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Robert

Have faith and never lose hopes

About Me

Originally from New York in Queens. Now living the porn capital of the world, the San Fernado Valley. I am a tall chinese gentleman who love the simple things in life. You can say I am a spontaneous man who will try just about anything. not everything, just most things. I'm down to earth and love to chat. I've been told that I am a all around type of guy who you can take just about anywhere on any ocasion. I get along with people ery well. I have been told that I am a charming guy who always make people feel comfortable around me and have a great sense of humor which means I do laugh a lot.Traveling has been a hobby of mine for a long time. I've traveled accross many places in North America and Asia. I plan to travel to the carribbean islands and South America and the remainder of Asia before I am 30. After I am 30, I will travel to Western Europe, but I will be going to Romania to meet my wonderful lady Oana's family. If I get the opportunity to see Italy that will be great.Family and friends are a big part of my life and it is because of them I am who I am. I love my family and yes I am family-oriented. The most important thing I learn from my family is to never give up hope. With Hopes, anything is possible and it is your strength to that you need to live day after day with. It is how you keep your head up and know that life is worth living and that there is a purpose. My friends takes up a part of me that I would just be lost without them. I had friends that had been replaced with new ones. The old friend will never be forgotten and I forgive them that they don't keep in touch anymore. I forgive those who had taken advantage of me, I had forgiven those who had hurt me. Through all the expierences, I will never change the person that I am that cares about them, and love them, and accept them for who they are and not what they have to offer. That is a quality that I am proud to have. It is a gift that not everyone has. I thank God for giving me the extra strength I need to go on each day of my life knowing that I'd done my part and patience is what I have obtain throughout my life.This part of the profile is a personal one. I feel that it should be shared with the world. A big part of why I am the way I am is due to my condition. I was born with a condition called The Usher Syndrome. No, it wasn't name after the singer. There are 3 types and mine happen to be US3. It is a rare disease which cause nightblindness. What that is, when I enter a dim or dark room my surrounding pretty much disappear. I can't see anything clearly peiod. A normal person has a 180 degrees field of vision, but I have less than 100. For example, if I was standing and you just happen to walk up next to me while I am looking straight ahead...I wouldn't know that you're there. Not only I am affected during the night but within the last year, my vision had gotten worse during the day. It had cause high sygnatism and I require shades during the day. This will eventually get worse as I get older, but I can slow the process by taking good care of myself through exercising and eating right. To top those, beside the pygmintosis of my retina....it causes deafness too. Am I deaf? no, I am not and I'm am grateful for that. Is it tough living like this? yes, of course. What can I do though? there is no cure nor laser surgery that can be perform to fix it. not yet at least.luckily I am strong enough to deal with it and live my life as comfortable and peaceful as possible. No one can understand what I go through everyday, not even my friends or family. sadly to say I am alone in this regardless. I will never want anyone to go through what I am going through. only those who has a certain disability will have some sense of how it's feels to deal with it. Yes, there are people who has it worse where they are totally blind, well, at least they don't have to suffer to be able to once see everything and eventually live in eternal darkness when the time comes. Hey, I am not sad nor am I letting something like this get the best of me. I keep it positive and always smiling.If any of yall actually took the time to read all this...wow, I thank you for your time.

My Interests

movies, socializing, traveling, music, cultures, baseball, collecting memories., chess and trying new things.

I'd like to meet:

anyone. I find people are unique one way or another. Potential friends, I look for understanding, repect, and open minds. As for potential special lady, beauty inside and out. Understanding, sense of humor, great personality, get along with people, not afraid to stand up for herself in a reasonable manner, caring, loving, non judgamental, and of course accept me for me as I would accept her for her.

Music:

Always an RnB fan but love to listen to just about anything that catches my attentions. Mariah Carey, TlC, Nu Flavor, Babyface area a few R&B artists I listen to. Third Eye Blind, Green Day, The Starting Line, Simple Plan, Aerosmith for Rock. Tupac Shakur, Ice Cube, Eminem, Dr. Dre, Pitbull for Hip Hop. Music from the 70's, 80's, and 90's. Chinese music from Jay Chou, Jordan Chan, Eric, Coco Lee. Korean music from Jo Sung Mo and Druken Tiger. Japanese music from Utada Hikaru and Dragon Ash. I love music and I listen to anything that sound good.

Movies:

Face Off, Devil's Advocate, Demolition Man, Lord of the Rings, Tom Hanks' movies, horror, comedy and romance

Television:

That 70's Show, The Simpsons, Friends, World Wrestling Entertainment, TNA Wrestling, Ultimate Fighting Championship, House, last but not least the Food Network...damn, gotta love those desserts and $40 a day.

Books:

I love books by S.P. Somtow..I find his style and imagination to be very unique. other books i enjoyed are HeadCrash, Kit's Wilderness, books about how to make money and create success, self improvements books, The Midnight Cafe and just about any vampire s related books. Last but not least, I'm trying to get back into the best book ever, the Bible. men magazines.

Heroes:

All the strong mental people in my family and those who give their life to make a difference in this world.

My Blog

again

Now is a time again that I need to let out my thoughts.  For those of you who knows me or don't. I am here to let it all out.  As we get older, things changes of course.  There are thin...
Posted by Robert on Wed, 24 May 2006 09:56:00 PST

Overflow~>Broken Glass

I am at the tip of my patience. I am also at the tip of my life.  I am getting so fed up with so called friends.  I have been so stress with work. Deadlines due in a week and piles and piles...
Posted by Robert on Thu, 20 Apr 2006 07:50:00 PST