Who am I...well...that's just a tad complicated.. a little dark...a little dangerous ..cerebral .. ferociously opinionated .. in touch with my emotional being .. passionate .. generally not the kinda girl too many of you would want to take home to mother.
My favorite dinner conversation topics are sex politics and religion .. I give conservatives heart failure ... and I revel in their suffering and feel no guilt whatsoever
I have intensely bizarre fantasies about what I would do to George Bush, Donald Rumsfeld et al if I ever got them into My Dungeon. There would be no safewords
People who know me well say I am best described as the very antithesis of normal. That's cool, I've never aspired to mediocrity and those near and dear to me seem to appreciate my twisted sensibility. I have chosen to live my life outside of the mainstream. That said, I don't exist within any sub culture and have friends from all walks of life ... even a few moderate conservatives who enjoy inviting me to dinner to give their friends indigestion
I am bisexual - transsexual - and practice polyamory within the context of a long term committed primary relationship with a truly amazing man.
I have been interested in the BDSM/fetish paradigm since my mid teens and generate part of my income as a Professional Dominatrix.
When I am not suspending virtual strangers from the ceiling of my Dungeon, my other interests include music politics philosophy and a whole lot more besides. I read voraciously ..mostly non fiction.. reading does not give you cancer .. everyone needs to do more of it
Career wise, I started out in the music industry playing then running my own Band Management business before a segue into marketing/advertising consultancy for a while. Nowadays I prefer deriving my income from purely creative projects and am lucky enough to be able to do so most of the time
I write music, lyrics, poetry and political/social commentary and occasionally sick twisted satire