BoMaR

We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty. ~Maya Angelou ~“Most folks are about as happy as they make their minds up to be.” - Abraham Lincoln Hello! Just call me Bomar. I have wonderful kids and a wonderful husband. I am HAPPILY married and I highly recommend it. I love being a wife and a mom. I consider it a privilege to be a parent. I currently live in Arizona it is very hot here. I live in the high desert area. After being here over a year I love the desert it is gorgeous. I love the seasons here. I grew up in Colorado and I miss the snow, it is really pretty there but I think it is prettier in the desert. I did do some moving around as a kid and lived in some great places for brief periods, some of the places are Chula Vista California, Kingman Arizona, and Astoria Oregon. Astoria is so wonderful I tried to talk my hubby into moving there but it was too far from Colorado for him. I am a really positive person. I like to be the optimist and 9 times out of ten I can honestly say in any given crowd I am usually by far the most optimistic. I love people all different types of people, I really think that you can learn something from everyone and while there are a lot of bad people, there are more good people. I am 30 years old and I still have not fully made my mind up about a career and while I do have an associates degree I still need to go back to school and do more, and believe me you I will be going back as soon as my hubby finishes up his degree. Some of my past career choices are: Welding, yep I was a certified welder, mig , tig, arc, I actually did it all, and loved it. Government employee, that was fun I worked for the Department of Commerce and I have to admit I regret leaving my position but life had other great things in store. I am a licensed life and health agent, I really found that i have a great talent as a sales person, and I love the insurance industry. I currently work for an emergency road service company, I love the people I work with and I live in a small town so it is a lot like a family, the company I work for bends over backwards for its employees and I am proud to be a part of the team. And most importantly a wife and mother and that is the most rewarding of all. I have an unusually colorful past, I can say I have done a lot of living, a lot of loving, and a whole lot of falling on my ASS. And I do consider myself a Christian, I am spiritual and not religious. I really think God made me who I am, and he does not make mistakes. I do strive to be the best I can be at everything, some times I have to remind myself I am human, and I have to fall down to get back up and some times I screw up and I hurt people, but I never mean to and I have learned how to say: hey I am sorry I really screwed up. I spent a lot of years on a careless and wreck less path and I am still working on making amends. I have to work hard but I know I will get there.The thing I have learned for sure is that if you judge something you may just become it. So be careful not to judge leave that to your higher power.If I could send the world a message it would be.STOP JUDGING and START LOVING.I enjoy myspace for reconnecting with old friends. And making some great new friends too.
As you can see I love Maya Angelou as a matter of fact, I am pretty big into motivational speakers and I really love educational and motivational magazines, books and anything that you can do to get to know yourself and become the best you possible .
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