Self employed, outgoing, fun guy ... looking to connect with others who share similar interests in D/s and vanilla life. Note: though this profile incorporates various aspects of my BDSM lifestyle I am quite the normal and vanilla guy you would meet on any average street...well maybe Bourbon Street! :-)
Hello Ladies! More than any thing I love and adore women and it gives me no greater pleasure than to pamper the woman in my life - Foot massages, back rubs and body massages are my specialty. I consider myself to be the consummate gentleman with a charming and humorous spirit. Loyal and dedicated to the loved ones in my life - from my family to my loved ones. Also, I would consider myself a member of the "Perverati" and in a healthy manner indulge in my kinks and help others enjoy theirs.
I am active in the local Indianapolis scene...it's small but it's here. So I have a number of friends Doms, subs, and Pro-Mistress in my little circle of friends. I also have a nice little circle of vanilla friends as well...I like introducing them a little at a time.
I am a submissive, a masochist and sadist, an explorer and lover. I like boots, black leather, tattoos, piercings and an amazing smile. I am a
successful small business owner, a scuba diver, a sissy maid and mostly submissive sometimes
a top (I do have a sadist side to me). I love and adore women and enjoy making sure she is happy, content and fulfilled.
My kinks run broad and deep and are usually always open for discussion. I like to find the edges and run along the edge. Though like most hard limits do exist - eliminating the most extreme and esoteric forms of play.
Since learning about D/s about 5 years ago I have spent much time in self-examination and actualization that has lead me to this quest.
Though many Doms have mastered the physical aspects of play, which I love, there are few who have conquered the mental planes which D/s draws it's deepest pleasures.
I am a mental masochist and relish the Domme that can get inside and play in
that special headspace.
I am always open to new friends and potential play partners - either as a top or bottom. Though my quest is to find a woman who is
Dominant or switch - with leanings toward Dom.
for fun:
Live music ... my heart often drifts back to New Orleans, live blues, jazz, cajun and zydeco, rock and roll, edgy rock, hard rock, alternative.... I like to ride my mountain bike, play pool, throw a frisbee, head to Cozumel and go scuba diving. Hiking, walking, biking, fishing, camping.
favorite hot spots:
The Caribbean and Mexico and my favorite haunts. I am a big diver. Also, I love to visit The Rocky Mountains and go skiing. Future trips?: WindJammer sailing trip, skiing in Colorado, New Orleans, Europe.
favorite things:
Throwing a frisbee. Favorite new TV show is Carnivale on HBO... but I am not a super big TV person. I love New Orleans style cooking and food - crawfish and oysters anyone?
current book:
I am currently re-reading The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand. (If you enjoy Ayn Rand's books - Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged we probably have much in common.)
sense of humor: Clever: Nothing’s better than a quick-witted comeback, Dry / Sarcastic: I'm not bitter because I'm single. Quite the opposite, Friendly: I’ll laugh at anything
You can read more about my chastity fetish on my site: http://www.chastitylifestyle.com