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February 11,2008- PART 1. Right vs. Wrong: Recognizing the difference:.....Plain and simple, the right choice will almost always be the choice that is the hardest to make...the choice that you may seem to "inconvenience" you the most. There is no easy way out or a quick fix to things. You may think so for the time being, but if you really look at it, greater burdens come when you try to go forward with one of the formentioned. You might not see the repercussions right away, but trust that they will be there, and some of you won't ever even have your eyes opened up wide enough to see them. NEVER choose something that may make you feel good in the moment, over patiently waiting for something that will leave you feeling incredible for a lifetime...
Part 2. Beauty amongst the Pain:...As those of you who really know ME, know that aside from my comedic genius side, deep down I'm always in a constant state of deep contemplation. One of the latest conclusions that I've come to is that no matter how much anyone may have wronged me it truly is a beautiful thing when they've learned something from me...that the pains i've suffered from someone else will, given time, eventually teach them something when they've reached a point in their lives & personal growth that they open themselves up to learnin' from the wrongs they've done...whether it be to me or someone else in their life, in order to better themselves. How the ones that come after me will get a better person than the one I experienced!! With that having been said you have to keep in mind that when you meet a great person, most likely someone else suffered pain from them which helped guide them to the wonderful person that you were blessed to experience...and thus the cycle continues. It all really holds true to that age old law of physics in that for every (negative) action will come an equal and opposite (positive) reaction. Even though we aren't normally the ones who get to see that positive reaction, we know it's still out there happening to someone, somewhere else, even if it's at our own expense...How beautiful is that?!?! The greatest teachers are also those who are the greatest learners...
~October 15, 2007~ Knowledge Vs. Wisdom~ This is a topic that has been on my mind quite a bit lately, especially the last week or so. What is the difference between knowledge and wisdom? The answer is quite simple, APPLICATION. Knowledge comes before Wisdom and Wisdom is attained after the knowledge that someone has, has been applied to their own lives. I've come across numerous people this past year who claim to have such a vast amount of wisdom on life, love, relationships, people, etc. but overtime I have discovered that not a single one of them actually has any real wisdom since none of what they claim to know, has been personally applied to their lives. They have KNOWLEDGE & could be said to be KNOWLEDGEABLE people, but as far as wisdom goes that is something they clearly lack. It's basically as simple as someone has been diagnosed with cancer & that same person just so happens to have the cure for cancer, & yet they never use it. Knowledge doesn't do anyone much good until it has been applied ones life. So, with that having been said are YOU truly WISE or merely KNOWLEDGEABLE???
October 8, 2007_ My Contemplations at the Moment-----It's almost ironic how we spend so much of our time trying to pick up all of the pieces of our broken little lives, sometimes to the point where the feeling of being whole & healed seems like nothing more than a faint memory than an actual reality. It's almost difficult for us to see past all our hardships and pain once the brokeneness subsides & the healing sets in & start allowing ourselves to recognize the real beauty that inevitably envelopes and becomes us, despite the many scars which have been left behind.------ No matter what we've been through, shameful things we've done, pain we've suffered, or mistakes we have made, all of those things and then some have helped pave the way for each of us becoming the people we are today. However, even though those things are a PART of who we are, we should never in any way allow those things alone to DEFINE who we are.------You can run from and/or turn a blind eye to the truth as much as you want to, but eventually the truth will catch up with you in the worst way, leaving you no choice but to face it head on. Trust that when it does, it will be a making or breaking point in your life.
September 14, 2007_ LET THE TRUTH BE TOLD!!!---- Why is it that we as people create truths for our lives on a daily basis, & then when we're confronted with those truths we want to get upset about what we're hearing?? Instead of seeing those truths, which we have ultimately created for ourselves, for what they really are, we'd rather just let them all go unsaid & continue to do the very things that lead to the creation of those nasty lil truths??? I mean seriously...WTF?? If you don't like the truths that YOU YOURSELF have created, how about next time instead of getting mad when the truth is told about you, you take action & change the things in you're life that you're doing to create those ever so ugly truths you don't like hearing about. That way when the truth comes up again, it doesn't sound so harsh on your ears!! Can I get an Amen for some good 'ol COMMON SENSE?!?! Simply put, if you don't like the way something sounds when it's addressed, CHANGE IT, so the next time it's addressed you don't mind hearing it!! Yes, it is as simply complicated as that!!
~August 28, 2007~ I believe that it's not until we come to the realization and acceptance of our own insignificance in life, that we can truly begin to achieve our ultimate greatness.
They say that haters really are like fans because only the GREATEST have them, so it's no wonder why I happen to have SO MANY!! So...this goes out to all of my ADORING FANS!!! FUCK WHAT YOU'VE HEARD & RECOGNIZE WHAT YOU SEE, YOU'VE GOT SOME LESSONS TO LEARN CUZZ YOU BITCHES DON'T KNOW ME!! PLEASE feel free to come by and visit my page on the regular...like most of YOU are already doin'. Go 'head on n take a look around and read through my writings and look through the pix of me and my ever so beautiful baby boys. PLEASE, take a good close look at all the things that YOU will NEVER have,the peoples' lives that YOU will NEVER be a part of, & the WOMAN that NONE of YOU will EVER even come close to BEING, or being with!!! Now, moving on...