Dr. Paul

Hi, it’s Dr. Paul here.

Let me introduce myself, and explain a bit on how it could be… that there are resources and skills available you didn’t even know existed. For MEN, they are at www.doctorpaul.net and for WOMEN they are at www.womenshappiness.com

I have a set of programs for your advantage in life that simply aren’t available from any other source, whether self-help or academic. Together, they form a kind of “curriculum” or “university” for you to build your life with. You can even get your own personality assessment to test yourself, the people you date, your friends, teammates, roommates, or even your boss, at www.kwml.com (and KNOW their likely future behavior, likes and dislikes, and learn how you can perfectly get along with them.)

First, let me answer the question: “Who is Dr. Paul?”

You may have seen a lot of me in the media, or in books I’ve written, but you may be surprised to find out I’m still just a relatively young, average guy who’s been through just about every challenge in life you have.

The short version is that like you – and all men – things weren’t perfect for me growing up.

I’m the eldest of four siblings, and my mom and dad who had problems of their own were not very involved in our lives. I had a good teacher here and there… but for the most part, reaching adulthood and “Being a Man” whose most important task is making one’s way in the world did not at all come easy for me. And that’s not even speaking of dating.

There was really nobody to turn to for mentorship, 24-7 advice and guidance, or consistently cared about how my life was going. The best I could do for myself was to read voraciously and try out what I learned out in the real world. Yet, there was no help for me with the “hands on” stuff of life – the actions to take. The “how to do things” that I suspected were the source of the real successes in life.

I’m not talking about how to balance a checkbook or how to drive a car. I mean all the “hidden” things about being a man. The stuff that has never been written in textbooks, taught by a teacher, or is even talked about by most people’s fathers.

Dad never taught me to play sports, how to attract women and dating, or how to make my way in the world. I suspect he was not exceptional at any of those things himself. Still, I’d wished many times that he was able to “tell me what to do.” He never did.

I sometimes wished that instead of having to always be the big brother to my siblings, that there would somehow be an older brother of my own. One to “tell me what to do.”

And all I could think of was a little off-the-cuff remark one of my surgery professors had made to me:

“It’s not what you do,” he said. “It’s what you do NEXT.”

I turned to books and learning because they were the only other resources I had. I made learning what nobody else knows, my only “inner” psychological power.

I traveled the world “to find myself,” through Europe and Asia, Africa, and Indonesia, and ended up discovering that my problems were tiny – that the very same challenges I had are experienced by men all over the world no different from myself.

When I returned, I left the field I had been training for – Surgery – and switched my life’s course into studying the mind. I became a psychiatrist.

I figured that it would be a perfect opportunity to learn all the “secret” things about peoples’ behavior that were not common knowledge. What makes women tick. What leads to true success. What it is to really “Be a Man.” I was also hooked ..ing people by this point. Truly hooked.

I started reading everything I could in the self-help arena. I attended every seminar out there. The words used were easy to understand, inspiring, and everything was available from “How to Meet Women,” to “How to Be a Successful Entrepreneur.” Yet after a year or two of this I came to realize that these kinds of motivational programs, while inspiring, and “Rah-Rah,” were really pretty impractical experiences that had only managed to drain my bank account. In weeks after leaving such seminars you end up deflated and back at square one with your very real, challenged life.

I realized that psychiatry was overly technical and uninspiring to many I treated. Yet the inspirational self-help gurus were utterly untrained, unskilled scientifically, and were generally just great salesmen simply out to make a buck.

The real “break” came when I realized that all this time I was looking for someone else to hold my hand – to lead me. To father me. To be the older brother I never had.

And the “someone” to guide me would have to be ME, instead.

The things about my profession that made it difficult to get good information to people fast, and see them improve their lives even faster… these were not someone else’s problem. My complaining about them was MY problem, and I had to solve it. All the things I had experienced in my personal life were also MY problems, and I need to solve them too.

I started taking the pieces of self-help I had read, and the well-researched parts of my professional training – putting them together in places that made sense. Like puzzle pieces, a new way of looking at psychology fit itself together for me. It helped everyone I worked with more rapidly than anything I had ever seen, and solved each and every question I had ever had about attracting women, making one’s way in the world, and ultimately “Being a Man.”

It did, and what’s more, the ONLY way that the complexity of psychology could be explained, while keeping the inspiration, simplicity, and real-world usefulness of some self-help ideas was for it to be VISUAL.

I found myself with the ONLY complete explanation of psychology, women, and success in life as a man that was entirely laid out as a set of DIAGRAMS.

I wasn’t angry anymore. I was excited. A picture is worth a thousand words, and these diagrams were pure GOLD for getting my own life turned around.

Any time I had a challenge from then on, I simply needed to look at a diagram that had ALL the answers on what to DO.

Not only did I start having a giant shift in the results I was getting in relating to women or making my way in the world, I knew EXACTLY why that was. There was no more guesswork.

It literally was like stumbling onto the “E=mc2 of Psychology.”

I called my new method of solving the challenges of life, mindOS, because it works just like the “operating system” of a computer. You can plug any problem into it and it guides you to the answer – of “just what to do.”

I started teaching it around the world to audiences and individuals just like you, and just like me. And I continue to use it every day to keep my own life growing.

Since that first basic discovery of this incredible system, I have divided it into whole courses for you that address every area of a man’s life:

From how to attract dates at first meeting, to how to maintain a long term relationship
From how to use body language in drawing people to you in business, to growing a vast social network of friends
From how to communicate to others in ways no other person even comes close to touching, to steering your life perfectly in the direction that will most reward you financially, emotionally, and spiritually.
How to elevate your status among others, to how to preserve your resources, channeling them to the most effective places in your mission in life as a man.
From how to choose the RIGHT PERSON for you in the first thirty minutes of meeting, to how to prevent now and forever, ever being cheated on.

The list could go on for twenty pages.

These are all organized for you in a sensible way – one that marches you from the most core material for free, right up into more advanced skills as a man or woman.

There certainly has never been a textbook about it, a coach, therapist, or self-help guru who teaches how these work together. Perhaps, like me, you didn’t have a Dad or older brother fit all the puzzle pieces together FOR you.

Now there is. It’s in your curriculum to train at in the “university” we provide for you.

Why Should You Believe That I Can Help You?

As you already know, the internet is literally packed to the gills with people working out of their basements, trying to convince you that they have “The Big, New Idea.” Well, mindOS, really is. I thought I was always just going to use it to help patients one-to-one; I never suspected my travels were going to lead me to the internet. In fact, when I first started building this system for you, the internet had barely been born.

Still, I don’t have ALL the answers to your SPECIFIC life challenges.

But YOU do, when you take the details of your life into the kind of complete, comprehensive guidance that is built into my diagrams, systems, tactics, and strategies that have taken over fifteen years to develop for you.

Given the thousands of garden variety therapists in the phone book, all the self-helpy talking heads on tv, the New Age people with seminars on a mountaintop, and the “How to Attract Women” salesmen all over the internet, you might very understandably ask, “Why should I believe what Dr. Paul says?”

And my answer to you is that you SHOULDN’T just blindly believe me.

In fact, I would recommend that you approach my programs with a healthy skepticism, and a “scientific” perspective. You should also read other authors widely, and with curiosity.

But I want you to TRY what you learn from me, even if it’s for FREE.

If you sign up for my free email newsletter at www.doctorpaul.net , if you are a man, or www.womenshappiness.com if you are a woman, I’m going to send you three newsletters every week… each one of them JAM-PACKED with tips, concepts, and advice on how to attract dates, and gain the career advantage.

Go out and TRY some of it!

I think you’ll find that I’m not interested in things that don’t work, or associating with people who don’t want growth, health and success in their lives. I like stuff that gets results, and people who give results. BIG results.

Only after you’ve seen that this system is for REAL… do I want you to “believe” me.