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Ruthie

Proud Mother of 4 Wonderful Kids !!!!!

About Me

I get my Free MySpace Layouts at LayoutStreet.comHello there well I..v lived in Vallejo all my life and have 4 kids and married for 10 yrs with him for 13 yrs. Own my home for 5 yrs. We have 1 cat named pepper and a dog named Maximo. My oldest son Dennis Gonzales passed away Jan 3rd 2004 of cancer. Dennis lived for 6 months more when we found out what he had. Dr Wong from Santa Clare Kaiser gave us 6 more months and we loved every minute of it. Thanks Dr wong and your staff. After that he was a very happy person and always wanted me to laugh and never cry. Dennis would be 17yrs old and a very nice looking boy. When Dennis got sick he was 5..5, then after chemo and pills, when he passed he was 6..2. The doctors said that the cancer in his chest was so big that it was holding him back form growing. Dennis was the first boy who had 15 people who matched for bone merrow transplant, but the last chemo Dennis did was the thing that stoped Dennis for getting the transplant . I went through hell to have him and hell to lose him. But I have 3 more kids that keep me going every day. Also thanks to my mom Pattand Pa and sister Tina and brother-n-law Dade and for helping me go through the worst thing any parent could go through, they saved me. My husband Javier is the best man in the world. Javier helped me raise Dennis from 3yrs old and was there when he passed in our home 2:00 am Jan 3rd, 2004 in Vallejo Ca. Javier was able to stop me from doing stupid things and helped me with our kids when I needed him. He never left my side and was there to pick me up when I fell. Javier is my life.My daughter Monica (12) is a very shy young lady but is a TOM BOY, but you would never know that she was shy.My daughter Olivia she is (9) but acts like she is 20, and she is a girly girl.My baby boy Javie is (5) and is very out spocken little (5) yrs old. He loves his sisters. He also misses Dennis very much.I now have a new niece named Mia Bella Sallade she is the cuttest little girl you will ever see. Mia is going to have a new baby Brother in Oct. 2007. Just can not wait to see him. His name is going to be Cole David Sallade.I have a sister Julia and she has 4 kids Ray, Wayne, Angielea, Alex.I have one more Sister Gloria and she has 2 boys Sam and Nickie.They both are merried.My mother Patt and step father Tino was there for me also every day when Dennis was in the hospital. They also had to take care of my little baby Javi when I was in the hospital for 6 months. Tino also shaved his hair off when Dennis lost his from chemo. My mother would stay at the hospital so I could go home to be with my kids and husband. She would stay there for 2 or 3 night..s for me, she is the best mother any child could ever wish for. Thanks mom I love you with all my heart.My father Fred Dominguez and step mother Rose Dominguez were also there for me too they came every day to vist Dennis and myself they would wash our cloths and bring things for us to do. They made a Birthday cake for me and brought it to the hospital for me. Thank you both for being there for us when we needed you the most.For my sister Tina and brother-n-law Dade Sallade they were our life saver. They paid our bills for us when we were not working and gave us money when we needed it. They were there when Dennis was very sick. They helped me with all funural and paper work and stuff that I could not do. I wanted to repay them for what they have done for us so I..m now working for them in Napa Ca. Napa Valley Ice .It is a great place to work.They were both there for Dennis last days of life. They were both with me when Dennis passed in our home in Vallejo. Thanks you guys for being there for Dennis and myself. I LOVE YOU !NAPA VALLEY ICE 1964 IROQUOIS ST NAPA, CA 94559 707-226-7487 707-226-3644 FAX ONLY ICE IN COMPANY IN VALLEJO,NAPA,BENICIA,LAKE BERRESA AREA. OPEN MON, WED, FRI, 9AM-4PM OPEN 9AM-3PM SAT.My Aunt Vickie was there for us as well she moved in to our home in Vallejo from Santa Rosa to take care of my girls and take them to school and watch my home for me for 6 months. Thank you Tia I love you with all my heart.Dennis went to MIT Acd. in Vallejo and there were a few kids and teachers that were there for us too. Mrs Monica Mockial gave my kids food and stuff to do every day. Dennis loved her. He said that she was a cool teacher. Thanks for all the help you all gave us and for the food and flowers.Dennis also went to Franklin Jr High and they also did a thing about Dennis in last years yearbook. Thank you all for comming and doing the article on Dennis it was great.I Ruthie Alvarez is the luckest women on the earth to have a great family

My Interests

Right know I..m working at Napa Valley Ice. Taking care of kids and Husband Javier.

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Heroes:

My son Dennis is my HERO and always will be. He was stroung when Dr Wong told him that he was going to die. He cryed a little and then he said fuck it and was happy untill he passed away. His last words to me were. Mom I will give you a nickle to tickle my pickle.

My Blog

Tina and Dade`s New Baby

Hello all well my sister Tina and Dade and Mia Bella are getting ready to have ther 2end Baby. Baby is going to be a BOY and they have just decided on the name. COLE DAVID SALLADE Is that the bestest ...
Posted by Ruthie on Tue, 28 Aug 2007 08:33:00 PST

Hello every one!

Hello there well it was hard but I got it done hope every one likes it.Check out my pics. Were you all at?
Posted by Ruthie on Fri, 24 Feb 2006 12:15:00 PST