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LADY J

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About Me


I am a Mestiza (Asian/White). I was born, raised & reside in Jersey City, NJ to a Filipino father and Irish mother. I work in television and film production in New York City. I have my flaws that I acknowledge and always work on but I believe my virtues are real and true. I know who I am, both good and bad, and I own it. I love to laugh but find that I'm happiest when I can make someone else laugh. That's when I feel most good about myself. I've got an overwhelming soft spot for animals that has led me to owning three dogs who really own me. I was brought up to be a lady and have my definitive girly ways, but I'm from Jersey City and can curse like a truck driver and hang with the boys. A true smart ass!
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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Jennifer Ann Dee
Birthday: January 22, 1974
Birthplace: Jersey City, NJ
Current Location: Jersey City, NJ
Eye Color: Light Brown
Hair Color: Dark brown/Black
Height: 5'1"
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right Handed
Your Heritage: Filipino & Irish
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black, High-heeled boots
Your Weakness: Tall men and men with glasses
Your Fears: Men with bent c**** and Pap smears
Your Perfect Pizza: Plain with thin, crispy crust
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Save enough money to complete my gender reassignment surgery
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: Shit! How much longer can I sleep and still have enough time to make myself look decent for work?
Your Best Physical Feature: I don't friggin know! If you like tall, skinny blonds then you would say that I don't have a best physical feature.
Your Bedtime: Whenever the Tylenol PM kicks in
Your Most Missed Memory: It's X-rated
Pepsi or Coke: Diet Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds
Single or Group Dates: Don't care - as long as their good
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Don't drink iced tea enough to care
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Both
Do you Smoke: People tell me I'm smokin all the time
Do you Swear: Stupid fucking question to ask someone born and raised in Jersey City!
Do you Sing: No
Do you Shower Daily: Yes but I prefer to do so with company
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: Nope. Been there. Done that. All I learned was my social security number.
Do you want to get Married: Yes
Do you belive in yourself: Well, it's not like I'm going to put all my stock in someone else, now am I?
Do you get Motion Sickness: Yes
Do you think you are Attractive: Everyone has something that is attractive to someone else. I even fancy midgets.
Are you a Health Freak: No
Do you get along with your Parents: When they behave
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes- especially when I'm cuddling in bed with someone
Do you play an Instrument: No
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: More like guzzled
In the past month have you Smoked: Yes
In the past month have you been on :
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: No
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes
In the past month have you been on Stage: No. I had a pole installed in my room instead.
In the past month have you been Dumped: No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Only in shallow water
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: Just hearts but I always feel guilty and give them back.
Ever been Drunk: At least once a week
Ever been called a Tease: At least once a week
Ever been Beaten up: No. I hit back.
Ever Shoplifted: Yes
How do you want to Die: Wearing nice underwear
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: A real, anatomically correct woman
What country would you most like to Visit: U.K.
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Don't care
Favourite Hair Color: Don't care
Short or Long Hair: Short
Height: The taller, the better! I want my own personal jungle gym!
Weight: Not fat
Best Clothing Style: If he's any good, he won't be wearing them for that long.
Number of I have taken:
Number of CDs I own: Don't know
Number of Piercings: 2, ears and belly button
Number of Tattoos: 2
Number of things in my Past I Regret: That's a waste of time.
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I'd like to meet:



I would love to meet a man who I'm physically & emotionally passionate about. Someone who makes me want to jump up into his arms and wrap myself around him everytime I see him and who I could spend hours just kissing. He has to make me laugh and I would do the same for him. I want him to bring out the best in me and make me want to be a better person. I want him to be my best friend, my lover and my family. Something telling about me: I can tell you that I love when a man opens and holds doors for me but I don't expect it or think it's my right. To me, it's the sweetest gesture and a silent compliment that I appreciate greatly. It never fails to make me blush. Above all, I want someone strong enough to take care of me but sensitive enough to let me take care of him.

Music:

DEPECHE MODE (ABSOLUTE FAVORITE), OMD, Snow Patrol, Hinder, Pet Shop Boys, Fergie, Psychadelic Furs, Flesh for Lulu, Jesus & Mary Chain, James Blunt, New Order, Abba, Oasis, Tonic, Live, The Replacements, Classical, Film Soundtracks, Erasure, No Doubt, Kelly Clarkson, Oldies, Too much to name.......Anything except country and metal really

Movies:

Zefferelli's Romeo & Juliet, Shall We Dance? (original), The Last American Virgin, Secretary, Office Space, Farewell My Concubine, 9 1/2 Weeks, Bridget Jones' Diary, Notting Hill, Boondock Saints, Pride and Prejudice, Love Actually, She's Having a Baby, Some Kind of Wonderful, Pretty in Pink, Sixteen Candles, East is East, Bend it like Beckham, An Affair of Love, Sense and Sensibility, The Wedding Banquet, Eat Drink Man Woman, Chunking Express, In The Mood for Love, Hero, Monster In Law, The Weddling Planner, Wet Hot American Summer, Angels In America, Muriel's Wedding, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Moulin Rouge, Love Me If You Dare, St. Elmo's Fire, About Last Night, Say Anything, Fast Times At Ridgemont High, What Dreams May Come, Shawshank Redemption, Star Wars Trilogy, The 40-Year Old Virgin, Amelie, All About My Mother, Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down, A Beautiful Mind, The Wedding Date, Home for the Holidays, Dot the I, The Notebook, Venus ......

Television:

Absolutely Fabulous, Father Ted, Fawlty Towers, The Office (UK!), Extras, Little Britain, Green Wing, Cold Case, House, Law & Order: SVU, Documentaries, The L Word, Some Reality TV (hanging head in shame right now) like America's Next Top Model, Coupling, Biography, Most Haunted, My Name is Earl, Everybody Loves Raymond, The Dave Chappelle Show, Da Ali G Show, Grey's Anatomy...

Books:



Gelsey Kirkland's Dancing on My Grave, She's Come Undone, Flowers In the Attic, Biography of Vivien Leigh and Marlon Brando, Patricia Cornwell novels, Nothing But Trouble, Good In Bed, Jemima J, Falling Leaves, Anna Karenina, Catcher in the Rye, Jane Eyre, Angels and Demons, Memoirs of a Geisha, The Lovely Bones, The Joy Luck Club, One Last Time, Adventures of a Psychic, Da Vinci Code....

Heroes:

Those who have loved and lost and get up to love again. Those who forgive. Those who have empathy for others. Those strangers you meet briefly everyday who give you a smile as you walk past, hold the door, say god bless you when you sneeze or give you their seat on the train. The little things that show even the smallest kindness. Lovers who realize that love and relationships aren't 50/50. That's bullshit. Some days it's 60/40, other's it's 80/20. 50/50 implies perfection every second of every day, which even the best of us lack. If you love someone, somedays you'll have to be the stronger person & do more of the work. Other times when you're falling apart, they need to pick you up- There isn't any keeping score. Those who love someone beyond themselves (Edwina Dee) and sacrifice for that love. Mothers who raise wonderful men and bare the pain of letting them go. Men who are good to their mothers. Men who believe in chivalry and the women who are grateful for them. The wonderful boys, who are now men, who have been my only real true friends through the years (Keith, Gus, Santos, Eddie, Ken C, Alvin), even though we might only write, call or see each other once every few years. You've never left my heart or my thoughts. I have many regrets in my life but one of my biggest is honestly not keeping you all closer to me. Each and everyone of you has treated me like a lady and has cared for me throughout the years. The fact that some of you have gone out of your way to find me here makes me happier than you can imagine. I'm so happy to know you remember me fondly. You are the ones who truly know me, both good and bad, and love me anyway. You forever own the best parts of me. You've made them.

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To My Keith...

According to Heaven we already are. You always find me. Don't you Keith? ...
Posted by LADY J on Tue, 16 Oct 2007 08:25:00 PST

Were Titas again!

[IMG]http://i55.photobucket.com/albums/g158/geisha101/m_b782 3960b94bd5fda2b1ddc7f2f7803e.jpg[/IMG] Well my crazy beautiful cousins, we are blessed to have another women in our midst making us Tita's a...
Posted by LADY J on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 01:56:00 PST

I'm so happy because I'm so lucky to have the epitomy of real men in my life!

I'm just feeling so happy and loved. There are very few real men in the world but I really think God blessed me and gave them all to me! I'm sooo happy that I can't hide my dimples!Today one wrote:Jen...
Posted by LADY J on Thu, 01 Mar 2007 05:48:00 PST

A man who gives me hope for men. All men could only aspire to one day be like him.

My Dearest Keith,You son of a bitch! You made me cry and my heart ache. God, how I love and miss you dearly. We've known and loved each other for so many years and you're still so much a part of my he...
Posted by LADY J on Tue, 20 Feb 2007 04:48:00 PST

The Bachelor

Ok, I'm watching THE BACHELOR and it's made me ashamed to be a woman! Keith, forgive me for lowering my viewing standards to such nonsense. I take pride in both of us knowing that I have never nor wil...
Posted by LADY J on Tue, 14 Nov 2006 06:41:00 PST

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Posted by LADY J on Wed, 25 Oct 2006 10:25:00 PST

SOMEONE MADE ME SMILE TODAY

The kindness of strangers still surprises me. Someone on MySpace sent me this message the other day and his sweet words made me smile. For that I'm grateful.       &...
Posted by LADY J on Tue, 22 Aug 2006 10:33:00 PST

YOU KNOW YOU'RE A FILIPINO IF....

YOU'RE A FILIPINO IF...Family MattersYou're related to everyone.Your middle name is your mother's maiden name.Your parents call each other "Mommy" and "Daddy."You have uncles and aunts named Boy, Girl...
Posted by LADY J on Sat, 29 Jul 2006 03:17:00 PST

It's the little things.....

I take the PATH from New York to New Jersey and back again every weekday and I see the most extraordinary miracles duringmy travels. Little kindnesses that prove that there's still a heartbeat under a...
Posted by LADY J on Fri, 21 Apr 2006 07:34:00 PST

"You Wanted More"

Artist: TonicAlbum: SugarTitle: You Wanted More Love is tragicLove is boldYou will alwaysDo what you are toldLove is hardLove is strongYou will never say that you were wrongI don't know when i got bi...
Posted by LADY J on Thu, 06 Apr 2006 12:51:00 PST