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Xiabhan

It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~e.e. cummings

About Me


I'm a strong, intense person with a myriad of interests. I am fiercely loyal and love unconditionally. I savour straightforwardness, and cherish creativity.
I believe that learning is a never-ending process, and believe that all things work together for good... and that the good that comes may not happen in a way that I can see or comprehend. I also believe that this good may not happen within a time-frame that I am able to influence.
I am a 'glass is half full' kind of person and believe in being pro-active and in being an advocate.
I have a daughter with Williams Syndrome- a neurogenetic disorder affecting 1 in 7,500 people. (www.williams-syndrome.org) She is 5 now, and is wonderful. She will be in Kindergarten soon, and our goal is INCLUSION! We will accept nothing less.
I advocate for her, and for children and adults affected by numerous disabilities. Education is so important! A global awareness of the issues so many face is happening slowly, but it's happening!
As part of my commitment in this area, I am on the Board of the Freedom Playground Foundation. We are raising money to build an accessible playground and park. We are half way there. (http://www.freedomplayground.org/) It's a wonderful plan that both adults and children will cherish.
In addition to a busy 'Real Life', I also have a virtual life in the RPG I play: DragonRealms.
My main character is Nilme Iondu'il, Therengian Bardess of the Langenfirth Guild.
Nilme is a member of the Theren Theatre Players and the Order of the Crystal Wolf. She is also a member of the Triage team: Support Unit of the Therengian Infantry, the Northern Watch.
She is the adopted daughter of Achrennight Filanti and Izzit Myadow, (step-sister) to half of Elanthia, and is bonded to Dreisin Magther.
Go to www.play.net/dr or send a message if you want to know more about DragonRealms.
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My Interests

Spending time with Family and Friends, Advocacy , Music , Scrapbooking , Genealogy , Reading , Teaching and Playing the Piano.

I play several other instruments as well, (although with less skill), and am currently teaching myself Irish Gaelic . I am on the Board of Freedom Playground , support Sinn Fein and a 32 county Ireland, and believe strongly in the effectiveness of the Heart Gallery of Tampa Bay and its efforts to encourage people to adopt from the Foster Care System.

I am a member of the International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation , the National Piano Teachers Guild through the American College of Musicians, and the Williams Syndrome Association .

I also enjoy playing DragonRealms , Sudoku , and the Sims.

I'd like to meet:

Some of my online friends in real life. (Oh, for an unlimited travel and lodging budget!!)

Music:

http://www.last.fm/user/Xiabhan/

The Cure, Kate Bush, Cocteau Twins, Midge Ure, Suzanne Vega, Nine Inch Nails, the Beatles, Paul McCartney and Wings, Korn, System of a Down, Jim Brickman, Dave Koz, Tears for Fears, Joni Mitchell, Joan Baez, The Ventures, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young, Pink Floyd, SuperTramp, Bjork, the Pixies, Throwing Muses, Simply Red, The Cowsills, the Mamas and the Papas, the Beach Boys, the Kingston Trio, Ladies of Death Row Swimsuit Calendar, Bob Dylan, Midnight Bowlers League, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Cold Play, John Mayer, Linkin Park, Nick Cave, Andrea Bocelli, Siouxie and the Banshees, Pogues, Chieftains, Celtic Music, the Ramones, Smiths, Leonard Cohen, Altan, Enya, Black 47, Jazz, John Coltrane, Jennifer Knapp, Big Band, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Kila, Die Zimmermanner, Lounge Cat, Rockabilly, Irish Traditional, 80's New Wave, Talking Heads, Psychadelic Furs, Christmas Music, Mannaheim Steamroller, Just about anything really....

Movies:

Enchanted April, Amelie, Secretary, Down with Love, Gossford Park, Midsummer's Night Dream with Michelle Pfeiffer, Much ado about Nothing with Kenneth Branagh, Christmas Movies of any kind, Ella Enchanted, Princess Bride, Romantic Comedies, Alex and Emma, Father of the Bride and Father of the Bride 2 with Steve Martin, Any Steve Martin film really, First Wives Club, Better off Dead, Jon Cusack films, Goldie Hawn films, Bedknobs and Broomsticks (Disney), Julia Roberts Romantic Comedies, Notting Hill, Bridget Jones' Diary, Miss Congeniality, Foreign Films (particularly French), Documentaries and Biographies especially about events or people from the turn of the century through the early 70's.

Television:

Will and Grace, The Class, I.C.E., 30 Rock, Friends re-runs, Extreme Makeover Home Edition, Cooking shows, Decorating shows, Organizing and Creating shows, Renovation shows, Space Ghost Coast to Coast, the Young Ones, Absolutely Fabulous, Good Neighbours, Britcoms, Chef, PBS, Sesame Street, Biography, and things from the History Channel.

Books:

Romance Novels (Good escapism), Decorating books, Irish History, Irish short stories, Irish folklore, Poetry of any type really, Cookbooks, Almanacs, The Forest, Mists of Avalon, anything by Dan Brown, Cartoon Compilations, Decorating, Creative Instruction, Educational topics, History, Biography, Theology

Heroes:

There are quite a few people I admire, and I try to tell them how much when the opportunity arises.

My Blog

What happened to 3,5,6,7,11,12,13,14,20,22,24,25,30,34,35,44,45,48,49,50,53,5 6, & 62

69 truths1. single or taken: taken2. birthstone: opal4. male or female: female8. height: 5'6"9. eye color: grey/green10. hair color: depends on the light: dark blonde, strawberry brown, or auburn...
Posted by Xiabhan on Wed, 09 May 2007 04:54:00 PST

Yet another questionnaire.

1. What are two things you want to accomplish in your life? Learn to accept myself; Feel like a grown-up. 2. If you could relive one year of your life, what year would it be? Why? 1998- The excitement...
Posted by Xiabhan on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 05:52:00 PST

Survey Fun

FINISH THE SENTENCE.1. My 'ex' is still: making music.2. I am listening to: RaidiĆ³ na Gaeltachta 3. Maybe I should: continue working on the house plans. 4. I love: eating out at restaurants. 5. My bes...
Posted by Xiabhan on Wed, 25 Apr 2007 07:11:00 PST

26 secrets

1.WHAT'S YOUR DISPLAY NAME ABOUT?I knew someone named Xia (pronounced "Shah"), and I love the name Siobhan (pronounced SHAH-vuhn). I was looking for a character name about a bazillion years ago, and d...
Posted by Xiabhan on Sun, 22 Apr 2007 09:47:00 PST

Who Was Your Last

Rule #1:If you open this you GOTTA take it.Rule # 2:You are NOT ALLOWED to explain ANYTHING unless someone messages you and asksOnly answer True or FalseQ: Kissed someone on your top friends? TrueQ: B...
Posted by Xiabhan on Fri, 20 Apr 2007 07:21:00 PST

Yet Another Set of Questions.

1. Hi, my name is..Dori2. People call me:Dori, Mommy, Aunt Dori, Mumma, Mrs. Jones, Ms. Dori3. Never in my life have I:Been to Europe4. High school:20 years ago.5. When I'm nervous:I get highly intens...
Posted by Xiabhan on Mon, 16 Apr 2007 08:17:00 PST

105 facts

105 Facts About You 1. EVER BEEN GIVEN AN ENGAGEMENT Ring? a couple of them2. LONGEST RELATIONSHIP? 17 years and counting. 3. LAST GIFT YOU RECEIVED? Time this afternoon to take a nap. Best present ev...
Posted by Xiabhan on Mon, 16 Apr 2007 07:59:00 PST

More Questions

1. What do you want for your Birthday? To have some of the questions I have today answered.2. Who will be your next hug?Either David or Emma3. When is the last time you went to the mall?The Mall? Hmm....
Posted by Xiabhan on Fri, 13 Apr 2007 07:37:00 PST

200 Questions

200. My middle name is:Lin Brigid199: I was born on:October 2, 1969198. I am a:Piano Instructor 197. Status?married196. My eye color is:grey green195. My shoe size is:7 1/2 to 8, depending on the shoe...
Posted by Xiabhan on Tue, 10 Apr 2007 06:35:00 PST

Slanguage... Surprising to me.

Your Slanguage Profile Aussie Slang: 50%Canadian Slang: 25%New England Slang: 25%Southern Slang: 25%British Slang: 0%Prison Slang: 0% What Slanguage Do You Speak?...
Posted by Xiabhan on Mon, 22 Jan 2007 04:54:00 PST