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Let's see...I'm 33 yrs old who's super girlie girl, intuitive, temperamental, outspoken when I need to be, affectionate, sexy, intelligent, fun, outgoing, spontaneous, witty, strong willed, ambitious, hard working, sweet, kind, and adventuress. I don't have any regrets in my life. Everything I've accomplished has proven to me that if you really believe in yourself and keep a positive mind-set, anything in life is possible. . I have accomplished so many great things. I've overcome many great obstacles and at the end realized that in life you can only embrace it and love it for what it is. Life is a journey of learning experiences. On my spare time I enjoy spending time with my kids, family and friends...thank you ALL for being there for me when I needed you the most. I'm far from being Ms. Perfect and I have my flaws like everyone else but I truly believe in mutual respect towards one another, standing for what you believe, and that everything and anything is possible to achieve in life as long as you focus on your achievements in LIFE :) I also believe that things happen for a reason...they just don't happen just to happen. Circumstances and situations can change our lives forever...but it's how we deal with those changes that will determine how we will live our life. So the moral of this story is that life is too short so make the most out of everyday. LiVe LiFe To ThE FuLLeSt without regrets....

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POELTRY, Reading, Dancing, Camping, Taking Trips, and Living Life to its fullest....

I'd like to meet:

I would love to meet REAl People not FAKE ones especially Sean Paul!!!

Movies:

All Action, Comedy & some Chick-Flicks.....

Television:

Prison Break of course!!!! Grey's Anatomy & HOUSE...

Books:

Novels by Danielle Steele & books by Joel OlsteinMy Favorite of ALL time: Oprah's words of wisdom on menIf a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street.You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.Keep him in your radar but get to know others.Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Heroes:

My Father & GOD!!!!

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WORDS TO LIVE BY.....

Oprah's words of wisdom on men ..: If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.Allow you...
Posted by HATED BY MANY...LOVED BY PLENTY on Tue, 09 Jan 2007 04:01:00 PST

AS I'VE MATURE

Posted by HATED BY MANY...LOVED BY PLENTY on Fri, 05 Jan 2007 11:59:00 PST

POEM AIM TO ALL MEN!!!

POEM The poem is aimed at men who wanna give up trying to salvage/maintain/build their relationships or marriages cause you know, a lot of them don't know how or don't want to carry their weight...
Posted by HATED BY MANY...LOVED BY PLENTY on Fri, 08 Dec 2006 11:35:00 PST

"Words of Wisdom"

I picked up small book full of wise words that I have not been able to put down since. I have probably gone through it and read it at least five times, applying those things that she says to my curren...
Posted by HATED BY MANY...LOVED BY PLENTY on Mon, 23 Oct 2006 02:21:00 PST

Procrastination

Procrastination. It's an evil I fall into each and every semester. At the beginning of each semester, I tell myself the same thing, "Nina, you're going to be on top of things this time. No last minute...
Posted by HATED BY MANY...LOVED BY PLENTY on Thu, 04 May 2006 01:15:00 PST

One and Only

One and Only You are the only one I need.You are all they want to be.You are the only one who can see,just exactly what happened to me!Just exactly why I died,it is impossible to hide.I wish you neve...
Posted by HATED BY MANY...LOVED BY PLENTY on Fri, 21 Apr 2006 11:51:00 PST