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Howzit?!

one day at a time....sunrise sunset, and everything in between

About Me

I live in NC. I have the best guy on earth, literally. He understands this thing called "Me" totally and completely, which in itself, is a very difficult, challenging job alot of times. Also, I have a daughter , whom i'm very proud of. I work in sales at a major airline. I'm from a very close knit family and have a grandson I adore, Aiden, *smiles* I'm very spiritual and God is an important part of my life. I'm very spontaneous and want to travel to as many places around the world that I can and experience different cultures and foods before I get older. And when my last sunset comes, I want to be in the arms of the man I love. I want to be married hopefully again soon. Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there. They serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be; your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with theirs, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.Sometimes things happen to you and at the time they may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart.Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.The people you meet who affect your life and the successes and downfalls you experience -- they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experiences can be learned from ... those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious about to whom you open your heart.If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love. Break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.You can make of your life anything you wish.Create your own life and then go out and live it!

My Interests

<[Thank you GOD for the love of my life..he has all I need and want...if I had made him myself it would be exactly what he is...MY HEALING...>] Intimacy,beaches/walks on the beach at night, CRUISING-CARIBBEAN,heavenly angels AND earthly angels...thank you Matt ;)) <3 lots, fonduing- The Melting Pot,cheese, tomatoes, cottage cheese,cherries,pineapple,rainbows, crepes, pasta, emeralds, traveling, concerts, amusement parks, snow globes, volunteering, spending time with family and friends, cooking new recipes,computer, working in the yard with flowers, beads, southwestern deserts and southwestern art and pottery, watching it snow and snowflakes on your tongue -), southwestern jewelry, a pretty sunset/sunrise, moonlight, chocolate, strawberries,cream cheese, sour cream, cheesecake, mexican food, japanese food, blue, purple, my boyfriend's singing voice =), EUREKA, CA , MUSIC, listening to karaoke, Christmas, parties, fall season, Ft Myers Beach, Cozumel, New Orleans, long naps on a stormy day, my friends in real life and online...There should be a section on hates/dislikes too....I HATE CHEATING AND LYING.....and I dislike alot, procrastination.

I'd like to meet:

new people to talk to about almost anything. people who have traveled many places and of different cultures, Jesus and his twelve disciples, Michael W Fleming,my fiance's dad, a great man, RIP 4/21/07 Michael, the last 50 generations of my family on both sides, great chefs who are famous for their world renown delicasies, mother theresa, the person who created "chili's restaurant", my 5th grade teacher (again), billy graham, my daughter's male twin,as brother and sister, original indians that were here when America was discovered, that lonely person on the street who needs an "ear" to listen, "the life of the party",(the happiest person on earth), all my internet friends i've never met in person, Abraham Lincoln or anyone who considers PEACE and non oppression a vital part of life.

Music:

SIXX:A.M....NIKKI SIXX, DJ ASHBA, JAMES MICHAEL, FIREHOUSE, BRET MICHAELS...ENTWINE...BLACK STONE CHERRY.....DAUGHTRY, reggae, staind, shinedown, nickelback, tourniquet, stabbing westward, aerosmith, bon jovi, hoobastank, toby keith, pink,kid rock, pantera, def leppard, styx, metallica, journey, reo speedwagon, rush, ac/dc, boston, eagles, phil collins, coldplay, 3 doors down, steven curtis chapman, michael w smith, rod stewart, poison, kansas, kiss, slaughter, winger, whitesnake, white lion, michael combs, kenny g, journey, chilites, marvin gaye, luther vandross, cher, mariah carey, goo goo dolls, red hot chili peppers, the temptations, elton john, lynrd skynrd, van halen, Guns n Roses, nirvana, 70's music, motown, and so many more really,. .....Music is a big part of me! ....

PINK lyrics

Movies:

Too many to mention here...here are a few...almost any thing,Sweeney Todd, Napoleon Dynamite, rv, Madea's family reunion,Saw I II and III, The hills have eyes,(both) Silent Hill, All the Friday the 13th movies, all the Halloween movies, all the Nightmare on Elm St movies, The Corpse Bride, the Lethal Weapon movies, Edward Scissorhands, The Passion of the Christ, Shrek I and II, Rent, Blow and many more I've seen recently. Add to list...Halloween remake, knocked up, super bad, no reservations , The Brave One /h> ..
Your Birthdate: February 28
You have a Type A personality so big it makes other Type A's shrink away in shame.
You never shy away from adversity - and you love to tackle impossible problems.
Failure is not an option for you, and more than a few people are put off by your ego.
You tend to be controlling, and you hate leaving anything up to chance.
Your strength: Your bold approach to life
Your weakness: You don't accept help
Your power color: Bronze
Your power symbol: Pyramid
Your power month: October What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Television:

"DOG", THE BOUNTY HUNTER...CELEBRITY REHAB,... Court tv, cops, shows about forensics and crime, intervention, and vh1, mtv, AandE, Food Network

Books:

don't read much, but if i do, books about real life happenings, The Bible, Women are from Venus Men are from Mars, The Five Love Languages, the Left Behind series .. ..
Save a Life: Get This Code! ..
Advanced Global Personality Test Results
Extraversion |||||||||| 40%
Stability |||||| 26%
Orderliness |||||||||||||||||| 80%
Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 70%
Interdependence |||||||||| 36%
Intellectual |||||| 23%
Mystical |||||||||||| 43%
Artistic |||||| 30%
Religious |||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Hedonism || 10%
Materialism |||||||||||| 43%
Narcissism |||||||||||| 50%
Adventurousness |||||| 30%
Work ethic |||||| 30%
Self absorbed |||| 16%
Conflict seeking || 10%
Need to dominate |||||||||| 36%
Romantic |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Avoidant |||||||||||| 50%
Anti-authority |||||||||||||||| 63%
Wealth |||| 16%
Dependency |||||||||||| 43%
Change averse |||||||||||||||| 70%
Cautiousness |||||||||||||| 56%
Individuality |||||||||||||| 56%
Sexuality |||||||||||||||||| 76%
Peter pan complex |||||||||||| 50%
Physical security |||||||||||||||| 70%
Physical Fitness || 10%
Histrionic |||||||||||| 50%
Paranoia |||||||||||||||||||| 83%
Vanity |||||| 23%
Hypersensitivity |||||||||||||||| 70%
Female cliche |||||||||||| 50% Take Free Advanced Global Personality Test
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Heroes:

people who are strong but humble and kind at the same time. people who have time to share with others, to talk and listen, and make a difference in the world. People who were strong and overcame addictions, God bless you Alex, I KNOW you really tried, I miss you lots and will see you again one day, =) Jesus, my good friend Eleanor...aka El, love you,.. Abraham Lincoln, my daughter, my mom,Mary Fleming, Matt's mom, RIP Mary 11/05, really we are all heroes in our own ways, no one's perfect I've learned. PEOPLE WHO VALUE PEACE AND NON OPPRESSION, WHO SEE THE WORLD AS ONE HUMAN RACE. .. ..
CAROLYN
Cis forCultured
Ais forAlert
Ris forRemarkable
Ois forOrganic
Lis forLively
Yis forYummy
Nis forNice What Does Your Name Mean?
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Way
Birthday: 28feb
Birthplace: NC
Current Location: NC
Eye Color: blue
Hair Color: blonde
Height:
Right Handed or Left Handed: lefty
Your Heritage: dutch/german
The Shoes You Wore Today: black
Your Weakness: Someone who loves me holding me in his arms
Your Fears: dying tragically
Your Perfect Pizza: the new pizza hut "lasagna"
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: to be happier
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: not now!
Your Best Physical Feature: my smile
Your Bedtime: 12a-2a
Your Most Missed Memory: Being carefree and not missing much,living life happily
Pepsi or Coke: pepsi
MacDonalds or Burger King: "the king"
Single or Group Dates: single, more intimate
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: lipton, of course
Chocolate or Vanilla: chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: neither, I don't "drink"
Do you Smoke: no
Do you Swear: try not to
Do you Sing: If you wanna hear meh
Do you Shower Daily: yes, of course
Have you Been in Love: yes...I think so anyway
Do you want to go to College: Already done that
Do you want to get Married: Yes, again, I think to the right guy =)
Do you belive in yourself: sometimes
Do you get Motion Sickness: no
Do you think you are Attractive: somewhat
Are you a Health Freak: no
Do you get along with your Parents: yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: yes
Do you play an Instrument: I used to, piano
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: no
In the past month have you Smoked: no
In the past month have you been on Drugs: no
In the past month have you gone on a Date: no, unfortunately not
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: no
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: yuck!
In the past month have you been on Stage: no
In the past month have you been Dumped: Not in the running currently =(
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: A kiss
Ever been Drunk: no
Ever been called a Tease: Not recently
Ever been Beaten up: not physically
Ever Shoplifted: no
How do you want to Die: peacefully
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: A person with a heart like mine
What country would you most like to Visit: Finland
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: green
Favourite Hair Color: blonde
Short or Long Hair: long
Height: 6 0- 6 4
Weight: muscles, but not alot
Best Clothing Style: casual
Number of Drugs I have taken: none
Number of CDs I own: I haven't counted lately
Number of Piercings: 2
Number of Tattoos: 0
Number of things in my Past I Regret: The only 1, That I have anything to regret =(
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My Blog

SixxAM

If you notice, I changed my page. SixxAM.......what can I say....the best band ever! Go see them, they're awesome. I saw them about 2 weeks ago. You will love them too. They consist of 3 great musici...
Posted by Howzit?! on Tue, 15 Jul 2008 10:06:00 PST

Milestone

Hi everyone. I know it's been awhile since posting. I have been taking alot of time growing in alot of ways I think.  Trust has always been a hard thing for me and I have spent alot of time worki...
Posted by Howzit?! on Sun, 20 Apr 2008 07:51:00 PST

Trust?

I have found that trust is a word only in fairy tales unfortunately. And, the worst part? The people you put all your hope, love, faith, and TRUST in are the exact people who you SHOULD NOT trust.  Th...
Posted by Howzit?! on Tue, 11 Dec 2007 01:09:00 PST

I wonder.....

I wonder if my life will ever progress from the last 30 years of stagnant, same old, same old. I guess everyone would say life has not been easy, but you know I would just enjoy a partial day of good ...
Posted by Howzit?! on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 03:34:00 PST

I know its been awhile.....

Well guys, I haven't posted in a long while. I just thought I would tell a little about what's happening in life at the moment. I will be starting a totally different job next month, but within the sa...
Posted by Howzit?! on Wed, 12 Sep 2007 09:25:00 PST

Stupidity rant/vent

Okay, this is gonna be a vent session, sorry to say. =( I am just soo tired of stupidity, I mean in the way people do their jobs, how they act/talk, how they drive, how they don't care about anything ...
Posted by Howzit?! on Fri, 02 Mar 2007 05:14:00 PST

Thanks

Hi guys, here I am again. I just wanted to say I have the coolest friends on myspace. =) You guys listen to me rant and rave about problems and are very kind to me, giving support and advice. You list...
Posted by Howzit?! on Mon, 11 Dec 2006 09:43:00 PST

My day off

I know I don't do very good at this blog thing....well, I am going to try and do better. Life is good right now I suppose except for I still don't have enough time because of work to spend time with M...
Posted by Howzit?! on Sat, 18 Nov 2006 01:29:00 PST

lonely

You know how life deals you these cards, and they are all the wrong ones? hmmmpf...well that's me. Nothing ever seems to go right for me, even tho I am a good person. I know, it happens, right? But it...
Posted by Howzit?! on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 06:29:00 PST

Growing

Hi guys! I haven't posted in awhile. I just wanted to let you know work is still busy, trying to make the cash and my grandson is becoming a lil man in the first month already. He is now 7 lbs an...
Posted by Howzit?! on Fri, 06 Oct 2006 07:15:00 PST