I'd like to meet:
"Hence love is based on a desire to live in anguish in the presence of an object of such high worth that the heart cannot bear to contemplate losing it. The fever of the senses is not a desire to die. Nor is love the desire to lose but the desire to live in fear of possible loss, with the beloved holding the lover on the very threshhold of a swoon. At that price alone can we feel the violence of rapture before the beloved"-Georges Bataille