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CeCe (aka "Southern Dyme")

CeCe "Southern Dyme"...A Taste of Southern Hospitality

About Me

PLEASE…MY PAGE IS NOT A BILLBOARD!!! PLEASE DO NOT ADVERTISE PARTIES, PRODUCTS, ETC. ON MY "COMMENTS" SECTION, OR I WILL BE QUICK TO REMOVE YOU FROM MY FRIEND’S LIST AND REPORT YOU.

The CeCe “FYI” bulletin
I am not your ‘shawty/shorty’, I am not your ‘ma’, and I am not your ‘bitch’. Please keep that in mind when you send me notes, as I have tried to be polite and posted a blurb about how I really don’t like to be called those things, yet I still get notes with people calling me those names.
Please actually READ my page. Especially if you are going to send me a note asking me questions based on information that is already given on my page. That’s a little irritating. There is really a whole lot more to me than pictures, and while I’m glad that you take time out to look at my pictures, it’s only a small part of me.
Just because I respond to your note does NOT mean I’m romantically interested in you. I respond to EVERYONE who sends me a note, so it’s nothing personal. I’m not up here to date; I’m up here to be sociable.
It may take me a day to get to your note (at the earliest), a few days, or it may take a few weeks. I get a large amount of notes, and sometimes I do not have time to answer them all in one day. So, you may see, for example, my “I’m ..” light lit up for 1 hour or more and I still do not get to your note. I answer all of my notes, and in the order they were received, so just be patient a little while longer and I’ll get to it. Thanks!
I am not lesbian or bi. Let me repeat, I AM NOT LESBIAN OR BI. Ladies, I do not mind you sending me notes or friend requests. HOWEVER...please do not send me sexually-explicit messages, because I DO NOT go that way. I'm not knocking whatever you believe in doing, but my eye is STRICTLY on the fellaz!!!
I've updated my page layout...enjoy!!!
Last CeCe "FYI" bulletin update:05/20/07
Please scroll down to read all of the bulletin!
I have changed a lot of things on my page, mainly omitted a lot of information. I wanted my page to have a more sophisticated/grown-up look, as I have changed and grown to new levels over the past semester. I went through a rough last semester in school, finally graduated and now hold my Master’s Degree, and I have a whole new outlook on life. Some of the new things you will notice on my page are: Music (before I only played Spanish music, now I will play a lot more varieties, especially those “feel-good genres”, such as Neo-soul); Layout (I have added a new background, color scheme, etc.); Message (while some of the old text still remains, such as the FYI Bulletin, I have done away with the CeCe Top 5, because some of ya’ll didn’t read it anyway…LOL. I have also deleted the little surveys).
Some of ya’ll might wonder, who is CeCe? I’m still learning the answer to that question myself. I am finding out new things about myself day after day, as I watch myself grow into the woman that God has destined me to be. I am quiet for the most part, which people find hard to believe because I did the modeling thing. I’m a good listener, and like to get to know about other people. I’m really into the arts, especially music. I love music, and on any given day, you will find me blasting my music, from the smooth, bluesy rhythms of John Coltrane, the spicy sounds of Celia Cruz, the acoustic soulful melodies of Corinne Bailey Rae, the inspirational tunes of Kirk Franklin, to the rocked-out rhythms of Lenny Kravitz. I just have a general love and appreciation for music! I love poetry and am, in fact, a poet myself. I hope to do big things with this gift that God has blessed me with. If things go as planned, you will see my books on the shelves in just a few years…please believe it! I love languages, and at the moment, I am conversational in German and fluent in Spanish. I plan to learn several other languages in the next few years. Besides learning languages, I just love learning in general. Life is a classroom, and what I do not learn in an actual university, I learn just by living. I learn from my successes, from my mistakes, and from watching others. I love to travel, and have been to/lived in several different countries (Guam, Japan, Korea, Ecuador, Mexico, just to name a few). Ok…this should give you a general idea of who I am. Anything else, just ask.

My Interests

music, dancing, watching tv, movies, writing poetry, modeling, doing well in school, traveling

I'd like to meet:

I’m not really looking for a man right now, but sometimes someone might have that “special something” to spark my interest. So, if you are interested in submitting an application, here are the job requirements:
Physical
Tall (nothing against the short brothas, but I like mine around 6” or taller)
Slender (not skinny, and not big. A nice muscular physique will do just fine)
No grillz (that is just NOT cute to me at all)
Have nice teeth
Clean cut (I’m not really into lots of hair, although it does look nice on some people)
Style (When I’m going out I like to dress to impress, so I need someone who is about the same thing…there’s nothing sexier than a fine man who can dress his ass off!)

Education/Professional Life
In college or a college grad
Has a job (a LEGAL one, I might add...LOL)

Character
God-fearing
Charming personality
Honest
Out-going (you have to know how to make me laugh)
Knows how to treat a woman (I’m from the south, so I’m on that southern hospitality tip)
Open

Personal Interests
Bowling
Movies
Salsa dancing
Bi-lingual (this would be a plus, ¡especialmente si hables español!)
Traveling
Open to learning new things

Lifestyle
Does not smoke (definitely a turn off)
Doesn’t party too much (I don’t want a playboy)
Preferably no kids (I don’t wanna chance the baby mama drama)

Ok, so here you have the job requirements. So what, I’m picky! I have the right to be, as does everyone. I consider myself lucky because I’m one of the few who actually KNOWS what I want. So perhaps you are thinking, "This girl is crazy and too demanding." Or perhaps you will congratulate me for speaking out on what I want. Whichever statement describes you, I'm not mad at you. I gotta do what's best for me!

Many will apply, few will qualify…where do YOU stand? LOL

Music:

Genres: salsa, merengue, bachata, reggaeton, hip hop, r&b, neo soul, gospel, reggae, dancehall, soul
Artists: yung joc, lil jon, marc anthony, son de cali, aventura, xtreme, mariah carey, floetry, musiq, usher, daddy yankee, don omar, bob marley, marvin gaye, yolanda adams, mary mary, kirk franklin, corinne bailey rae, justin timberlake, robin thicke, norah jones, etc.

Movies:

the departed, casino royale, happy feet, gridiron gang, fast & furious (1 & 2), bad boys (1 & 2), biker boys, drumline, big mama's house, pirates of the caribbean, ace ventura pet detective, hot chick, etc.

Television:

24, prison break, my wife & kids, bernie mac, forensic files, girlfriends, csi, new york undercover, in living color, jamie foxx, etc.

Books:

i don't have any favorite authors (except john grisham), but the genre i prefer is mystery/suspense.

Heroes:

God (who always forgives me and loves me unconditionally, despite my short-comings); My mother (from whom I have learned how to be the intelligent young woman that I am today); My grandmother (for always praying for me and supporting me in all that I do); Dr. Roof (for being the mentor that I never had prior to pursuing my graduate studies. Thanks for being a friend, and for encouraging me to pursue my dreams, even when others did not believe in me)

My Blog

What God Has For Me

Have you ever had something happen to you and you wonder to yourself, "Why me?"  Or perhaps something DIDN'T happen to you and you wondered, "Why NOT me?"  I'm sure we all go through this fr...
Posted by CeCe "Southern Dyme"...La Unica on Fri, 20 Apr 2007 10:09:00 PST

What the deal ma?

I have a Black Planet account, which I used to check on the regular but dont anymore because Im tied up with other things.  Ive been on Myspace now for about a month or so, and I see a lot of sim...
Posted by CeCe "Southern Dyme"...La Unica on Thu, 06 Jul 2006 01:17:00 PST