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It all began 6/11/1976. To say the least I've gone thru many trials and tribulations over the years , but GOD saw fit that those things that which the devil used to try to take me out only helped me develop into the woman I have become. Now dont get it twisted I am far where I want to be or where I think I should be but Im also a longggg way from I use to be. But its all good cuz it's all God.............................To Handle Haters-A hater is someone that is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters... That's why you have to be careful who you share your blessings and your dreams with because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else He would have given you what he gave them. You don't know what people have gone through to get what they have...(The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...) If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assure that the water bill is higher there too.We've all got some haters among us: They can be Family, Friends, Co -Workers, Neighbors and even sista and brotha' so n so from the church.Some people don't like it that you can* Come to church* Get your praise on* Shout in the aisle* Dance in the pew* Enter His gates with praise* Bless His Holy Name* Haters don't want to see you happy* Haters don't want to see you succeed* Haters don't want you get the victory Most of our haters are people that are suppose to be on our side. How do you handle the haters who you at least expect to have your guard up against? You can handle your haters by:1.Knowing who you are and whose you are2.Having a purpose3.By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation. Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.You will always be trying to get stuff because the more stuff you have will improve what others think about you, but what others think will last as long as the stuff last.Favor can get you the following things.* Car you dream about* Job you applied for as a joke* House you did not deserveWhen God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, "Don't look at me...Look at who is in charge of me...Instead of hating on me, you need to understand that what I have, I did not earn it... I can not afford it... I don't have the education for it...Remember, it ain't about you, but it's all about God. girls layout @ HOT FreeLayouts.com MyHotComments
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Fortunately I aint star struck no celebrity comes to mind. I believe I have already met a lot of the people who have had or continue to make an indelible mark on my life. I look forward to meeting those who I can learn from and help me continue to develop in this thing called life .I truly believe people come into to your life for various reasons.Some are only sent for a season and others are there forever. I love and appreciate everyone who has ever been a part of my world, whether short term or we ride or die. There have been a few folks who said we would raise our kids together and grow old together, yeah, yeah yeah , U LIED =0) BUT I still got mad love for you and wish u all the best life has to offer. God has already sent me the man who I will spend the rest of my life with.WHY did everybody see it but us ??? LOL Lamar I still can't believe we are here and what we are destined for. I crack up every day thinking about the journey thus far, u definately are an answer to prayer and the BEST thing to ever happen to me. Mary wrote us a song u know how it goes"TOO STRONG for too long and I can't be without you baby" =0) U know how we do it. Ya girl loves you !!!! I got folks who have had my back for years and they aint going nowhere even if they wanted to. DAVETTA has been my hero.I could go on for days about her strength and how her fight has helped me move past my own issues. I have learned so much about life and forgiveness just from watching her, we call each other sisters because our relationship is that damm tight. We have a low maintenance friendship ...this means we may not talk for days or weeks but when we see each other we always have love for each other and aint no stupid sh&&#; jumpin offf..we aint NEVVA had no drama and this girl would KUTT a biotchh over me and vice versa.. AMBER we have been thru way to much together we go back to the 7th grade @ Bret Harte Jr High when she beat up R@#$%^ B@#$% in math class...lol. She is one of the craziest people I know but she has also blessed me tremendously.Her kindnes and willingness to give of herself is amazing , she iz stuck with me for life . CRYSTAL ....At one time I aint even like her, we joke about that often, its a trip how our relationship has evolved from me not wanting to be around her to her becoming an intricate part of my life and my helping me develop into a true woman of God. STACEE I aint like her either initially, but she is so sweet and kind and always has encouraging words for a sista she will laugh cry and rejoice all at once .RONDA moved all the way to Texas. This woman use to me my boss, we have maintained a friendship over the years and she has blessed me beyond measure just by being herself,TRUE WOMAN of God . My sister TONI is a lil older than me say umm about 13/14 years older ..lol...so she often thinks she is my momma but I would not have it any other way , she is an excellent mother, wife and business woman and the BEST SISTER I could ever have. EYDIE danng girl we go back like 25 years, our birthdays are 2 days apart and we aint never had no issues ...I've watched you go from a lil girl who would not talk to nobody to a beautiful mother and wife, U be puttin it DOWN..Love ya girl. NICOLE I dont even know where to start with you , u were my #1 Lamar advocate your words of "Leave that mutha phucka sh&@^ alone(He aint the one) and get with Lamar.(Hes the one) He is a TRUE man of God and he aint got no kids and yeah he's young but yall got a friendship and I see the way he makes you smile" I am so glad I took your advice. This girl be handling her biznesss LOVE HER!!! There are lots of other folks in my life who speak volume. Gigi,Audra, Erica,BJ,Nikisha, The Couples (They know who they are)My Pastors, a few others @ KLCH and of course T.O.P Ms.Sabrina loves u guys.Now stop talking during rehearsal and hit them NOTES =0) The list continues but I'd be here for DAYS ..

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Don't Settle for Second Best

Don't Settle For Second BestPastor Mark StephensDON'T SETTLE FOR SECOND BEST Why do God's people settle for second best? One reason is that they believe they must compromise because of sins they have ...
Posted by SABRINA on Thu, 29 Mar 2007 07:12:00 PST

FRIENDS..

It's been a minute since I've actually taken the time to actually put my thoughts into words and even longer since I've chosen to write about them. The topic at hands is friends. Whodini asked a quest...
Posted by SABRINA on Sun, 18 Mar 2007 10:14:00 PST

24 THINGS A SISTA' SHOULD NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR

 24 THINGS A SISTA SHOULD NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR   1. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do...
Posted by SABRINA on Tue, 28 Nov 2006 12:09:00 PST

26 QUESTIONS SINGLE PEOPLE SHOULD ASK !!!

UPWARD1. Am I growing in my love for God? (Matthew 22:37)2. Am I Clear about my purpose? (Matthew 6:33)INWARD3. Why do I want to be married? (Genesis 2:18, Proverbs 18:22)4. What am I expecting to ge...
Posted by SABRINA on Thu, 05 Oct 2006 11:51:00 PST

CHANGE

"Change is the order of the day. My plan for you involves continuing change.There is always more to be changed, always new things to begin; and thereare always old things to lay aside. All you need do...
Posted by SABRINA on Tue, 08 Aug 2006 02:43:00 PST

A GOOD WOMAN

A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She...
Posted by SABRINA on Tue, 08 Aug 2006 11:20:00 PST

THE CONCERT

The Concert When the house lights dimmed and the concert was about to begin, the mother returned to her seat and discovered that the child was&...
Posted by SABRINA on Thu, 03 Aug 2006 03:13:00 PST

What Are U Waiting For???

What are you waiting for? You've got books on the shelf to read, Words of kindness and apologies to be said, Clothes in the closet still not worn, Dreams on hold- waiting to be born, Phone calls t...
Posted by SABRINA on Wed, 02 Aug 2006 12:52:00 PST