LIFE:in no particular order... family,friends,my crazy ass dog,tattoos,female tattoo artists,other heavily and WELL tattooed women,getting tattooed,getting pierced,other tattooed/pierced people,chocolate chip ice cream,good food,teavana,japanese tea cup collecting,stimulating conversation,being listened to,being assertive,reading,sleeping,the smell of Downy on clothes warm from the dryer,dancing for hours in packed sweaty nightclubs,laughing,cuddling,taking care of people(no matter how much they piss me off!!),smelling good,spooning,shoes,leather jackets,japanese art,seahorses,sparrows,jewelry,silver,my ancestors,adinkra symbols,my jade bracelet from Evonne,people who say what they want and mean it,having no regrets,smoking(Lord knows I need to quit),driving at night,the smell of rain,honesty,gel pens,homemade paper stationary,handwritten letters,hebrew,my mom's sweetpotato pie,ice cold pepsi,the feel of my daughter's face in my neck while she's falling asleep,beautiful artwork,music that my soul remembers, and sometimes silence.
Sia,Gnarls Barkley,Jill Scott,Erykah Badu,Common,Platinum Pied Pipers,Bjork,Outkast,Dwele,Thrice,Elbow,deep house,Massive Attack,Esthero,Cee-lo,N.E.R.D,Rashaan Patterson,Meshell Ndegeocello,the Roots,Mos Def,Fela Kuti,Red,Hot,and Riot,Sade,Jimi Hendrix,Steveie Wonder,JAMAR,DeadCanDance,Miles Maeda,Derrick Carter,Leela James,Donnie Hathaway...the list could go on and on... Me and Nic(DJ Dino)at FLY @ the Upstairs Lounge. Where's Luan?
Before having a kid, I could easily read 2 books a week. I tend to read a lot of fantasy/sci-fi stuff. Octavia Butler is probably my all time fave author. Tananarive Due,"old" Poppy Z. Brite,Nola Hopkins,and Laurell K. Hamilton are other favorites. I have a toddler, so finishing a book these days takes FOREVER.I am, however, a shameless magazine whore. ...and thank the stars for this man. Kevin Clash, the voice of Elmo. He entertains my little one long enough for me to endulge in my magazine habit.
MY HERO IS MY MOTHER. She's been through sooo much in her life including outliving more that one of her children. Yet she is content, open, and generous with her kind words, "mutha-wit", and infectious laughter. Despite all of the bullshit life has handed her, she has managed to overcome the bitterness that taints so many. I admire her patience, her spirit, her intelligence, knowlege, and her enourmous capacity to accept, understand, and love. Quoting Santino from Project Runway season 2, "MY MOM'S THE SHIT, Y'ALL!" ... Debra Wilson. Not only do I love her because she is funny as hell... ..she's the FIRST heavily tattooed black woman I've EVER seen on the cover of International Tattoo magazine.