with a lil Carrot Cake ~ Layen & Playen in the sun ~ Laughing so hard I cry ~ The clock striking 11:11 ~ Football ~ Volleyball ~ Gymnastics ~ Walks on the beach ~ & Mountains ~ Shopping ~ Road trips ~ Camping ~ Boating ~ Waterskiing ~ Hangen with My Ladies ~ Lending a helping hand ~ Worken out ~ Hot Yoga ~ Intimate Conversation ~ Holding the Man I Love ~

~ AND REALLY SO MUCH MORE ~

"We are made for loving. If we don't love, we will be like plants without water." -Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Nobel Peace Prize Winner

"To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing it's best, night and day, to make you everybody else, means to fight the hardest battle any human being can fight; and never stop fighting." - E.E. Cummings

One day your heart will take you to your lover. One day your soul will carry you to the Beloved. Don't get lost in your pain, know that one day your pain will become your cure. - Rumi

"Everything you can imagine is real." - Pablo Picasso

A Good Survey!

Name: Jaime Lynn

{Je T'aime ~ I Love}

Birthday: June 1, 1976

Birthplace: Langdon ND

Current Location: Bothell

Eye Color: Blue Grey

Hair Color: Naturally Golden Blonde with highlights of course :))

Height: Not quite 5 foot - 4'11 and a half ;)

Your Heritage: Scandinavian, Norwegian, German, French Canadian, and throw some Irish in there ;)

Favourite Color: Green, Pink, and White.

Your Weakness: A great smile, a strong nose, and some sweetness!! This pertaining to men of course :))

Your Fears: I dont know Fear!

Your Perfect Pizza: BBQ Chicken is my new fave!!

Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Its been a very busy and Blessed year.... Im so happy with where I am and where Im going -It can only get better!!

Thoughts First Waking Up: Hmmm that changes... But Im always sure to Thank God !!

Your Best Physical Feature: Oh My -Some say it's my eyes. Some say it's my laugh (is that physical?). Some say it's my smile. I've even heard it's my booty... You'd have to tell me!

Your Bedtime: Typically between 8 & 9... get up early for the gym!

Your Most Missed Memory: Twin Lakes as a kid with my family... waterskiing & sleeping out on the dock under the beautiful stars!!

Cappuccino or Coffee: Coffee w/ Vanilla Cinnamon cream

Do you Smoke: Sooo Happy to say smoke free almost a year now! Yay Me!

Do you Swear: Rarely -You gotta have struck a nerve for me to go there!!

Do you Sing: HaHa -at my desk & in the car.

Have you Been in Love: Most definitely ~ They say it's better to have loved a thousand times than to have never loved before!

Do you want to get Married: Possibly the stupidest question here! SURE DO :)))

Do you belive in yourself: COMPLETELY & UNCONDITIONALLY!

Do you think you're Attractive: I think I'm cute... However my looks are not my defining factor!

Are you a Health Freak: A lil - not overly.

Do you like Thunderstorms: LOVE 'em!!

In the past month have you gone on a Date: Hmmmm -this changes... Maybe I have maybe I haven't!! Chances are I have.

In the past month have you been Dumped: Can't say I have!

In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Not in years!! The last time -it was a fuuuun night!!

Ever been Beaten up: Twice. Abusive men are not my thing!

How do you want to Die: In bed with my husband fast asleep after some serious love maken!

What country would you most like to Visit: Id really love to visit Italy, Russia, Australia, Greece, & so many other places.

Favourites in Men:

Favourite Eye Color: Cant say I have a fave -but if you have some deep eyes that focus on me Im fascinated!

Favourite Hair Color: Big fan of dark hair!!

Short or Long Hair: Hmm depends...

Height: 5'10 +

Weight: 180 +

Best Clothing Style: Whatever his style!

Number of things in my Past I Regret: No longer regret the things of my past.... they've help create the loving passionate woman I am today. Each experience a blessing even if it hadn't appeared that way at the time!

I'd like to meet:

Love making new friends. Funny, kind, intelligent people are great -I love em!..... and oh yeah ~

Id really LOVE to meet THAT GUY! The one that satisfies me Spiritually Mentally Physically Emotionally and Sexually!

That guy whose Fiercely Loyal, Honest, Handsome, Loving, & makes my fricken cheeks hurt from all the giggling!!! Allows me the freedom to be myself & loves n adores every bit of it. Whose happy with who he is, what he does, and where he is in his life -whose ready to share himself completely..............

The Greatest Man of My Life!

"People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered

-Forgive them anyway ~~~

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, alterior motives

-Be kind anyway ~~~

If you are successful you will win some false friends and true enemies

-Succeed anyway ~~~

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you

-Be honest and frank anyway ~~~

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight

-Build anyway ~~~

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous

-Be happy anyway ~~~

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow

-Do good anyway ~~~

Give the world the best you have & it may never be enough

-Give the world the best you've got anyway ~~~

You see, in the end, it is between you and God -It was never between you and them anyway!

-Mother Teresa !!

Forgiveness is essential! Without it you would rot from the inside out.

Music:

"Be kinder than necessary, for Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

Movies:



"You are a child of the Universe, no less than the moon and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the Universe is unfolding as it should." - Max Ehrmann

Television:

K I have some favorite shows... I love Las Vegas!! Reba -I really love Van- OMGoodness he is a goofball and I love it! Cashmere Mafia, Keeping up with the Kardashians, Friends, Scrubs, Rev Runs House, The Daily 10, Hogan Knows Best, Sex in the City, Oprah, Couple Fear Factor, General Hospital, The Girls Next Door, Dr.90210, and Forensic Files.

A few of my favorite movies: Catch and Release, Pay It Forward, Angel Eyes, Erin Brockovich, Say Anything, Footloose, Urban Cowboy, The Secret, Home Is Where The Heart Is, What a Girl Wants, Two Weeks Notice, Secondhand Lions, Just Like Heaven, Sixteen Candles, St Elmos Fire, Top Gun, City of Angels, Pretty Woman, 28 Days, Gorillas in the Mist, Serendipity, You've Got Mail, The Little Mermaid, Jerry McGuire, Love romantic comedies.

Books:

The Bible, Angels Fall, Joshua, God Calling, The Lovely Bones, The Secret Life of Bee's, Joshua and the Children, The Screwtape Letters, The Banner Under Heaven, Metaphysics for Everyone, A Life God Rewards, Slave, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, Tuesdays with Morrie, Toxic Bachelors, The Payback Club, Dating Game, Dont Sweat the Small Stuff and It's All Small Stuff, Sex & Spirituality, Dare to Discipline, Self Matters. Im a huge fan of motivational & spiritually based books. And of course I love all the fashion and gossip magazines out there.

Heroes:

GOD
Jesus
My Dad for showing me what a real man is all about. Now if I could just meet a man half as wonderful as him my life would be complete! I LOVE YOU DAD!!!
My brother!! Always there for me! There to make me laugh, and there to just hold me when my world feels like it's crashing all around me. Tells me what I need to hear, not just want I want to hear! So much like my dad - Yet so much his own man. I LOVE YOU RYAN!!
My son!! He is so Loving, Smart, Happy, Helpful, Funny, and oh So Sweet!!
Our Soldiers, The Men & Women sacrificing their precious time away from their loved ones... including all those in the backround protecting our freedoms!
I have been so truly Blessed!
We ask ourselves, WHO am I to be Brilliant, Gorgeous, Talented, & Fabulous? Actually, WHO are you NOT TO BE!! You are a Child Of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the Glory of God that is within US. ALL OF US! And as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
-Nelson Mandella '94
Promise yourself To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To speak of health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends aware of the special qualities within them. To look at the sunny side of every thing and let your optimism work to make your dreams come true. To think, work for, and expect only the best. To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others, as you are about your own. To forget past mistakes and press on towards a brighter greater future. To wear a cheerful countenance at all times, as a smile radiates warmth and Love. To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time left to criticize others. To be too wise for worry, too tolerant for anger, and too courageous for fear. To Be Happy......
♥ Friends ♥
I cannot give solutions to all of lifes problems, doubts or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers. I cant change your past with all its heartache and pain. Nor the future with all its untold stories. But I can be there now when you need me to care. I cant keep your feet from stumbling. I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall. Your joys, your triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine. Yet I can share in your laughter. Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge. I can only support and encourage you. I cant prevent you from falling away from friendship, from your values, from me. I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you. I cant give you boundries which I have determined for you. But I can give you the room to change, room to grow. Room to be yourself. I cant keep your heart from breaking and hurting. But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back into place. I cant tell you who you are. I can only love you and Be Your Friend.
"A human being is part of a whole, called by us the 'Universe', a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings, as something separated from the rest- a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty." -Albert Einstein
{-compassion-}
Our intentions flow forever outward in the form of energy. For this reason, we should strive to always speak, think, and behave with great thoughtfulness and compassion. The influence we wield is infinite. We can never truly know how our thoughts, emotions, words or actions will manifest themselves on the larger universal stage...
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Conversation with a Man...

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question...... "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking. "Do you r...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Tue, 15 Apr 2008 01:48:00 PST

Even Though...

Even ThoughYou can be happy even when you are not. You can be positive even though there is no positive circumstance to be found in your world.The smallest light can shine even in the darkest darkness...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Mon, 25 Feb 2008 04:21:00 PST

Daily Insight ~ 3/14

"Be kinder than necessary, for Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle." ~All My Love~Jaime LynnXOXO ...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 05:24:00 PST

Daily Insight ~ 3/13

"I will waste not even a precious second today in anger or hate or jealousy or selfishness. I know that the seeds I sow I will harvest, because every action, good or bad, is always followed by an equa...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 02:05:00 PST

Overcome Hatred

Thanks and Blessings BlissDate: Feb 27, 2008 12:44 PM    Hatred can be irrational, and it has a greater impact on the individual who hates than the person or object being hated. Yet over...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Wed, 27 Feb 2008 02:01:00 PST

A Man...

I long for a man....A man who wont run at the glimpse of aggravation.A man who knows there is no perfect woman and doesnt liveto find the "next best thing".A man who is loving, kind, and passionate......
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Sat, 29 Dec 2007 11:40:00 PST

If I

..If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong. Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view. Or if my emotion is less than your...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Wed, 21 Nov 2007 07:54:00 PST

Spirituality vs. religion

SPIRITUALITY vs. RELIGION.                                ...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Sat, 03 Nov 2007 07:34:00 PST

♥ Let It Go ♥

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, ...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Tue, 27 Mar 2007 08:01:00 PST

♥ Friends ♥

I cannot give solutions to all of lifes problems, doubts or fears.But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers.I cant change your past with all its heartache and pain.Nor the futur...
Posted by jaime smiles ™ on Tue, 12 Dec 2006 03:57:00 PST