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Il faut des rites

I prefer casual to causal

About Me

An old friend called me from Spain and told me he thinks I remind him of Holly Golighty -- the real one (from the book) not Hepburn's stunning portrayal -- though still, quite a complement. He's reading "Breakfast at Tiffany's" for fun -- I haven't read it but I'm certainly curious now. He's not wrong, you know. My last party looked liked the cocktail scene out of the movie. And while I know I've evolved past being an upper-class prostitute, there probably is still a little bit of Lila Mae left over. However, I can be a bit quirkier than Golightly. I usually make people laugh & I'm a total ham.I am passionate about art. "THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS TOTAL COMMITMENT!" -- Samuel Beckett

My Interests

Il faut des rites ..Fare Baccano (trans. being like baccus, painting the town), Being Ruthlessly Myself, Insanity, Innovation, Theatre & Film, Forward Thinking ART ART ART, Modernism, The Avant Garde, Surrealism, Dada, Human Rights, Foreign Lands, Audacity, Absurdism (hence le nom), Cafes, Salons, Paris, Rome, Firenze, Barcelona, Cinque Terre, Latin America, Trastevere, Wine, Sex, Cabarets, Torch Singers, Acrobats, Camels

I'd like to meet:

Leonard Cohen. People who share my aesthetic: think Petra Von Kant and Helmut Newton. People who don't share my aesthetic, but like beautiful and meaningful things. Modernists. Post Modernists. Gastronomists. Critical Thinkers. Warren Beatty (20 years ago). Members of the avant-garde. Artsy Fartsy people. Keen observers. A partner in crime. Intelligent and communicative human beings. Emotionally aware people with some humility, kindness, and a flair for living. I believe all is fair game in art and humor, do you?

Music:

Bach (Goldberg Variations and Air on the G String), Mozart, Puccini, Grace Jones, Roxy Music, Jon Brion, Thelonius Monk, Johnny cash, Oscar Petersen, mmmmm Django Reinhardt is sweet sweet sweet, Stephane Grapelli, Serge Gainsbourg, Leonard Cohen -- the ultimate modern day bard, ludwig Van, opera, caruso, Arvo Paart (watch "menilmontant" (early silent film) with Arvo Paart -- it's simply divine), Astor Piazzolla, Carlos Gardel, Jason Collett, Daniel Johnston, Herbie Hancock, Marcos Morinigo, Honey Brothers, Dina Washington, The Platters, Otis Redding, and perhaps you.

Movies:

Modernist Cinema and the Time Image (see Deleuze for reference), "Pandora's Box", anything Fellini ("Nights of Cabiria" and "Toby Dammit"), Passolini, Silents, Degenerate Art, French New Wave ("The Umbrellas of Cherbourg", "The Soft Skin", "Alphaville", "Band A Part", "Jules et Jim", "Breathless"), Almodovar, Antonioni ("The Passenger," "Blow-Up"), Louis Malle ("Murmur of the Heart," "Elevator to the Gallows" -- fabulous soundtrack, too), "Fassbinder, anything with Hanna Schygulla (as an actor I look to her for my prototype -- I particularly love the Marriage of Maria Braun which I think is Fassbinder's masterwork, Maria Renee Falconetti gives a STUNNING and unexpected performance in Carl Dreyer's "The Passion of Joan of Arc."

Television:

Telemundo, Daily Show, Ali G, Entourage

Books:

Want to start reading "Ulysses," "A Confederacy of Dunces" by John Kennedy Toole as both an affirmation and critique of the eccentric, Shakespeare (particularly Hamlet and Twelfth Night), Being and Nothingness by Sartre, The Birth of Tragedy by Nietzche (as a counter to Socrates), The Poetics by Aristotle, Boleslavsky's book on Acting, Larry Silverberg's Meisner Books, Marx for his commitment to humanity, Chekhov (particularly the Seagull), Tenessee Williams, currently reading the Bohemian Manifesto (quite amusing and enjoyable) and The Mystery of Olga Chekhova (whom I am making a film about-- Hitler's favorite actress and stalin's favorite spy and Anton Chekhov's niece), Ah! the Symposium by Plato -- I particularly love Artistophanes rendition of love -- it is quite beautiful, Baudelaire is luscious, Pablo Neruda, Nabokov's Invitation to a Beaheading (I simply love the man's writing style, one of the few books he first wrote in Russian, it goes perfectly with cafes and lingering hours), I have a large collection of literature in Spanish -- I am fond of Garcia Marques, Reynaldo Arenas, Miguel de Unamunos, and Jorge Luis Borges. Just acquired a giant collection of Cervantes works. I have all of Don Quijote in Spanish, and it's terribly overwhelming and exciting. . . I think I'll have to work up to that.

Heroes:

Cindy Sherman, Hanna Schygulla, Lenny Bruce, Anton Chekhov, Shakespeare, Nietzsche, Sartre, Dali!, Baudelaire ____________________________________________________________ _______________Windows by Charles Baudelaire__________________________________________________ _________________________ Looking from outside into an open window one never sees as much as when one looks through a closed window. There is nothing more profound, more mysterious, more pregnant, more insidious, more dazzling than a window lighted by a single candle. What one can see out in the sunlight is always less interesting than what goes on behind a windowpane. In that black or luminous square life lives, life dreams, life suffers. ____________________________________________________________ _______________Across the ocean of roofs I can see a middle-aged woman, her face already lined, who is forever bending over something and who never goes out. Out of her face, her dress, and her gestures, our of practically nothing at all, I have made up this woman's story, or rather legend, and sometimes I tell it to myself and weep. ____________________________________________________________ _______________If it had been and old man I could have made up his just as well. ____________________________________________________________ _______________And I go to bed proud to have lived and to have suffered in some one besides myself. ____________________________________________________________ _______________Perhaps you will say "Are you sure that your story is the really one?" But what does it matter what reality is outside myself, so long as it has helped me to live, to feel that I am, and what I am?.. .. ..

My Blog

FYI -- I never update this profile

all info is circa 2003 -- guess what, I'd probably present myself differently now, but I do still have the same artistic influences. Also myspace is kinda annoying so I'm not on here all that often. ...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 02:58:00 PST

We're Trekking the Andes!!!! (and sipping some mate)

So, James and I will be in . . . Buenos Airesapril 27 - May 3 and the Chilean Andes & then Wine CountryMay 4th - May 8th and back to . . . Buenos AiresMay 9th to 15th and back in the States on the...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Fri, 27 Apr 2007 06:31:00 PST

JAMES & KEATON IN NY!!! March 1-3

Yay!!! We're going to NY. If you want to catch up send me a message. CIAO!!!
Posted by Il faut des rites on Sat, 24 Feb 2007 01:51:00 PST

You will be deeply missed

Merilene was one of my favorite people to see at work.  Worked down the hall from me for another firm.  Beautiful personality, the kind that takes any drab work day and says "let's make lemo...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Tue, 06 Feb 2007 05:38:00 PST

Ugh -- Life harsher in new Guantanamo unit

Life harsher in new Guantanamo unit .. END HEADLINE --> .. BEGIN STORY BODY --> By BEN FOX, Associated Press Writer 1 hour, 19 minutes ago GUANTANAMO BAY NAVAL BASE, Cuba - Abdul Helil Mamut's goo...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Sat, 03 Feb 2007 02:49:00 PST

Pundits' Cultural Learnings Forget! I Say "Borat" Won Congress Last Tuesday!

by Tony HendraIn all the analysis of how and why the Dems did so well last week, no-one seems to have given Sacha Baron Cohen the credit he so richly deserves.Consider: the entirely brilliant Cohen ca...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Tue, 14 Nov 2006 11:28:00 PST

"There Should be a Name for It" by, Matthew Klam

Lynn's roasting a chicken. She takes out garlic, chili powder, and a dime. "What's that for?" I say. "There are pine nuts above your head," she says. I hand them down to her. Now she butters the pan. ...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Sat, 11 Nov 2006 12:34:00 PST

Not from Dogwalker . . . but more Arthur Bradford

The Orderly by Arthur Bradford April 26, 2006 It was an irresponsible thing to do. I even knew it at the time, but still I went ahead. I was working as an orderly at The State Hospital, which wasn't ...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Fri, 10 Nov 2006 01:32:00 PST

I fucking LOVE Hugh Laurie

He totally cracks me up!!  I love it!
Posted by Il faut des rites on Fri, 10 Nov 2006 01:11:00 PST

Dogwalker Stories by Arthur Bradford

Okay I love this book so much (see below), that I've decided to post some of its stories on my blog. They're an amazingly sensitive and quirky blend of Americana.For one story (read by Bradford hims...
Posted by Il faut des rites on Thu, 09 Nov 2006 11:51:00 PST