agoraphobia, apocalypse, art rock, borderline personality disorder, cats, chaos, corsetry, courtney love, css, cybergoth, d.i.y., dolls, ethereal imagery, faeries, fake hair, fashion design, feminism, girls who kick ass, guitar, guns, hello kitty, hole, house m.d., inger lorre, katie jane garside, kinderwhore, knives, lace, little apple dolls, lyrics, magick, misanthropy, nietzsche, otherkin, performance art, perkygoth, philosophy, playing dress-up, pop psychology, porcelain dolls, princess ai, psychological horror, ragdolls, rebirth, religious icons, self-photography, sociology, songwriting, symbolism, tank girl, tattoos, taxidermy, tea parties, thrift shoppes, tiaras, victorian fashion, vintage clothing
People who don't even blink when you refer to something paranormal; anyone who still loves playing dress-up and having tea parties; proud kitty parents; fans of Gothic Lolita Bible and/or visual kei; Hello Kitty enthusiasts; arts and crafts hobbyists and DIY-ers; people who think stage blood, gauze bandages, real flowers, tatters and shreds, and tight-laced corsets are wardrobe musts; outsiders; artists; people with morals and a code of honour; girl (or boy) anachronisms; and anyone who's always getting told about their life "you should write a book!" but knows no one would believe you if you did.
I would NOT like to meet:
Snobs, people with no empathy, liars, people who judge me without knowing me first, people who try to "save" me, rabid pro-lifers, burnouts, flakes, thugs, label-whores, addicts, homophobes, sexists, Barbie-cultists, people who sneer at the homeless or mentally ill when they see them on the street.
Serial adders and girl-collectors: no thanks, please move along. If every person on your page is some half-clad female, I'm not adding you. Period.
If I didn't think we had enough in common to add you the first time you asked, chances are pretty high that I won't the tenth, fifteenth, or fiftieth times either. Sometimes it's okay to give up.
DON'T add me to hawk your product; I am not interested in whatever you're selling, I won't add you back.
Bands: *sighs* Look at some of the music and influences I've already listed before asking me to add you, and use that as a gauge. Honestly, it's really not that hard. Chat/cam communities: Go... the fuck... AWAAAAY.
Create Your Own!
Acid Bath, Fiona Apple, Babes in Toyland, Belly, Björk, Concrete Blonde, Daisy Chainsaw, Deadboy and the Elephantmen, The Dresden Dolls, 50 Foot Wave, Sarah Fimm, Katie Jane Garside, PJ Harvey, Kristin Hersh, Hole, Jack Off Jill, Katastrophy Wife, Inger Lorre, Courtney Love, Marilyn Manson, Jason Mraz, NIN, Nirvana, The Nymphs, Oingo Boingo, Otep, Pixies, Queen Adreena, Rasputina, Scarling., Slipknot, Snake River Conspiracy, Linda Strawberry, Throwing Muses, and tons of others.
Fight Club, Edward Scissorhands, The Usual Suspects, Taking Lives, Dead Again, The Fifth Element, Se7en, 200 Cigarettes, Saw, Saw II, The Ring, House of 1000 Corpses, The Breakfast Club, Fallen, May..and others.
House, Law and Order-Criminal Intent, SVU, CSI, NCIS