kissing, meditation, bruises, taking the road less traveled, bubble baths, wicked fierce faggot-y high femmes who are perverts and sweethearts, sharp knives, anticipation and then resolution/satisfaction, snorkeling in tropical water, swimming with big colorful fish, mayan astrology, clamps, clean sheets, night-time picnics, cuban heels, heirloom tomatoes, quantum physics, good whiskey, people who can be vulnerable, being marked, smart music, thought provoking art, documentary film, gender outlaws, butch-femme, ruff housing, fluffy animals, bdsm, dressing up dapper, cooking yummy food, dancing, canada, sweden.
fellow leos & largecat lovers, smarty pants, mommies who also feel like daddies, ones who can scramble my brain & make me forget which end is up, snazzy dressers who dig pink, freaks who can throw as hard as they can catch, like minded creatures who feel music is as vital as breathing, superduper homosexuals, perverts who like to keep their boots on in bed, shape shifters, ultra femmes & uber butches who can be fierce & serious, who can spaz & laugh & who can also hold their own power & fuck hard & intensely, crafty muthafuckas, dancing fools who can shake it down anywhere, ladies who can appreciate having their high heels worshipped, folks who have a fetish for hair products, verbal wizards who can argue a point & site references & make me think of things i've never thought of before, switches into bdsm who identify with/love muppets, fashion aware queers who live for soft textures, the well hung, the bar mitzvahed.
veruca salt, red snapper, moloko, aphrodite, julianna hatfield, esthero, ethyl meatplow, lamb, bill laswell, esquivel, the breeders, tango/flamenco music, si se, the early eurythmics, west side story, whale, alison moyet, bowie, baxter, billy squier, morcheeba, van halen, dj z-trip, portishead, motley crue, the freestylers, peaches, adam and the antz.
fag porn, the cruise, the blue lagoon, the dreamers, l.i.e., grey gardens, the hunger, city of lost children, amadeus, grease, koyaanisqatsi, betty blue, the ice storm, american movie, spirited away, election, happiness, royal tenenbaums, baxter, detroit rock city, gadjo dilo, the day trippers, house of yes, scent of green papaya, microcosmos, waiting for guffman, repo man, pillowbook, fame, city of god, baraka, requiem for a dream.
lost, family guy, antique road show, animal planet, charlie rose, wonder woman, bad news bears and 6 feet under.
the bone people, most of judy blume's books, the alchemist, zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, good porn, written on the body, the lion the witch and the wardrobe, electric koolaid acid test, where the red fern grows, nada brahma, rilke's letter to a poet, a wrinkle in time, anne rice's beauty series, shel silverstein's the giving tree/where the sidewalk ends, one flew over a cuckoos nest, poetry by joy harjo and marge piercy.