Music and BooksIf I speak in the tongues of men and angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom mysteries & all knowledge, if I have faith that moves mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
Without sex it would be so easy to choose appropriate people to live with. Sex was the joker in an otherwise rational deck.
I've already learned that if you ignore the rules people will, half the time, quietly rewrite them so that they don't apply to you.
I'd like to meet:
If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love's sake only. Do not say
"I love her for her smile —her look —her way
Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
A sense of pleasant ease on such a day" -
For these things in themselves, Beloved, may
Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry,—
A creature might forget to weep, who bore
Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
But love me for love's sake, that evermore
Thou may'st love on, through love's eternity'.
We need others. We need others to love and we need to be loved by them. There is no doubt that without it, we too, like the infant left alone, would cease to grow, cease to develop, choose madness and even death.
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing, and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
Sometimes you have to find yourself. And when you do you realize that you may have lost what you wanted in the first place. And you find your self missing something, like a kiss or a word and you hate yourself for not being more forgiving. By then you realize that the one you hurt will never want you. And you know that when you face the uncertain horizon you do so with love that will never fade, but will always grace the intended from afar.
Your Element Is Air
You dislike conflict, and you've been able to rise above the angst of the world.
And when things don't go your way, you know they'll blow over quickly.
Easygoing, you tend to find joy from the simple things in life.
You roll with the punches, and as a result, your life is light and cheerful.
You find it easy to adapt to most situations, and you're an open person.
With you, what you see is what you get... and people love that!
What's Your Element?
Music:
HOUSSSSSSSSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I Love DJ FLX He is my favorite & one of my favorite people
Movies:
My Favorite Movie is "Forrest Gump" Don't Laugh it's a good movie.
Television:
Don't watch TV
You are a Great Girlfriend
When it comes to your guy, you're very thoughtful
But you also haven't stopped thinking of yourself
You're the perfect blend of independent and caring
You're a total catch - make sure your guy knows it too!
Are You a Good Girlfriend?
Books:
Devil in the White City is a story of a Serial Killer who lived and Hunted in Chicago during the Worlds Fair it's Amazing and a Great historical view of Chicago. Anything by Isabel Allende (especially Portraits in Sepia), Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Koontz, Angelou, and OLD Poetry
Heroes:
My Mommy she raised 4 kids by herself while getting a masters in Social Work and working 2 jobs. What??? yeh!! Now that is better then having BALLS!!!
