"lets just play dare, cuz it's rare people are like me and know how to tell the truth."
I change lives
I devolpe dreams into reality
I make impossible possible
I manifest destiny
I control me
I love life
tbc... Judah Ray
Check out my new MySpace page for 100's of pictures, Pop Art, glamour, and more by yours truly!
www.myspace.com/jrayphoto
I bring what I call my "Eye" (aka my camera) everywhere I go. I take picture of who and what I see in my own little world. I have been told that I see things in my own way. As a result I have picked up my cameraman skills and am building my profoilo shooting Pop Art and Glamor models. My new camera is on it's way but I haven't shot pro in years. Here are the first shots for my new portfolio... dig it and enjoy...
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I have a problem with pushing buttons... The RED ones are my worst! I'm just a brat like that... lol
"I have ALMOST everything I want... it's what I desire that's left!" ~ Judah Ray 03.08.07
"Always remember, others may hate you- but those who hate you don't win unless you hate them, and then you destroy yourself."
I'm not selling myself, just giving the world a clue" ;)
I am telling you this so we can share something to exist for... and of coarse... in case anyone comes searching...
Off the top of my head...
"You can take a moment to show someone you care... or a lifetime regretting you didn't"
~ Judah Ray - Wednesday 1/10.2007, 10:53am
I was asked:
You seem like a player ;)
My only answer:
'Seem' is the perfect word. I am the essence of what women dream a man can be... and so it seems unreal... fake. I was, and can be, a player... I just choose not too play the game. ;) I know what I like and what I want. Imagine a man who has all the suave, all the class, all the game but does a woman right! As you see I take pride in it. It is not easy in this day and age where men are accepted as the scum they are. The way I see it... you can feel good on the outside, or on the in... my soul glows bright and I feel good. Period. Game over. ;)
"Some speak from the mind and are lost in thought, some speak from the heart and get lost in emotions, I speak from the soul where the truth lies but NEVER lies!" ~ Judah Ray
My newest published poem!!!
Tempted for the first time desire meets it maker.
Basking in the excitement of our moment.
True lust as emotion grips the eye.
Indulge in thoughts of temptation...
yearn for life sweet memories that pass from soul to soul.
To chance you could one day be missed,
like the sun to a flower on the dark side of the moon.
Chance has fate planned in our future,
one way to find out... live.
Dedicated to a fact of once known emotions.
Brave the battle fields of discovery...
the enemy of fear has no hold.
Break free the will to do as my soul knows how.
My passion manifests reality,
one way to make it true... live.
Give chance the right to take lead!
Struggle and approach is over,
I sink my teeth into action.
The move has been made,
one way to see what's next... live.
Judah Ray Neiditch
If I was a cartoon:
This has too be said to start... it is a core of me and I have been told to just be blunt with it... so here it is....
I'm special in too many ways and have slaved hard with a lot of sacrifice to achieve the man I am today. ;) Not conceded, just convinced. I wasn't always like this. I started like a chump with most men in the world. A player and a fool. Just cause I had good looks and a brain that could show and prove I exploited my options and indulged in life's greatest beauty. Then I decided I was better then that (and grew up, I started with women at the ripe age of 6 with a girlfriend across the street from my Mom's house!) and worked hard to achieve and be the man I dreamed of... a real man with a real soul. A GENTLEman but still with a strait up and down real BADBOY twist! I installed into my being values and respect, self respect, and respect for women. Otherwise, I am the same playboy I always was, just with character and a wonderful thing called will power. Hey, it's hard when your young, accomplished, and amazing women are throwing themselves at you. It is easy at that age to run the wrong path. But, here I am, a bit older (but still a child at heart) and I am shocked by the boys around me, and how little there are true men out there... worse what age these boys are. I feel sorry for the real ladies in this world. But if your a beautiful woman, both inside and out, and your reading this profile... your one step closer. ;) If your a guy... take some notes! :p
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I want to meet all the great people out there big and small. People are a trip so I like to meet and greet as many as possible! In the end cool people who are fun to be with. No fools who fake the front! No negative jerks who don't know how good life is. No ungrateful asses who don't appreciate that fact! Or losers AKA people who don't know what to do with that life. I'm from the real side of the tracks... where do you hang? If you think you can hang with this REAL thang then add a guy and let's see how down with it you REALLY are. ;) You can always hit me up at: [email protected]
Love is my biggest passion. So I want to meet a woman who is worth that love that I can give, to cherish like a queen, and share life with. Together we can make that life great. I hope for a union one day with a woman who wants to join in with me to conquer the world. I want a woman in the streets, who's a freak in the bed. A lady on the streets, and a freak in the sheets! WHERE YOU AT?!?!?!? I'm a sucker for innocence with a bad girl streak. It's said that a pure and true love like that is a VERY hard thing to find in the world. Let alone our backwards world here in HollyWIERD. Oh is it true. Guess I will just have to have fun and play until then! There are just WAY too many women in this city. TOO BAD MOST (most being the key word here) SUCK (and not in the good way people)! Being a helpless romantic though, I push through. I believe it can happen in this city. I have faith. There are those radiant beauties out there few and far in-between... WHERE YA AT?!?!
I love the experience of when I reap all of what I sow. I am a fashion whoer! Not label hoar people. I like what I like to look good in, and if I look good in it I get it. I have a look of my own and keep my look fresh every few months. Though you can ask anyone who knows me I yams who I yams and that inside is who I yams. My attitude doesn't change just my outlook on life and how I deal with it on a better level.
Ahhh, about me... (I am a writer so hold on tight) I enjoy not being like everybody else. I'm as they say unique. I walk, talk, lick, stick, move and groove in my own way. I'm always on the look out for more people like me who want the most from life, and know with the dedication and respect they have, they are going to get it! The rest is history! ;) I know what I like and what I don't. I know what I want. Though I am ALWAYS up too new experiences and excitement! Who knows what is out there I might find passion for next. It's a giant world filled with crazy sh*t and beautiful dreams. Wow, the curiosity is already tickling me! I love life, and life loves me back. Being an insomniac I find a lot of time on my hands. I only need around 2 - 3 hours of sleep a night! So I'm usually out and about doing my Judah Ray thang. Doing all I can with the extra 6 hours a day I get then most. I do love sleep, don't get me wrong. My body just doesn't need or like it or something. The ONLY thing that brings me ANY kind of good rest is a woman to cuddle up too like a teddy bear. Then I can do a good 5 - 6 hours of sleep! For now until I find a woman worth the good and epic love I want to give comes along I just lax with my doll Cheeka. She is so cute in the mornings she just makes my want to cuddle up and crash back out. If you have no clue who I am talking about, LOL, www.myspace.com/cheeka2cute. That's my girl. Good for everything but sex. Ha!
Film is a big part of my life right at the moment. I am currently building Hollywood's next giant film studio. Look out Lions Gate we are on your tail. Check for our films by A-Level Pictures. I am also in development with MGM on some GREAT projects. I have my desk over there and stop by here and there to check on how things are going. I love the movies and watching flicks. Music is a passion and I live my life to a sound track. Snowboarding is the bomb! I love to rip it. Years deep now. I'm down with most extreme sports. Lets see... being with friends, dancing, spooning, laughing and playing. I am a workaholic, business is another BIG passion. I'm also into going to the gym and keeping fit (no I'm not a gym guy) I just like looking good. (Plus those two little indentions between the hips!!!) I like to do funky, fun stuff, like bowling, hiking, mini-golf, skating, hanging at the beach, etc.. Traveling is a must, but sometimes I just run away to my condo in Palm Springs for a weekend to clear my head. SO BEAUTIFUL AND ROMANTIC!!! Or even just stay home, cook a nice dinner (I'm a gourmet chef along with a studied masseuse, CA licensed bartender, PrePych, PreLaw and more... I love knowledge), and can go out and take over the night or just chill... settle down to watch movies on a Saturday till' the AM. I am just good like that.
An intimate look at JUDAH RAY NEIDITCH
Born to Elvis' hair stylist and a Los Angles Contractor/Developer Judah Ray had producer in his blood from birth. He is an entrepreneur, Feature Film producer, VIP event producer, nightclub producer, fashion designer, published poet/writer, artist, creative director, graphic designer, deejay, marketer, agent, creator, Inventor, philosopher and true businessman who owns five companies within the entertainment industry… and that is only the beginning.
Despite his family Judah Ray took it upon himself at 15 years old to go out into the world and find his place. Disowning himself from his family, working with nothing, he found his heart in business and never turned back. A true businessman at heart he saw opportunity in the early years of the Los Angeles’ electronica dance scene. Throwing countless events in everything from all night warehouses to the top nightclubs in LA, he soon rose to be one of the West Coasts top event producers at just 16! Seeing a need for creative design in the world of events, and not being able to find an artist who could achieve the “graphic look†he yearned for in his marketing, he invested into the high-end design world. Starting under other design firms he learned computer art and web development. With this knowledge he then branched off into his own company Elite Design Multimedia. Yearning to achieve social status and drive his profit Margins up Judah Ray noticed that "21 and over" nightclubs, Galas and Premier parties were the next big thing. At 16 years old began Inner City Nights which held events at such infamous locations as the 8420 Sunset, and The Roxbury, never leaving the front door for fear of being I.D.ed not being able to return into his own venue. Desiring to push his production skills to their best, and having a serious passion for film since youth, Judah Ray took odd jobs around the Film, Television and Music Video industry. Seeking all kinds of work in the Art Department, Make-up, Grip, Electric, Production office, even P.A., Transportation and more to learn and gain momentum in the industry. After seeing a lack for work for nonunion workers to get hours and achieve union status, coupled with countless calls for work while already on set, he created Cineaste Inc. to help onset employees find employment and compile hours for union status. Plus, at the same time not loose the work offered to him. By keeping all these people working and dedicated to his dream, all while gaining knowledge himself, Judah Ray gained the momentum to start A-Level Pictures, his own feature film studio and produce, by himself, his first full length feature film. He is now on the verge of selling television next big show, the launch of his Lingerie line, a new nightclub formula never scene by the LA scene and more! Judah Ray is now positioned to make his mark on the world.
An intimate look at the endeavors of JUDAH RAY NEIDITCH
A producer from birth Judah Ray finds his joy in bringing together people, to make a product, to entertain the masses and turn a profit. As he has said, "If I wasn't a producer I don't know what else I would be doing," and he makes sure to keep that dream alive. With no family or friends in the industry Judah established himself by starting his film career on others movie sets. He helped on projects with infamous directors like Lil' X to first time productions by seasoned veterans like Jsu Garcia and TAG Entertainment. Making their dream projects a reality while he planned his own. Then with the start of his film production studio, A-Level Pictures (www.alevelpictures.com) he was well on his way. His first feature film, One Among Us, stars James Russo and was shot by DP Gavin Alcott (Son of John Alcott, Stanley Kubricks DP on his greatest films) and is an amazing horror film with a whodunit edge leaving audiences thrilled and wanting more. With prospect distributors like Lions Gate, Warner, Fox, Searchlight, Gibraltar and others interested the film is positioned for greatness. A-Level Pictures has six films in slate and some T.V shows in the works for 2005-2006. They plan to corner the market and make a name as the newest studio to take Hollywood. Look out for One Among US in theaters fall 2005. A-Level Pictures is also in preproduction of the pulp, soon to be a classic, "My Way" also written by Judah Ray, and the next edgy thriller they just optioned "12 Steps Down," both looking at a 2006 production schedule. After his films wrap he went piggy backing to help Gibraltar Internationals project Bassem Takes Hollywood in which they partnered with Tapestry Films Trevor Stewart from this summers hit Wedding Crashers. To this day he produces his projects while remaining active in helping his Hollywood industry make their next moves and dreams come true.
Judah Ray also runs and operates a new vision in the industry named Cineaste Inc. which him and partner Michael Popek innovated. The new company Cineaste in an organization of filmmakers from Producers to P.A.s looking for work in the entertainment industry. Through the web site .. and word of mouth Cineaste networks these collaborating professionals with jobs on sets. Accompanied by the good Cineaste name, and other professionals as references, the jobs are easier to come by. This also creates a gateway for Cineastes' sister company A-Level Pictures to find crew that is available for their shoots. In the end setting up the opportunity for the best professionals in the industry, to be available for a rate, that is lower then most. Helping bring their projects in way under budget with way more production value then most independent films. In the future Cineaste Inc. plans to have entire sets of one hundred even two hundred people entirely ran and operated by members who secured their position on set through Cineaste Inc.
An event specialist for over a decade now in Los Angeles Judah Ray started his entertainment career at a very young age with a series of huge events during junior high and high school! Pulling in numbers of five hundred to one thousand plus attendees with just music and a location. Then he found himself looking towards all night dance events called raves in early 1991 as a means to keep this love for entertaining an organizing the masses thriving. This passion as time passed grew into a love for special events, concerts, nightclubs, bars, and the whole aspect of the entertainment industry. Thriving on his love for that entertainment industry, and feeling that elements were missing that could make the entertainment experience better; he began to do his own events in early 1996 with Inner City Underground (I.C.U) events. He began by promoting one of L.A.'s most successful nightclubs, Magic Wednesdays (running at such infamous nightclubs as the 8240 (Now Dublin's), the Roxbury, The Arena, and The World (7070 Hollywood Blvd.). While at the same time producing and promoting all-night concerts, clubs, weeklies and rave events. Marketing events all over the great Los Angles area with venues from the suburbs and Long Beach, to the open air of Angles Crest and the deeps of the 909. As time passed he went on to produce over eight successful weekly clubs and over thirty all-night events with numbers from an intimate 100 to a massive 10,000 attendees. After a two-year hiatus he returned in 2003 with Inner City Entertainment (www.innercityent.com) and partnered with some of LA's strongest promotional and marketing companies. 2004 marked a new year where we he took I.C.E. into a VIP world. Taking on the responsibility of representing, marketing and managing LA's finest high-end nightclub VIP areas, events, and social gatherings. Working with some the most exquisite hot spots and production companies in town. At L.A.'s most infamous and exquisite events, nightclubs and lounges such as The Highlands, The Loggia Restaurant, Garden of Eden, the Sunset Room, Deep, Prey and Bliss to name a few. Including organizing events for cooperate companies including magazines, fashion shows, galas, wrap parties, premiers and more to birthday parties for the stars. Currently I.C.E is holding six weekly events and one monthly social gathering. Judah Ray also partnered with Sid Zuber to create The ESP Group (www.theespgroup.com). Their main partnership was with Golden Voice; the company that has secured the Coachella Film Festival for five years now, in managing the operations of the festival, along with providing and producing the Coachella Film Festival each year. Recently they brought the Vans Warped Tour to Long Beach providing venue, production and coordination for the event. In 2005 they will be worldwide starting with a three-day festival in Amsterdam sponsored by EA Sports at Dance Valley that looks to pull 90,000 attendees. They have also been invited to produce a fifteen day festival in Thailand at an amusement park with names such as Green Day and Gwen Staffani to name a few. ESP will also handle the tour after parties across the country for Slip Knot. They plan to help host the wrap and premier party for The 1 Second film and will be working close with LUSH events to ensure that the special occasion goes off to the best of it's capability. Last but not least ESP is responsible for coordinating a huge industry mixer in August at the Hotel W in Los Angeles where they will provide atmosphere and environment suited for the stars for a night of industry networking and good times.
Also a highly sought out artist in L.A. Judah Ray owns and operates Elite Design Multimedia (www.edmsite.com) that is vastly becoming Hollywood's stop for design with flare. EDM has been around since early 1995 and started in the Los Angles concert and club scene. Specializing in Hi-End design, 3D modeling, web mastering and e-commerce they boast “If you can imagine it he can design it.†The company has designed for every major club in Los Angles. 80% of the club designs for the late part of the 90s in L.A came from this design studio and this solo designer. Designing directly and indirectly revered art for Coke, Patron, E Channel, VH1, MTV, DefJam records, 40 below vodka, Vitamin Water, Vogue, Playboy, URB magazine, and others. Judah Ray even did time with Cherokee Clothing helping revamp the Cherokee look along with SideOut, Mossimo, Gotcha, Carol Little and many others as their creative director. EDM has designed for multimedia from music videos for Brandy, 50 Cent, Velvet Revolver, Fabulous and others to film, TV, print ADs, magazines, even cooperate identities. Director Lil' X calls on him for all his major music video designs. Most major promoters in L.A. still call upon EDM to design their concert and club marketing needs. With the show "Blow Out" on Bravo looking his way for designs, and the motion picture and TV industry calling, 2005 is a great year so far for EDM.
In 2006 Judah Ray finds himself on the verge of a new frontier. With his feature film on the market for sale, the start of his lingerie line, Jray Fyhrie, a new show on the horizon that will change the way people view scripted television; Shangri-LA, and a few other projects unmentionable in slate Judah Ray is looking to become one of the next big moguls behind the scenes of the entertainment industry and more. Now established with MGM Studios in the Century City Towers expect to hear and see a lot of Judah Ray into 2007!
Written by my PR.
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"There is a way for sure you can tell if you HAVE truly been in love before... If you are willing to spend every day of your life in the struggle, happiness and even sometimes pain of trying to find it again... just to feel the real power of LOVE even for just one more moment in life."
Judah Ray May 17th 2006 2:45pm
"I have one secret.... I am a lover ...I love to love. nobody really knows that about me other then those who i have loved truly, and even yes some I haven't, in my search for the truth. In fact most people think the opposite of me. Society tends to stereotype lovers like me... I am a cheeseball hopeless romantic as corny as they come....I keep it a secret because people think we are desperate...I hate that...I just want someone to wrap their little warm naked sweaty body around me...and people think I am desperate. That's all I want to think about ...that's all I want to talk about...That's all I want ...to lay naked and makeout. Let me see if I can help you get a feel for me...for starters ....I am not an actor (in EVERY sense) and I am not a model (well, work wise). It's moments like these that you can be proud not to have that title. I have no tattoos ...only a couple of peircings... and I am a total man but truly a GENTLEman. I take pride in my wardrobe and style, and I am known for having the goods. I have nothing fancy to write about other then my feelings and times.... Sorry I don't care to impress you. So there you have it... I am a very curious man (I want to see and know everything) I'm just a passionate boy who wants to lay naked and make out ...that's all I want to do ......I just want someone to hug me and wrap their naked body around mine right now....My hobby is cuddling .....my favorite thing to do is be naked in bed loving and kissing .....It's one of the things I know I am good at....All I want in life is to makeout naked, Did I say that already. I'm a lover ....I love to love ...... I just want to love someone now...I want to feel my lovers hot sweaty body smothering me at all times...I am not a sex addict ... Ok, I do LOVE sex but with the right person and the right person only! I am a corny hopeless romantic...looking for someone as passionate and corny as me to rub naked bodies with and makeout. That's all I want. That's my secret...I spend most of my time fantasizing about making love to someone it's deep hot passionate love....she is so close to me I can feel her sweaty chest rub against mine....I can feel her breathing in my mouth...I want to swallow her......It's a faceless woman I fantasize about...I haven't put a face to her yet...that's my secret...you better not tell anyone or laugh at me!"... Quoted!
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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.
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I'm a published poet and part of the International Poetry Society. I love words...
You can find this one page one of the book IMMORTAL VOICES (This one won Editors choice!!!)
COME TO ME ANGEL
Your beauty captivates me.
So hot the sun gets jealous when you walk into summer daylight.
You sweep me away into a world of wonder,
as I peer into your exotic features,
and escape to the time of my first kiss.
I am mesmerized at the subtle way you carry such art,
that you call home to your soul.
Your energy makes great dreams reality.
I feel your passion engulf me like fire does the sun.
I want to swim in your eyes,
play in your smile,
have my fingers stroke the curves of your entrancing figure.
Let's test the waters of passion,
and see how hard the waves hit our beach.
I am ecstasy... take me.
Judah Ray
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My defenses fading you admit you had me waiting such a while for you.
So afraid that you would hurt me or that you wouldn't be worthy
to have love so true.
I always knew from the beginning that you were also feeling the same.
Took so many years and more shedding of tears than you ever knew.
We finally faced our fears and I decided to be clear about my love for you.
You fell so deep you promised to keep me by your side never to run and hide.
I cherished those times and prayed you'd always be mine.
But the seasons went they flew.
You couldn't keep me here
I couldn't take you there
and now it's over.
I'm sorry I shattered your dreams
it's not as simple as it seems I never wanted it to be this way.
We both got too frustrated and got so captivated with our own beliefs.
The world ripped you out of my heart
you sufferred and decided to start
a life without me.
I begged you to come back you wanted to hold my hand but confirmed it was too late.
I pray for the grace to smile when I see your face with another man.
Just so that you know if you gave yourself to me I'd never let you go again.
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I was told too be proud... so that said....
I'M AN INITIATOR! Initiators like to lead, rather than follow. ... but end up usually not finding someone daring enough to take the front and do all the work. Even the bravest that claim they could hold you down challenge your roar but end up purring lost in a world of orgasmic bliss. You have yet to be tamed and seek one to do so. Both in and out of the bed. You're upfront about telling your partner what you need, how to do it and for how long -- you're good at getting your sexual needs fulfilled. You have a wide sexual repertoire, which you're comfortable discussing, but nothing lights your fire like getting down to business in a very physical way. You're the type of partner that leaves a lover exhausted -- even the tamest of Initiators really like oral sex, while the wildest of this group use food and sex toys on a fairly regular basis. You push yourself to find new ways to take a walk on the wild side. Your challenge is to find a partner who can keep up while letting you lead but can also drive the initiative force so your not left doing all the work and left over it and unchallenged. Good luck ;)
LET'S GET THIS PARTY STARTED – If you're like many Initiators, you're dominant and sexually aggressive. You enjoy taking the lead and introducing adventure to your sex life. You're comfortable with the territory you've covered so far and you'll continue to explore to your heart's content. Your challenge is to find a partner who wants to explore as much as you do and who will allow you to blaze the trail.
• Nothing lights an Initiator's fire like getting down to business in a very physical way.
• You'll take your partners along for the ride of their lives.
• You like to whisper sweet nothings, or dirty somethings, in your partner’s ear.
• Initiators love to start oral sex with their partners as part of getting intimate.
• Initiators love to watch themselves in a mirror while making love.
• Wilder Initiators like to tie their partners to the bed.
The big picture: Sexuality is a critical factor in the recipe for long-term compatibility, but it is not the sole element. Knowledge and communication help you cull prospects for a lasting relationship. ;) WORD!
I am the dream women speak of while whispering of romance unknown. ~ Judah Ray - Monday, January 29th 2007; 11:44pm
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My defenses fading you admit you had me waiting such a while for you.
So afraid that you would hurt me or that you wouldn't be worthy
to have a love so true.
I always knew from the beginning that you were also feeling the same.
Took so many years and more shedding of tears than you ever knew.
We finally faced our fears and I decided to be clear about my love for you.
You fell so deep you promised to keep me by your side never to run and hide.
I cherished those times and prayed you'd always be mine.
But the seasons went they flew.
You couldn't keep me here
I couldn't take you there
and now it's over.
I'm sorry I shattered your dreams
it's not as simple as it seems I never wanted it to be this way.
We both got too frustrated and got so captivated with our own beliefs.
The world ripped you out of my heart
you suffered and decided to start
a life without me.
I begged you to come back you wanted to hold my hand but confirmed it was too late.
I pray for the grace to smile when I see your face with another woman.
Just so that you know if you gave yourself to me I'd never let you go again.
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People always come into you life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
Lifetime, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a slid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life....
"A Reason A Season and A Lifetime"© by Brain A. "Drew" Chalker.
No one falls in love by choice,
it is by CHANCE.
No one stays in love by chance,
it is by WORK.
And no one falls out of love by chance,
it is by CHOICE.
I TRIED BEIN' HUMBLE..BUT HUMBLE GETS NO RESPECT... 'CAUSE I WORKED HARD TO HAVE TRUE SOUL THIS DAY AND AGE... I VALUE MY INTELLECT. IF MY ATTITUDES TOO MUCH FOR YOU AND MY WAYS YOU WANT TOO REJECT... YOU CAN DO, SO BUT I KNOW, YOU KNOW I CAME CORRECT!!! (a ramble off a quote I found) ~ Judah Ray
CLEVERLY DISGUISED AS A RESPONSIBLE ADULT ;)
BAD IS WHEN UR CAPABLE OF BEATIN' THE BADDEST.
I am not a player. I left the game a long time ago. I don't have any yearn to play a game.... I just never forgot how to hit and run! I can run round those bases when I choose!Judah Ray, August 19th 2007, 12:30 pm
Wait for the person who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on them, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the person who will kiss your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you're in sweats, who holds your hand in front of their friends, who thinks you're just as pretty not all done up; one who is constantly reminding you of how much they care and how lucky they are to have you. The one who turns to their friends and says "thats mine".
"Never make someone your priority when to them you are only an option - don't just be someone's convenience."