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Sean

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

Moved to Manhattan in Jan. 2001, after having lived in LA for 6 years. I received a degree in Music Theater and was pursuing a career on Broadway. Last thing I did was a European Tour of Grease. Since then I have gotten involved in Real Estate and if the occasional project should peek my interest then I will go back to performing. Nothing really moves me any more out there. I'd also like to say, that I have a sarcastic sense of humor sometimes. So you have to keep up with me. BELOW ARE THE HISTORY OF PROFESSIONAL PHOTOS FOR MY CAREER. Ok, I guess I should say, that I like to work out, I like to dance (use to study ballet), I like to dress well, I like to sing, I have a degree in Music Theater, and I live in Chelsea.....OH MY GOD....I'm GAY!!!! LOL OK...peoples that was big time joke. I mean...seriously....I'd have to get a little dog first, then I think by default I'd have to BECOME gay...it's part of GAY LAW! LOL Ok,I promise you, my humor sounds much better in my head than it does on this screen. Oh and sometimes when I am in new situations, I dont open up right away, which gets miscontrued as being stuck up. Which is not me. It just takes me a while to warm up to new people is all. I have lived a very diverse life. Growing up I raised PIGS for 4-H, played little league, got into theater, then studied and became a ballet dancer,had the chance to go into a company program, but went and got the degree in music theater. Worked on cruise ships, got married shortly, while being a go-go dancer for a gay bar, did that for like 5 weeks, didn't like the attention. Also I don't like lying, and it's hard to fake something, that's not just in me. So then I just kind of downgraded my appeal and worked at gay bars, where I was protected by the barrier of the bar...LOL Hey, I know my market back then. I am going to write a book about being straight in gay world. Got asked to go into the adult film industry twice. Both times I was with hot girls, one was my roommate who did the dancing behind windows, AKA "peep Shows", one was with the ex-wife, as we were browsing an adult book store in the valley of course. Guys, you got have the girls bring you in. But didn't want that career choice. Though now I am wondering...lol But what was unique was while I was go go dancing and working at the gay clubs and bars, I was a full time Kindergarten teacher for a whole semester. If their parents only knew..LOL Teaching ABC's to 5 year olds during the day, taking my shirt off at night for boys. Yes was a substitute teacher, K-5th, for 2 years in The Valley, in LA. I was also a long term substitute teacher for disabled children. This all while attempting an acting career in LA. Oh yeah I had put workouts in there too. Then, as luck would have it after having my first Equity professional gig in LA, my next gig was being a Back-Up dancer for the Chippendales. Now a back up dancer is just like a dancer Madonna would have. The big guys are too big to actually dance. But that was fun for about 2 weeks, definately felt more comfortable "playing the game", because I like women. But let me tell you, I learned a lot about them too. I mean some were very obnoxious, because you get women alone drinking with no dads, brothers, boyfriends, male friends, "waiting in the wings" men, well they can go a little crazy, because they just haven't experienced so much freedom, and they are like kids in candy stores. And they want to try out every flavor..lol See boys, we were taught not to touch women, and women were taught to push men away if they tried to touch, so when women find themselves at a Chippendale show, they just make the assumption (Some just feel entitled)that since they don't have to push us men away, they now, poke, grab, touch very sensitive areas. And one thing I definately learned on that tour is that women are WAY MORE sexual than men. It's just people think all guys want is sex, because in general men talk more openly, ala "Locker Room" talk, we talk about in front of women. Women tend to talk about it, and in more detail in the privacy of their friends. But all of this are generalizations, so please girls don't write me and tell me how you don't fit into that description. But then moved to NYC, got into the gay club scene. because I only have gay friends for the most part, when you're a straight musical theater dancer, not much choice, but I am much more compatible with their way of socializing, again this will all go in my book. How one can be so comfortable with it. It didn't happen over night. I am not bi-sexual, well wait let me think, yeah if you "buy" me something I'll have sex with you..sure..LOL. I am not bi-curious either, well I like to say I am bi-coastal curious..LOL Place in LA & NY. Either way I am very comfortable breaking stereotypes and and not jus accepting people for who they are but embracing and becoming a part of who they are......................................................... ............................................................ ............................................................ ............................................................ ............................................................ ............................................................ ...................OK ABOUT MY GIRL!!!!!!Her name is Cimi (AKA BONNIE) see my profile name and figure it out. I invite you to find someone with the same name. Should you find someone with the same name and spelling...please email me as we have yet to find her unique name.I have had this profile on MYSPACE for many years...yet this is a first that I have included my "other half". I have been a single man most of my life. I have even been married, to much of peoples disbelief. I have finally included Cimi, because SHE is my "Partner in Crime", (Bonnie & Clyde) my best friend, my lover, my missing piece to an almost complete puzzle. This is a first, where I shall "crow" in this section about a friend of mine who I have known for almost 4 years before we ended our friendship....and began a new. I am a person of non traditional expectations. Cimi is the most understanding, the most amazing human being I have EVER met. If I could say this about her...she makes people feel SAFE...and this trait of hers allows me to be "ME". To not have her in my life...would be a life less enriched. She is my BABY...she is my other half..she has showed me more about love...more about acceptance than any other person I have ever met.(Before reading the following paragraph, please note, this is not an invitation or solicitaion for swingers, neither male or female, we're both straight....however I am secretly trying to change that with her...shh..don't tell..lol)Anyone who approaches me on this site, male or female...please know...that to approach me...is to approach ME AND MY GIRL!!!! We are the coolest people to hang with.(Well we like to think that...lol) You name it....we won't judge. We are a couple of creative potentiality. With that said...please feel free to email me so we can comunicate. If you are a woman searching for a male relationship...please look at "us" as a great couple to hang with. Don't dismiss me because there may be no dating potential. I am sure there are people who would like to meet couples like ourselves. We genuine in who we let into our lives...straight, gay, single or coupled. Hell, Tripled is ok too...LOL Though it seems like the gay guys tend to respond more on here. %Well perhaps it's because:Cimi and I are involved in the NYC night life. Since I come from a Musical Theatre/Dance background...guess who my friends are? Yep...you guessed it.."The Village People"...lol Hense we tend to hang out in the gay night life. Cimi has gathered an amazing group of friends because of her beautiful and sincere presence on the dance floor. Therefore, my gain as well. Typical line when I run into one of 20 different people we know at any night spot. "Hey Sean, What's up? Where's Cimi?" LOL AND now if she could only sing like Barbara, Bette, Cher or Madonna, we'd could have something here.I shall end this section of "I'd Like to Meet" with a quote "I don't want to find someone that I CAN LIVE WITH, I want to find someone I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT." This is MY GIRL......Cimi!!!Psst...Jenna Jameson, if you're reading this, email me ASAP, you are on both of our "Top Five" lists. Refer to Cimi's AKA Bonnie's profile regarding "Top Five" Lists. She's the first picture

My Interests

Working out, roller blading, dancing, bars, clubs, hanging with friends, movies, theater, running on the beach when there is one.

I'd like to meet:

I want to meet all kinds of cool people. I seem to notice that men have mostly females on their friends list, and if you're a woman they have mostly men as friends. So is this a dating site?....LOL Oh and what's up with all the girls that are willing to show a little skin being bi-sexual? It's like if you're a "hot" girl, you're bi-sexual. I mean that's just what I seem to notice on here. WAIT, HOLD ON....I get it now, it makes perfect sense, when hot girls are seen with older, MOSTLY out of shape straight wealthy men, Bi-Sexual means if you "Buy" them something, they'll have sex with you. LOL Don't worry the humor will get better folks. Anyway...I tend to keep only people I know or chat with on my friend's list. So if we start chatting and you seem cool, and not a quack, I'll add you or ask to be added. But you have to reach out. I am full of oxymorons and contradictions which one may acertain about me. But anyone that is cool, and comfortable with themselves and does not take life too seriously, in the sense that, one may get hit by a bus tomorrow, and will it really matter how much money one has in his/her bank account? Point being...I want to meet people...who inspire me, who make me feel something, who may become a life long friend, male or female. Someone, who will take the time to know who they are talking to. There is no such thing as "true" reality, just "perception" of that reality. Care to perceive?....LOL Everyone of the people you see on my "friends" list fall into 3 categories. 1) I actually, physically know them (which is 80%) or 2) I have communicated with them extensively and have had some sort of connection with them via MySpace, or 3)Porn Stars ;) What can I say, I like to pretend. LOL I don't add friends just to add to my number of my friends.THE FOLLOWING PHOTO SLIDE REPRESENTS ONE PARTICULAR DAY A FEW YEARS AGO, WHERE I WOKE UP OUT OF BED ONE MORNING AND FELT PRETTY "RIPPED", SO I DECIDED IT WAS NECESSARY TO DOCUMENT THIS MOMENTOUS OCCASSION SO THAT WHEN I AM OLD AND FAT, I CAN SAY I USED TO NOT BE! LOL HOPEFULLY THIS SUMMER I'LL BE BACK. AT LEAST THE GIRLFRIEND HAS REQUESTED SUCH. SO WE'LL SEE! AND ALL THE PRESSURE FROM THE GAY BOYS IS VERY REAL. THEY RAISE THE BAR!


Music:


Free Cursors
Ok, anything 80's I am ok with, I like house, particularly tribal house. Also enjoy Broadway music. Paul Oakenfold & Digweed, were my first DJ's that I heard in NYC about 4 years ago. But honestly, my FAVORITE DJ, is ABEL. This guy knows how to spin those deep,and dirty beats,called Tribal. He spins at a popular gay party in NYC called Alegria, which happens 6 times a year.

Movies:

Moulin Rouge, X-Men, Matrix, I like independants and I like commercial films. I like ALL movies. But I must admit I have an inclination to such films that star Jenna Jameson, Janine, Tera Patrick and of course any amateur footage I may one day capture between Cimi and I......LOL

Television:

Alias, Lost, History Channel, Discovery Channel, and Court TV!!! Oh and the occassional pay per view PLAYBOY Channel.

Books:

John Grisham, Michael Crichton, Dan Brown

Heroes:

Well in this section I will put people who inspire me rather than heroes per se. There are certain actors that I really enjoy their work, and therefore I aspire to that kind of level. Or perhaps I admire the kind of career they have such as Tom Hanks, Ewan McGregor, Jude Law to name a few.

My Blog

Alegria Black Party 2008

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Posted by Sean on Sat, 26 Apr 2008 06:14:00 PST

MESSAGE ABOUT DATING ACTORS

                                    A Messa...
Posted by Sean on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 02:01:00 PST

BAHAMA CRUISE

PHOTOS FROM OUR CRUISE TO BAHAMAS!!...
Posted by Sean on Sun, 30 Mar 2008 12:00:00 PST

THANK YOU!!!

I WANT TO THANK EACH AND EVERYONE OF MY FRIENDS WHO ATTENDED MY BIRTHDAY PARTY THIS PAST WEEKEND, AND EVEN THOSE WHO COULDN'T MAKE IT. YOU KNOW IT WAS REALLY A GREAT FEELING TO KNOW HOW MANY OF MY FRI...
Posted by Sean on Thu, 07 Feb 2008 12:36:00 PST

ALEGRIA NEW YEARS EVE 2008

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Posted by Sean on Thu, 03 Jan 2008 02:49:00 PST

THANKSGIVING 2007

   Such a wonderful Thanksgiving with all of our friends. Thank you everyone for making our Thanksgiving a special evening. And thank you Cimi for preparing the night before and cooking all day such a...
Posted by Sean on Sun, 25 Nov 2007 11:21:00 PST

ADULT FILMS AND THEIR PLACE AMONG COUPLES!

You known porn is a multi-billion dollar industry. Men make up most of the market.  But clearly such companies as Adam & Eve, and Digital Playground have finally realized that the female mark...
Posted by Sean on Sun, 13 May 2007 06:01:00 PST

TO MY FRIENDS

Ok, what's up with all he GAY clubs and gay dudes trying to add me has their friends? Yeah Yeah...sure I have a lot of gay dudes as my friends. Because I think gay guys, are the most genuine and open ...
Posted by Sean on Sun, 22 Apr 2007 05:14:00 PST

JUNIOR VASQUES CLUB STORY

On Twilo - From New York Magazine, November 6, 2003 From the archives.....thought I'd share it. I'm sure many of you can remember nights like this! I did NOT write this. It is excerpted from an old N...
Posted by Sean on Sun, 04 Feb 2007 03:14:00 PST

Eddie & Justin

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Posted by Sean on Tue, 23 Jan 2007 12:47:00 PST