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About Me


"Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is a beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is life, fight for it!" - Mother Teresa
My friends and family are important to me. When I love someone nothing else matters if they need me. I will always find a way to make time for them. I have the expectation that it is reciprocated. I don't ask for much other than that.
I'm a lover not a fighter, idealist, liberal, democrat, artist. I like chics. I like guys. I refer to people I find attractive as either hot or cute whichever comes spewing out my mouth, ...sometimes outgoing and outspoken and other times shy... playful and graceful yet clutzy... I frequently write and I can't seem to ever stop thinking. Its pretty normal for me to be writing about life's trials and tribulations at 3am (and be up with the chickens the next morning!) I may have missed my calling as a philosopher? I question everything. I analyze everything, even myself. I'm like a curious overgrown three year old...Some say I'm charming and fun - I'm going with that comment.
One day I'll change the world or at least make it a better place to live .....I'm passionate about life and living it to the fullest. I don't want to look back and say damn it I should've done this or that. I want to milk this crazy adventure called life for all I can... anyone want to join me?!
Also, you should check out my artsy/crazy friends and I in our podcast: the cocktail club If your a local band we just might play you, if you ask nicely.

My Interests

"I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing..." - Anais Nin

hanging out with friends either drinking coffee or just plain drinking; bitching about politics and current events; pop culture; unpopular culture; gender studies; art; loud music; soft music; dancing music; yoga; pilates, meditation; literature; poetry; erotica; dancing like I just don't care; computer stuff; vintage clothes; vintage pin-ups; kitty cats;...ect, ect

I'd like to meet:

people who have something to say & can hold their own in an intelligent conversation as much as a goofy/weird one, similar interests are always nice, people who are NOT afraid to be themselves, people that can laugh when they make an ass of themselves or at/with me when I do (it will happen I promise)
By the way, If your profile is set to private you had better send me an email telling me about yourself, you get to read all this, I want to know about you, its only fair.

One of these days, I'd like to meet a passionate, witty, playful, romantic woman for snuggling, drinking coffee, skinny dipping, dancing, listening to punk and/or folk, who will eventually runaway to Canada to live happily ever after with...if she is single and looking, send her my way, because I most certainly am!
namaste.

Music:

Reason to Fight; Heather Rose(solo & with the Drama);Throwing Muses; 50 Foot Wave; Kristin Hersh; Tanya Donelly; Belly; Lakuna; Heart; Sonic Youth; REM; Björk; Sugarcubes; KUKL; Sinead O'Connor; The Breeders;The Amps; The Pixies;The Smiths; Morrissey; Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs; The Beastie Boys; Dresden Dolls; Bright Eyes; Bob Marley, Lila Downs; Feist; Bat for Lashes; Nouvelle Vague; Andrew Bird; The Squirrel Nut Zippers, the list goes on and on

Movies:

Stigmata, Dracula, Ghost World, American Beauty, Charlie's Angels, Frida, Henry and June, Evita, Pretty in Pink, but I'm a Cheerleader, Hairspray, Chicago, Dream a little Dream, the Corspe Bride; Ed Wood; Edward Scissorhands; Charlie and the Chocolate Factory; Velvet Goldmine; the Breakfast Club; RENT; Sleepy Hollow; Sixteen Candles;L'auberge Espagnole... ect, ect

Television:

don't watch much tv though L-Word, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Family Guy, Charmed and the History Channel all amuse me.

Books:

Anais Nin, Susie Bright; Henry Miller; Jack Kerouac; e.e. cummings; Ntzoke Shange; Stan Rice; Ginsberg; Anne Sexton; d.a. levy; Melissa P.; Shakespear; erotica;Lengths and Breaths by Lee Ranaldo; Cunt by Inga Musio; Jane Sexes it Up edited by Merri Lisa Johnson;Innocents by Cathy Coote; The May Queen edited by Andrea N. Richesin; Opheliaby Lisa Klein Surrender: An Erotic Memoir by Toni Bentley; Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in girls by Rachel Simmons; The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenger

Heroes:

I admire people who aren't afraid to be themselves and stand up for what they believe in. I admire people who chose love and understanding over ignorance & bigotry.

My Blog

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Poetry by moi (that I've failed to share with myspace)July 30th, 2008 (12:30 pm)12amSing all the songs you wish, they're trapped in a beautiful evening in May.Dark Roads. 80's love songs. your perfume...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Wed, 17 Sep 2008 05:53:00 PST

questioning everything.

We talked about the existence of God last night. Marc said something about God and I asked, "how do you know he even exists?" I forget what he said to that. But I said if there was one, or any sort of...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Mon, 15 Sep 2008 08:47:00 PST

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*sore* there seems to be nothing i can scream in beauty from the rooftops (that i wish i would've prior.) i may as well screw off and die. i may as well think of the 'what if's' that hindsight forgets...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Wed, 03 Sep 2008 02:36:00 PST

Make art of love.

Love. Its something I've sought since I knew what 'love' meant. However, it doesn't seem to mean anyone wants to love me as I can write, paint, lust, fingerblast all I want. Pop asked me to do art abo...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Tue, 22 Jul 2008 06:45:00 PST

I need a 50 foot wave to sweep through NB

The cloudy morning made me slightly hopeful that it wouldn't be too hot. haha the jokes on me. I am completely exhausted! the opening has been technically 'open' for 11 minutes! I helped them bring in...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Sun, 20 Jul 2008 11:24:00 PST

unemployment and art

I got my last unemployment installment, now I get to file for extended benefits, weeee! As I hung up the phone I said, "Thanks America!" here's your American dream. I have a bachelors degree, true its...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Sun, 13 Jul 2008 08:46:00 PST

Love, Life, Living it

"Enjoy life. Intoxicate yourself with life. Describe it. Do not comment on it, or draw false conclusions." Fine advice via Anaïs Nin in a letter to Henry Miller. Its easier said than done for myself a...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Thu, 10 Jul 2008 07:30:00 PST

life’s journey.

I realize life is this big journey full of offshoots, discovery, wonder, obstacles, heartbreaks, butterflies, depression, dirt, grit, poetry and the like... and your supposed to find your own path and...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:11:00 PST

what I can find online...

I specifically turned on my computer to check a few things and then I was going to read. I checked the class I want to sign up for - its still open - sweet, I'm an unemployment waiver student (because...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Wed, 25 Jun 2008 01:39:00 PST

unemployment and flowers.

Called the department of Labor and stupidity - I mean training. I feel like maybe with all the people on unemployment maybe they should have us answer phones, then the unemployed (or partially unemplo...
Posted by Superfluous Designs on Mon, 16 Jun 2008 10:41:00 PST