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Connie

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

I wear pink only about twice a year. Pleasantly surprised often. Book writing, cooking and the yoga of beauty currently comprise my passions. I am currently: enjoying possibilities that I didn't know existed yesterday; reminding myself to breathe; seeking a Qi Gong instructor; occasionally popping off in my latent New Jersey accent; looking ahead with joy. Omo Oya, Omo Obatala, Awo Orunmila. What else do you need to know...

My Interests

African indigenous spiritual traditions. The Ifa corpus. The Yoruba language. Humanitarian aid. HIV/AIDS education. Child soldiers and AIDS orphans in Uganda and Sudan. The truth in its many forms. My shoeboxes full of hundreds of old 4-track recordings, every single one off-key. Forging forward on the path. This good bottle of wine. Creating new recipes. Roasting the perfect chicken. Sushi bowls. August weddings. Oh, and swimming laps at the gym. You'll have to ask about the rest...

I'd like to meet:

Anyone who wants to play the steel drums in Trinidad and Tobago. Anyone up for world travel. Kofi Annan and possibly a few new friends of either the male or female variety. You must be able to form complete sentences at least some of the time. Jeff Buckley and Elliot Smith, but will have to wait until the afterlife. Comandante Marcos. Yoko Ono. Condoleeza Rice so I can smack her upside the head. Ditto for Mel Gibson - he must be stopped. I have no interest in meeting the Pope, unless he brings those nifty wafers, but tea with the Dalai Lama would be most welcome.

SPECIAL NOTE TO MEN: I know, I know, you're interested in my mind.

SPECIAL NOTE TO WOMEN IN BIKINIS SENDING FRIEND REQUESTS: Eat a sandwich.

SPECIAL NOTE IN GENERAL: Please be reasonable. If you can't be reasonable, at least be funny.

Music:

Music in languages I don't understand, Appalachian, classical, jazz, traditional Yoruba praise songs and rhythms and anything real. Fiona Apple, Patty Griffin, Lucinda Williams. Wilco, Beck, Rufus Wainwright, Andrew Bird and Phillip Roebuck. Bebel Gilberto, Manu Chao, Francisco Aquabella, Ali Farka, Boubacar Traore, Habib Koite, Amadou and Miriam. Pretty much any sound that doesn't denigrate other human beings.

Movies:

Marie Antoinette is my new favorite movie. And Clue, from the 1980's. I know every line - corny, but true.

Television:

No. Turn off the TV, people.

Books:

Culture and the Senses: Bodily ways of knowing in an African community by Kathryn Linn Guerts (really good). Anything David Sedaris. Anything Tom Robbins. Cheap yet entertaining novels about housewives solving murders and such. Folklorics and history.

Heroes:

Every day, another one.
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My Blog

New Website

Finally getting a central website put up off the (on the?) beaten path.  Included are articles and research that have been developing for a long, long time that no longer have homes elsewhere on ...
Posted by Connie on Fri, 25 Jan 2008 07:01:00 PST

Blog from Beirut

Brilliant.  Mazen Kerbaj is an artist in Beirut, one of the very real people living amid the bombing. http://mazenkerblog.blogspot.com/  ...
Posted by Connie on Sat, 22 Jul 2006 11:25:00 PST

Children and the war in Uganda

  Thank you to journalist Matt Kettmann and photographer Connie Aramaki for getting this into the press, re the Lord's Resistance Army and their practice of kidnapping children from villages...
Posted by Connie on Sun, 02 Jul 2006 10:52:00 PST

Top 9 Things I Won't Miss About Santa Rosa

By the grace of god, I am moving away. Upon reflecting on the things I would miss, I was met with an odd zen-like brainstate. I was, however, pummelled by the things I will NOT cry for. I don't know w...
Posted by Connie on Sat, 20 May 2006 11:50:00 PST

Heeding the Ancestral Call - Read This Book!

One of my elders won the 2005 Urban Spectrum Award: National Best Book on African Spirituality      Tracing Ancestor lineage back to the root ... and giving a little...
Posted by Connie on Tue, 16 May 2006 11:10:00 PST

Kenya rejects aid of Dog Food

Kenya rejects aid of 'dog food'Kenya's government is outraged by an offer of food aid from a NewZealand dog food manufacturer to help the 4m people hit by drought.But Christine Drummond told the BBC s...
Posted by Connie on Sat, 13 May 2006 08:33:00 PST

Dig a Hole Through the Center of the Earth

I don't know why, but I like this a lot. www.digholes.com  
Posted by Connie on Mon, 08 May 2006 08:49:00 PST

Santa Barbara Women's Conference

Maria and Lynda are my fabulous adoptive aunties, and do amazing work.  We'd love to see you there.  This year's event is named Weaving Old Ways with New and features the blessing and honor...
Posted by Connie on Sun, 07 May 2006 07:19:00 PST

U.N. Food Cut for Sudan - NYTimes

U.N. Agency Cuts Food Rations for Sudan Victims By LYDIA POLGREEN Published: April 29, 2006 KHARTOUM, Sudan, April 28 The World Food Program, the United Nations agency responsible for feeding three ...
Posted by Connie on Sun, 30 Apr 2006 06:22:00 PST

More from Sparrow

from America: A Prophecy   At night milk is black. Volcanoes are safe most days. Anything can be gift-wrapped. The cheapest anchor floats. A bomb can't destroy dust. Mice give milk, too. Romeo w...
Posted by Connie on Sun, 23 Apr 2006 03:46:00 PST