this side of the bay / touch / family gatherings / hanging with friends around a kitchen table / story time / pants off dance offs / boyz night out / naked hot tubbing / queer weddings / missing bruiser sidelines / oyster shuckin' / early evening walks in my hood / getting back on my skateboard (slowly) / gmail chat / nicknamein' my peeps / dress up dates / butch dinners with alisha / using my hands to understand the world around me / bruises and scars are sexy and worth exploring / ink in skin / car dancing / game nights / spreadsheets / text messaging / chips and salsa / red hankies / whiskey / bed picnics / voyeurism / gender bending / watches / feeding a lover / crossword puzzles / food 'n wine / queers / using the superlative / mean decaf / textural experiences / pillow talk / the three t's / reading books and an occasional trashy pop culture magazine / crushes / planning and TAKING vacations / holding hands in the dark / making out in public / dancing on tables / women's gymnastics fan
I'd like to meet:
my dad on myspace.
laughers. texters. storytellers. dance partners. cooks. whiskey drinkers. good-time havers. queer portagees. if you like to dork it out, i probably want to know you. oh, and old friends . . .
Music:
dope ass rhymes / old school / lionel / any mix by dj sysko / mixes people make me / k. clarkson (nothing like a pack of queers mosh-pit-rockin' to her music but not being able to admit they like it) / be good tanyas / heather combs / shawn colvin / patty griffin / lucinda williams / catie curtis/ missy elliott/ dre / em/ dolly / kenny / international hip hop / 1979 billboard hits (pina coladas anyone?) / edaj or olga t on the turntables
Movies:
scent uva butch / cruel intentions / stick it / loving annabelle / requiem for a dream / pillow book / so i married an axe murderer / the secretary / whale rider / girl hood (documentary) / pizza boy delivers / malibu's most wanted / can't hardly wait / bring it on
Television:
heroes / buffy / six feet under / alias / west wing / lost / teen tv: dawson's creek / everwood / one tree hill / felicity / my so called life / punky brewster (she made wearing hankies cool) /silver spoons (i still want his race car bed).
Books:
nancy drew / eat. pray. love / fifth sacred thing / choose your own adventure series / the leather daddy and the femme / prep / recollections of my life as a woman / coffee will make you black / push / the red tent / middlesex / dress your family in corduroy and denim / the secret life of bees / she's come undone / my sister's keeper / ranma 1/2 series / anything by judy blume / trash & skin (anything by d. allison) / persistent desire - femme/butch reader (anything by joan nestle) / written on the body
Heroes:
scott hanelt.
punky brewster. my dad. yer mom. folks that wear their heart on their sleeve.
.."whitetext12"
MY DETAILS
Status:
having heart surgery
Here for:
all present moments
Orientation:
toward feeling whenever possible
Hometown:
lesbo from sacto
Body Type:
one wit da junk in da trunk
Ethnicity:
portagee
Religion:
still losing mine
Sign:
one fish, two fish
Smoke / Drink:
i hate smoke and mirrors
Children:
no regrets
Education:
got me some of dat
Occupation:
lately, mind-mugger
Income:
comes in, goes out
