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Miss Independent

Forever seeking answers that I just can't find, Just looking for some love and peace of mind.

About Me

I was born December 6th 1972 on Wednesday at 2:16pm. My name started out as spelled Shiloah Marie, but my parents decided when they got me home that they liked Shilo Jeanne better.(prounced like Jen-knee) I am a single mom of two beautiful girls, Savannah (16) and Jodee (14). I am currently a sophomore at The University of Akron/Wayne College for an Associates degree in Surgical Technology. I am honest, trustworthy, independent, responsible, and respectable. I AM in short what you would call a down to earth true to the core all around good girl!
I was married for 9 years, but now divorced.
I am a big kid. I like to get wild and crazy with my girls by singing, dancing, jumping on the trampoline and getting wet by the hose. I also love to color with sharp crayons. Amusement Parks in the summer, jumping in the crisp multi colored leaves in the fall and sled riding on cold snowy winter days are the best times with my girls.I am always searching for fun low cost entertainment for us to do cus it makes for better memories. I am silly, fun loving and when I am feeling at my best, I pose for the camera. I'm not perfect and I don't pretend to be. I make mistakes,but learn from them. I love animals and I currently have two cats, Havoc and Chaos and have a new boxer puppy named Autumn.
SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying!
WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET: Someone with a sense of humor that can make me laugh til my sides ache! I like "real" people and despise liars and cheaters or people who twist the truth so that it's convenient for them. I am a single mom so I want to expose my girls to a man with authenticity and integrity. A man who can be a positive influence on not just his own child(ren) but children of others as well. I enjoy listening to a person with intelligence, but I don't like arrogance. I like to be around people who share common interest and aspirations as I do. I also enjoy a man who is athletic or into sports, But not to the point that he lives and breathes them. Someone who is well balanced.
I want to find someone who will make me go weak in the knees with JUST a look. A man who will only make me cry with happiness and not tears of sadness! I have been hurt and I have realized that Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fail in order to know, sometimes our visions clear only after our eyes are washed away with tears.
I am no longer going to be the one on the losing end. So let me say this, I will not tolerate an idiot who cannot say what's really on his mind and I never hear from him again. This has become quite the norm for me. It certainly isn't a good feeling. BUT at the end of the day, I know who I am! It is without a doubt THEIR problem and THEIR loss! Be a man about it geez!
ONE NIGHT IS ALL I ASK
One night is all I would like to ask, For you to hold me close at last. To be the one you come to love, The girl you're always thinking of.
To hold my hand along the street, Together our hearts create a beat. Pick me a rose from the ground, Say you love me without a sound.
Move the hair that was in my eye, Make me laugh without a try. Kiss my cheek when its time to go, Leaving me with the romantic glow.
Calls me the same minute you leave, Just to make sure I am home safely. To say you love me right before bed, And left a note in my room unread.
"You are everything I want and need, You take my breath as you breathe . I love you, always and forever my girl,To be with you I'd give up the world".
One night is all I would like to ask, For you to be with me at last. But as the nights slowly pass by, I realize you will never give me a try.
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My Interests

I like the outdoors and I love walking in the rain. I like four wheelers, hiking and swimming. I like softball and Soccer. Some things I would like to try are skiing and fishing. I like The Cleveland Indians and I love to watch FOOTBALL! My Teams are The Steelers and OSU Buckeyes.

In my spare time I love to shop at thrift stores and yard sales. I am totally into primitive decor and currently looking for new pieces for my place.

I am pretty Optimistic about my future. I have some big goals to achieve and I will not stop until I reach them. I express myself often, but try not to step on anyone's toes. I write a lot of poetry with GREAT emotions. My collection of poems are a lil on the sad side, but I'm trying to write happier ones. I just do not have the inspiration lately.

There is a song by Tracy Lawrence called "Til I was a Daddy too." I can relate to this song as far as being a Mommy. You never really know what your parents go through until you become a parent yourself. (specially a single parent) I love my girls unconditionally and will always be here for them even when they spread their wings and fly. My girls are all I have in this world.

I have taken lessons in Karate in the form of AWASE KENPO KAI. which means "Law of the fist." I started back in 2003 and became a yellow belt. I then started school and dropped out. By the end of the year Savannah and I will be in Jujitsu twice a week. I enjoy martial arts and feel it's a positive activity that boost self esteem and keeps you in shape. I also see Martial arts as something that every woman, single or not, with or without children should do. I never rely on a man for anything! Men come and go. I do not NEED a man in my life! I WANT a man in my life. I do not base my happiness on the presence of a man. I can be happy with or without a man. I would someday like to find someone to share my happiness with though.

A child is not likely to find a father in God...Unless they find something of God in their father.

I'd like to meet:

Someone with a sense of humor that can make me laugh til my sides ache! I like "real" people and despise liars and cheaters or people who twist the truth so that it's convenient for them. I am a single mom so I want to expose my girls to a man with authenticity and integrity. A man who can be a positive influence on not just his own child(ren) but children of others as well. I enjoy listening to a person with intelligence, but I don't like arrogance. I like to be around people who share common interest and aspirations as I do. I want to find someone who will make me go weak in the knees with JUST a look. A man who will only make me cry with happiness and not tears of sadness! I have been hurt and I have realized that Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fail in order to know, sometimes our visions clear only after our eyes are washed away with tears.

Music:

I'm a country girl in disguise,but I like Christian, hip-hop, r&b. It pretty much depends on my mood.

Movies:

The Notebook, Hitch, Sweethome Alabama, Cast Away, Titanic, Blue Collar Comedy Tour One and Two, Are We There Yet, Tommyboy, A walk to remember, Message in a bottle, 300, Click, Saving Private Ryan, Jackass One and Two,The Green Mile,The Ringer ..

Television:

Forensics files, Detectives, Cold Case Files, Body of Evidence, American Justice, First 48, Discovery Health, Dr. G The medical examiner, Sell this house, Flip this house, Reality Tv,such as American Idol, America's Next Top Model and Biggest Looser.

Books:

I like V. C. Andrew books and any other book that gets my attention.

Heroes:

first and foremost GOD! all the military men and woman who keep us FREE. All the medical field personnel who fight on a daily basis to SAVE our lives, police officers who fight to keep us SAFE, and last not but not least..Firefighters who battle a blazing war to RESCUE us! All my friends who stand behind me through all the hardships.. I love you guys!!

My Blog

life in the fast lane

WOW! It's been a long time since I last blogged. Life has been pretty stressful, but I am still here. I have all these things going on and it's crazy! For the first time I have finally been interested...
Posted by Miss Independent on Thu, 06 Nov 2008 08:21:00 PST

HURT

There's always that one person, Who will always have your heart, Even on the lonely nights, When you're apart, You know you can't be together, It just wont work out, Nothing lasts forever, That, th...
Posted by Miss Independent on Thu, 07 Aug 2008 10:37:00 PST

If youre reading this!!

If you are reading this I want you to know That even after all this time I haven't let you go I still think of you When I'm all alone I still hope you'll call me As I stare at the phone... If you ...
Posted by Miss Independent on Mon, 04 Aug 2008 06:39:00 PST

Protecting Myself From Him

Ive boxed up all emotions To be sheltered is the goal Steel walls Ive built around me To defend my beaten soul My heart must be protected From the road that lies ahead My eyes must be prepared to s...
Posted by Miss Independent on Mon, 04 Aug 2008 06:27:00 PST

Ignorance Is Bliss.. Goodbye forever

Ignorance of not knowing that someone you loved and lost is "kinda, sorta seeing" someone else is something called bliss. Todd had told me back in late May that he would be coming into Cleveland some ...
Posted by Miss Independent on Sat, 02 Aug 2008 12:15:00 PST

Who can you trust??

Who can you trust when you just don't know When someone's for real or if its all just a show Who can you trust when you think you've found a new friend Just to find out they only wanted you for the th...
Posted by Miss Independent on Tue, 22 Jul 2008 11:39:00 PST

update!

It's been awhile, so I will start off by saying that I passed my  exams for chemistry and anatomy and passed the classes. I also want to say that I went to the chiropractor yesterday and I have a...
Posted by Miss Independent on Wed, 14 May 2008 10:00:00 PST

My accident!

I was driving home on Cleveland Rd massaging my neck with my right hand (I woke up with a stiff neck) and not wearing my seat belt as I normally do. Savannah was with me. I was slowing down since the ...
Posted by Miss Independent on Thu, 03 Apr 2008 12:51:00 PST

RockYou Likeness quiz

RockYou Likeness quiz The worst thing to say to your partner...
Posted by Miss Independent on Sat, 15 Mar 2008 09:27:00 PST

robbery in progress

at this hour it is 4am on monday and i am here to say that my daughter jodee , my friend and I are very lucky to be alive and I am thanking God above for his blessings.. I went to columbus to drop off...
Posted by Miss Independent on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 01:53:00 PST